This guy I really like asked me if I prefer guys that are good looking or that were nice. He is also very touchy feely and asked me "why don't you have a boyfriend, you are very beautiful."
When he compliments me and calls me "beautiful" or "sexy" I tell him "nahh oh thank you."
He also tells me that I am his best friend that's a girl.
Was this just casual conversation?
I am reserved around guys and I usually don't let them touch me on the back and such but I don't mind if he does, does that make me look easy in his eyes?
I plan on waiting until marriage btw.
Thank you :)
Also--do you think girls and guys can be JUST friends??
2006-12-28 19:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Of course---anybody can be friends with anyone--did you think there was a rule or a law against it.? True friends are there for you ---and you don't ever have to explain anything to them. You should be respectful, accepting and caring--to a point. Touch and feel seems to be a way for your friend to slowly wear down your resistance--would he do it if you were plain looking? So you are pretty--lots of people are pretty--make it clear as a friend--do not touch and talk about something else--learn to excuse yourself when the conversation turns about your looks or whatever makes you uncomfortable--he should eventually get the message--if not---and he asks why you are making yourself scarce---explain that he makes you uncomfortable--A friend should understand and honor your feelings..he'll get over it--if not--too bad. Stick to the right path and you will do just fine.
2006-12-28 19:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might have a crush but he could indeed just be an affectionate & considerate guy. 4the record, my best friend is a guy & we started out the same way. We have a hidden infatuation with 1 another but that has grown over time & we respect one another not only as friends but as individuals. I can talk 2 him about anything & we have a deep love 4 one another that can never be replaced by any other 1 thing or any other 1 person. I wouldnt trade his love 4 anything in the world
2006-12-28 19:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ur right u should wait till Marriage
He obviously has A crush on u But u know how Guys are , a minute they have a crush on u and then they change their Minds...Im going through the same thing with dis Guy I learn music with in da conservatory , i think of him as a Friend but he has a small crush on me .But i still play hard to get , and i dont let him think that i'm easy ..Just play it Kool Gurl
Yes a guy and a girl can be Just Friends
i m sure about that
2006-12-28 19:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♥R♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally support your decision to wait until marriage and I have made same decision. I`m nearly 21 and still stick to the decision. Doesnt mean though you cant be intimate with someone, you just have to set boundaries. I personally dont believe in PURE friendship between guys and girls from the very beginning. They can be friends later, after 1 of the people got over the crush. Or maybe they were actually going out, broke up, but got over it and became friends.
2006-12-28 19:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I like girls like you, I should defi-farking-nitely find a virgin or I'll be a bachelor forever. That doesn't make you easy in my opinion, my ex, who is a complete biiitch, did more unacceptable things than you did. As for "friendship', that's impossible, there's no such a thing between males and females.
2006-12-28 19:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girls & Guys can be just friends, if they dont have any feelings, if thay have some different feeling rather than friendship, should never name as friendship.As it is one of the worst thing.
2006-12-28 19:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure why not, but if one feels something deeper it'll be different, coz no matter how callous the other person involve is, it'll be an issue less over friendship. non the less no big deal, life is not supposed to be an specific thing, it can be in different forms and combination, you just need to find yours.
2006-12-28 19:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ritoru A 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, of course.
2006-12-28 21:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my experience only if you start off as friends and nothing else, otherwise it gets difficult
2006-12-28 19:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by nomadlet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um yeah sure why not.he probaly thinks you as one his best friends.or maybe he likes you.and wahts touchy feely.hahaha lmfao
2006-12-28 19:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jermaine 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋