lets say if a families daughter is in a relationship that the parents dont agree with or like,does the daughter let the parents ruin the relationship or risk loosing the love of her parents
2006-12-28 19:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by buckie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
surely even if you followed through with the relationship your parents disagree with, your parents wouldn't stop loving you... if they "did"... I don't think they really loved you (or her, the daughter). that is hard, I'm sorry to say. surely they would not stop loving you for something like that, no matter how strongly they feel.
now, the answer to this question lies with what culture you are from, how old you are, how much you respect your parents and/or believe they have a point, and what code of ethics you choose to follow.
this "follow your heart" and "rebel" thing... it's very American... but it doesn't apply to everyone... and there's nothing wrong with deciding with your parents... if that's what you chose to do. It's important that you make the choice though. Whatever the choice is, come to a choice in your heart based on logical reasoning on what is important to you (and what you are legally allowed to do based on your age)... and you'll surely feel "okay" with your decision.
i wish you the best.
2006-12-28 19:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by justwannaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she will lose their love just because they dont like the person she is in a relationship with. Even if it is a gay relationship, I think the parents will eventually learn to accept it, that is if the parents are normal loving parents. A lot also depends on the age of the daughter, whether or not she is old enough to make a mature decision. For instance if she is a minor, and the guy (or girl) is over 18 then the girl needs to obey her parents, or if the person is dangerous or has a drug or criminal past, then she needs to obey her parents.
2006-12-28 19:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been through the same situation n so i know just how it feels to have a relationship that parents oppose...see.. ther are some aspects u need to think before you decide wat's wrong or right for you.Why is it that ur parents are against your relationship with this person?? Think without being biased... are they wrong?? if yes.... then again... do you love this person enough to be able to fight for the dignity of your relation with your parents? are both of you committed enough to fight against all odds? in my case... my parents thought that my bf was useless... but i never left his side an stuck by my decision t marry him coz i knew his capability . after 4 yrs of hostility we're still together an will marry very soon. My parents had to accept my decision coz they knew i love him a lot.But u got to realize th fact that there will be fights involved..u got to fight it out an convince ur parents.. an that can happen only wen u both have a very firm relationship...an if u aint sure then believe me.... it's not worth it. you mst not trouble your parents for a trivial relationship that holds no certainty.. jus be wise n step back. hope u'll take th decision that's best for you!!with love n payers....
2006-12-28 19:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by sonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is best if you not continue the relationship, if it is possible that they would like anyone better! The couple should have the support for the most part of the parents. Otherwise, everyone is miserable! The parents are critical, which hurts the person they don't like, and it leaves the mate of that person in a dilemma. The person who is disliked always feels like they ruined their mate's life by separating him/her from their family. Very difficult. Usually if parents don't like the person, it will never change, they will just try and disguise it. She will always feel rejected, and they will always treat her differently than they should. FIND SOMEONE WHO THEY LIKE FOR EVERYONE'S SAKE IF POSSIBLE. Good luck.
2006-12-28 19:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never lose the love of your parent. Well almost never, at least for this reason.
Having said that, my answer is NO. And the reason is that you will break the hearts of two people who have given their best to you; it is worse than treason. You will not understand what I have just said until you have given birth to a child.
Your love should try to win the hearts of your parents. A married life is never fully happy without the blesssing of parents. (The opposite is not necessarily true tho - that is a marriage blessed by parents will be a happy one).
2006-12-28 19:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents never let their children to suffer if she really loves him , she can convince her parents , even if the person is good , the parents also will agree for the marrige.
Then their is no matter of loosing parents love.
2006-12-28 19:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't ever wanna get in the way of true love! But it is easier if the parents agree. Plus how old are you???? If under 21 or are still under their roof you should take there advice or just kick it down to friendship. If love is really there is can take the demotion.
2006-12-28 19:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every parents know what the best for their own sons...i think they may a reasons why your parents disagree with that relationship...
i worried if the relationship goes without permission from our parents believe me someday you will regret that decision..it is not a story of romeo and juliet...keep our mum and dad happy is more important than anything in the world
2006-12-28 19:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it always depends on how serious the relationship is. if you think that the relationship is worth saving... then i should say you should fight for the relationship... eventually, parents would always want to see their kids happy..and, if you are able to prove to the parents that the bohth of you are happy, then who knows... they may have a change of heart and accept the relationship...
on the other hand, if you think that your relationship isnt for long-term...then dont waste your time..
2006-12-28 19:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by click 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i soo feel for you man!i AM currently in a relationship my mom does not approve of. I love the guy, and the guy loves me more than I love him(I'm sure about this). so if you really love the person, you should stick to the relationship.life's too short to NOT spend it with someone you love so much =)
2006-12-28 19:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by WAHMaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋