Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I am a 25 year old man. I'm 5' 11", 170 lbs, athletic build, I work out twice a week, and I don't smoke. I've been told I am more than attractive. I have never cheated on anyone I have dated, I'm honest and trust worthy. I have a good job with excellent pay and benefits, I live on my own, and I drive a good car and have a motorcycle. I have a big family, I get a long with my parents, I have a good education, and I love the outdoors, especially camping. My goal in life is to become a father and husband. I'm easy to get along with and can keep any conversation going. Sexually, I have the right equipment, which I have been told is more than adequate.

So why am I single? Is there any part of the above that would scare women away that I am not aware of? This is important to me because I just kind of feel unwanted at the moment.

2006-12-28 19:03:58 · 20 answers · asked by helo2k6 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy is really nice even though I gave him alot of drama. He told me he could never get angry at me. I have a BF but I want to leave him because I like the new guy better. The new guy doesn't know this but I did tell him I like him better. I told the new guy I couldn't talk to him for about 1 month but I still text him everyday..not alot but tell him things like you are awesome and stuff like that of a good friend. But I think I do like him the otther day he did come online and waited for me fo about 1 hour but I am scared to talk to him, now because of all the drama I gave him before and I really like him alot but I don't know what he thinks..i told him we are good friends...

2006-12-28 19:03:19 · 8 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Singles & Dating

im involved with a married man whom ive met for 3 mos. i am married too..he has a son and im pregnant.i have a wonderful husband still doesnt know about the two of us.his wife caught our affair and she is trying to destroy my life by threatening me with so many things.involving my career.we know we love each other so much but theres no way to escape in this real life.we're in different places right now..we know the best way to do but we just cant stop communicating each other..we dont want to continue our affair for the sake of our own family.but we cant just stop thinking about ourselves..how can we solve this problem?im really having so much pain emotionally and mentally..i want this affair to stop.

2006-12-28 19:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by haylene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to go on a date with her too. But i am unsure if she really likes me or not. How should i ask her, or should i not even ask her if she does and just ask her out. Im confused please HELP

2006-12-28 19:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by e-dawg 1 in Singles & Dating

boobs? don't you know the purpose of them is for feeding our babies? not for men to drool over..

2006-12-28 19:01:29 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible to meet anather person (man/ woman)to make friendship through website ?.without any fees.

2006-12-28 19:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by Shreesha M 1 in Singles & Dating

Please tell....!

2006-12-28 19:01:12 · 15 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my bf and I need a distraction because I am in so much pain. Do you think its wrong to subscribe to yahoo personals this soon? Its only been a few days since we broke up. Also, do you think its safe? Please, if you have any experience with yahoo personals tell me about it.

2006-12-28 19:01:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 19:00:07 · 9 answers · asked by vick 3 in Singles & Dating

my b/f best friend has show that he is interested in many different ways. He has a girl and I dont want to be his girl. But I think that we both like each other and want sex from each other, so how do I make a move on him?

non- judgemental help please

2006-12-28 18:58:42 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Green 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14, a freshman. I recently moved from LA to Seattle, in August. Unforseen circumstances caused me to move back to LA in November.
I had this guy friend, J. We had some chemistry. But we were both cowards & maintained a strictly friends-only relationship. Me moving changed things. On my last day, we confessed that we liked each other, and I said goodbye with a PG kiss on the cheek. We're "boyfriend and girlfriend" now. We correspond mostly through email,almost daily.
A friend once read some of our emails and said I sound like I'm just talking to a guy friend. He said we need to get over this "barrier." Difficult, considering our formerly friends-only status.
What happens when we start running out of things to talk about? Any tips on how to keep this relationship alive? Do long distance relationships ever work out, especially when they have a weak foundation to start off with? Will we get any closer until we see each other again? Or will things only diminish from here?

2006-12-28 18:58:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A man will be making love to his girl friend while his mind is in another girl.

2006-12-28 18:57:48 · 8 answers · asked by calista e 1 in Singles & Dating

I have the adress of a person, and I want to find out if the person has a phone number. This person lives in the USA, and I live in Europe. I tried to reach this person several times even through the local church , but my search was not succesful. I need help with this. The person lives in Pensylvania. I tried to call her at the clinic she used to work at, but the operator said that there is no doctor by her name (I googled her name and I found that place). I need to find her as soon as posible. Please help me out :(

2006-12-28 18:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by c_c 1 in Family

Im ashamed to say it but im 15 and i have never had a girlfriend, i mean i know why well since i used to be a real chubby nerd, but now i got real skinny and got contacts, ive seen girls that check me out and stuff and girls who i think like me and tons of girls id like to know, the problem is im very shy, like super shy, Im a softmore i Highschool and i just dont want to end highschool without having a girlfriend, i just dont know how to ask a girl out, how? Thanks to all!

2006-12-28 18:54:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there is a girl I have known for years. Worked with her and attended high school and currently college. She is very outgoing, like me. LOVES the Packers. One night I was having a Packer party and I came into work, talked her out of going to see a guy she likes and instead going to the packer party I had. She came and we flirted, at the end of the night I asked her what about a date?
She said to call her. Though I later canceled after finding out from a friend that she told him if we did go on a date it would only be one and she told another friend of mine that "She did not expect that from me". Am I in the friend category or by scoring a date am I on the fence with her; friend or considering relationship material? I know she is willing to hang out with me. Though Does she like me more than a friend? Where do I lie? I would like more, but I went back and told her just friends for now and we have been acting like we always do, just flirting and joking...

2006-12-28 18:54:22 · 16 answers · asked by ram_zany23 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 18:54:10 · 14 answers · asked by shantal 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy and we are crazy about each other!
Thinking of him makes my heart skip a beat, wen something is wrong with him i get sympothy pains!
I think of him all the time and he calls like evry 30mins if we arnt together and we are always communicating in some way when we not together!

It breaks my heart when he gets hurt or if something happens to him that makes him sad etc...

He is 19!

He is on my mind ll the time and our familys get along well!
Is this love?

2006-12-28 18:52:29 · 30 answers · asked by Cassandra S 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost my ex girlfriend due to my disloyoalty... about 3 years ago and she tried with me again for 9 months and than she kicked me out. As far I know, she only had one relationship for 4 months. But I am still crazy about her and I want to convince her that I love her and that I would never do it again and I want her to give me another chance. Keep in mind that i am trying since we broke up... I don't want to give up... but I start to get the feeling I will never succeed.... What do you thinks girls? or experienced men? or how do I get over her?

2006-12-28 18:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by John Th 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have money and I don't want to brag, but I'm kinda like rich. I'm friendly and nice, but when people get to me I get mean and selfish. I want to know if its alright to be rich and friendly, but mean at times too.

2006-12-28 18:51:31 · 7 answers · asked by Cheerleader94 1 in Friends

i have this bf called Rishi .we knew each other in a game and we live in the same street,same country,study in same school and we are in the same class!but he always in the game or when we meet me he told me he like me in every way.but i love him and i can't tell him but to me his 'like' means 'love' so how can i tell if he love me or not even though he doesn't have a gf in his life?help!

2006-12-28 18:49:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! im a 16 year-old, attractive girl from some place you'll never know, and im looking for some advice about me and getting guys attentions.
i am a VERY shy person and the only way i flirt with guys is at school dances freaking is the way to go (our next dance is jan. 20th). im currently not in any clubs at school, dont do any sports, im in my school orchestra (no cute guys!), im pretty smart, have lots of friends, never had a bf before and the only guys that i can talk to with out getting tounge-tied is with all of my frosh friends down to 5th grade (dont ask but it has to do with baseball).
is there anyone out there can can give me some really good advice on how to:
1. be more out-going
2. be more flirty with guys (besides dances)
and
3. to get guys to notice me

**Pleae dont leave smart @ss remarks cause this is a serious question.**

2006-12-28 18:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This bird remains virgin for life and is known for its purity.

2006-12-28 18:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had an HIV test done and when I call the nurse is "busy!"?
I am awaiting an HIV test I had done about 3 weeks ago. They called yesterday and left a message for me to call them, and I called twice today and each time they put me on hold and tell me that no nurse is available to speak with me at that time, and that they'll call me back. They never called back.

I had unprotected sex a few years ago with a man I know was a needle user, and I also had other times where I did not use a condom..but the needle user is the one I worry about.

I am not proud of my actions, and have changed my ways, but I worry that it is about to come back to haunt me.

Why do you think that the nurse hasn't returned my call? I worry she's afraid to tell me that I have it!

2006-12-28 18:47:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would do just about anything realistic for my boyfriend, even if we werent together and he needed my help id be there for him. I care about him alot. but i just wake up somedays and i dont love him anymore. it happened twice now. the first time it happened i felt numb and no pain or feelings for him i stopped talking to him because i was thinking how good it was i could go without talking to him, he then called me and we talked and i felt feelings for him again, then the second time was this morning i woke up and i just felt sick about him and everything. but then he still came over and everything was fine. i know the feelings are there but they keep going away. and i dont want to give up on him. but how do i try staying in love with him. or is it just not worth it.

2006-12-28 18:43:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Assuming there is no condom and he ejaculates in you. Does anyone know they actual statistics?

2006-12-28 18:43:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been searching for my dream dress for a long time and I have found it. I was watching the movie "the sisterhood of the traveling pants" and the wedding dress the woman is wearing at the end of the movie is my dream dress! Does anyone know how I can find out what I need to do to find a dress like this one? Im getting married next year and this is the dress! Help

2006-12-28 18:42:13 · 11 answers · asked by nashvillekat 6 in Weddings

In an fresh relationship, if your girl friend is agry to you because of your un matured manner and you are to write a letter for forgiveness..how would you ?

2006-12-28 18:41:25 · 15 answers · asked by lsa 1 in Singles & Dating

2 years ago he broke up with me because i was around too much and he wasnt ready for us and he said he had self issues to fix. within to years he left the church band we were in together before but we sometimes walked passed each other at school. He graduated first. when i got sick and nearly died and he hasn't stopped asking for another chance but ive always been running away from him since we broke up. i changed my numbers for like 10 times already and i even left the church when he came back to the band a year ago. still he'd call me, text me, and come over the house but i continually refused him sometimes angrily. i was too hurt. sooo scared he'll do it again. i said no to his proposal. im sooo scared i'd lose him though but im just so scared to be hurt again that he hasnt changed. just 3 weeks ago he left for holiday vacation and dropped by before his flight. as usual, i treated him the same, then he stopped communicating. he's back in town. what does it mean?

2006-12-28 18:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by terra 4 in Singles & Dating

should i?
im only a freshman...

2006-12-28 18:41:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like i wnat to try it but i am not sure if i am ready i am 18 but still not sure

2006-12-28 18:39:12 · 49 answers · asked by emmaboo101 3 in Singles & Dating