Hi! im a 16 year-old, attractive girl from some place you'll never know, and im looking for some advice about me and getting guys attentions.
i am a VERY shy person and the only way i flirt with guys is at school dances freaking is the way to go (our next dance is jan. 20th). im currently not in any clubs at school, dont do any sports, im in my school orchestra (no cute guys!), im pretty smart, have lots of friends, never had a bf before and the only guys that i can talk to with out getting tounge-tied is with all of my frosh friends down to 5th grade (dont ask but it has to do with baseball).
is there anyone out there can can give me some really good advice on how to:
1. be more out-going
2. be more flirty with guys (besides dances)
and
3. to get guys to notice me
**Pleae dont leave smart @ss remarks cause this is a serious question.**
2006-12-28 18:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im about the ONLY junior girl at my school who HASN"T had a bf yet.
i am myself but just when im around 1 or 2 of my friends.
i need help!!!
2006-12-28 19:02:40 · update #1
well try talking to other guys u notice r shy too. get them to open up and u feel more comfortable with them because u know how they feel. and to get guys to notice u, psh they probably are and YOU just dont notice THEM. but to get ppl to notice u, just be urself. it always works and then ppl love u for who u r and not who u r pretending to be. and to be more outgoing, u just gotta learn to be comfortable in ur own skin and pay attention to little things ppl do. if u see someone who needs help, give them a hand. if u see someone who looks down, maybe ask whats wrong. or just compliment ppl. if u become known as the nice girl ppl might just start talking to u instead of u needing to go talk to them. but just dont over due the niceness and be too nice, ok? u can do this!!
2006-12-28 18:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too conscious of yourself. Guys around sure notice you but may be hesitant to come close probably because you're too stiff conscious. Loosen up. Circulate more with mixed groups in the campus. Dress a little more daring and exude confidence when you walk...also leave the orchestra and join the theatrical club.
2006-12-28 19:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Willie Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy, then that is your personality. It is not easy to change this. You will be very attractive to guys who like quiet, shy girls. The secret is to be available. This is done by joining some clubs in areas that you like. Go to areas that do not involve hoping some handsome cool guy will come up and ask you to dance. If you are attracted to someone,then go ask some neutral question like, "What did you think of today's class?". Act like you are interested in what the guy has to say. Ask questions, then he will talk and you will not have to.
Good luck.
2006-12-28 18:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be yourself. This is a very key thing. If he likes you for someone you protend to be, think about it, then he really doesnt like you but the person that you protended to be. Do you really want to feel like everything you have is based apon a false impersanation. You have to act yourself and if he does not like you for who you are, then he is not the right guy for you anyway. So go ahead and think about it, but I think you should act as you are, though remember, "to reveal the ending of a book is to ruin it and therefore make it unworthwhile to read it". Do not reavel to much to soon.
2016-03-28 23:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try talking and comunicating with guys more and always being friendly. You could be more flirty but thats not a good idea unless you want to be labeled a sl*t. Before you can be more than friends with someone you have to be friends with them first. So just try to make some guy friends and go from there.
2006-12-28 18:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by e-dawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go out to the movies with friends or the mall
and for guys 2 notice you just be more sophisticated and try to be funny and fun around them
and tell them they look good 2 day
guys sometimes like complements =]
2006-12-28 18:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪StEpHaNiE♪♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy..and when a shy girls that i normally would just pass by is wearing a skirt i always take another look..and maybe even talk to them...so my advice would be wear a skirt...it has gotten my attention and some of my friends think the same thing
2006-12-28 18:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talk alot around guys and they will come in on your conversation and they will see your personality and they may like u ! i am shy too but you just have to come out of your shell if u want attention.hope i helped! good luck..and it will work out soon..be pateint!
2006-12-28 18:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk toguys, and ask him about himself, dont tell him about yourself at first, then when he sees that you are interested in him (which you have shown by asking about hids interests and opinions), if he asks you about your life and your opinions then you will know he likes you, then you ask him out on a date. simple.
2006-12-28 18:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so basically your a loser... You need to go from zero to hero. Well meet "Mr. I will make you hot", aka ME! anyways.. You need to stand out wear something um sultry. Nothing with more than 1 color please, (we don't need any rainbows flying at a school dance now). basically, GET A MAKEOVER duh... waste money but most of all have fun! hahahaha
2006-12-28 18:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by dat_boy_lalo 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋