I am dating this guy and we are crazy about each other!
Thinking of him makes my heart skip a beat, wen something is wrong with him i get sympothy pains!
I think of him all the time and he calls like evry 30mins if we arnt together and we are always communicating in some way when we not together!
It breaks my heart when he gets hurt or if something happens to him that makes him sad etc...
He is 19!
He is on my mind ll the time and our familys get along well!
Is this love?
2006-12-28 18:52:29 · 30 answers · asked by Cassandra S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age has nothing to do with it, but if you're asking complete strangers to tell you if you are in love- no, you are not in love.
2006-12-28 18:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's quite possible to be in love at fifteen. However, the truth lies in whether you can decipher the difference between love and infatuation.
Around the age of fifteen, your body and mind are just getting started cracking the code on all these feelings and the physical things that go along with them (stomach somersaults, heartbeat skips, etc.). You can love a person now, and eventually grow into (and out of) that feeling.
The key is to stop questioning yourself and just enjoy what's going on right now. If this is your first love, you don't want to look back on this as an adult and remember asking questions on Yahoo!, as opposed to the time that you spent with the object of your affection.
Although his age is quite a startling point (considering your own), it's so important to remember to follow your mind more than your heart. Don't compromise yourself - in the end, between the two of you, the only person who will be there for you forever is YOU.
Just keep in mind that all of this is the beginning.
Buena suerte!
2006-12-29 03:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by rayediance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I fell in love with my now fiance at 15 and he was 19 too! YES you can be madly in love.Its young love now but when you guys have been together a long time it turns into a life lasting love! Its a beautiful thing.Right now you guys are in love and loving every moment of it! And thats truly beautiful.You are now exploring one another and learning new things about one another.Anyways to cut a long story short..YES IT IS POSSIBLE! The hard thing is keeping the love and not hurting it, but you can do that.Good Luck and Happy New Years! Im VERY HAPPY for YOU! :)
2006-12-29 02:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just the fact that you are asking complete strangers if this is love or not makes it seem like you have your doubts. Lets see, I thought I was in love too, at the age of 14. I was ALWAYS with my boyfriend (at that time)...couldn't get him off my mind! Always together, even slept over his house several times...he did the sweetest thing for me!! Always there for me...and guess what? I ended up pregnant at the age of 16...got married to him at the age of 17....and he LEFT ME ALONE at the age of 18. You need to be very careful and keep in mind that you are just beginning. You are really young and there's so much out there!! I was with my ex for a total of 5yrs and I sure thought it was love...I've met plenty of young teens that fall into the same trap. Hopefully your story ends differently
2006-12-29 02:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my opinion would be yes, because its totally obvious you two care about each other and would do anything for each other, but at the same time...(and i dont know how long you two have been dating) but if you want to know if its true love, see if it stands the test of time...i had a girlfriend once that i thought i loved but it was only infatuation and she lied to me and all this other crap...that only lasted about a year...kinda off and on though, but a year isnt that long to be dating someone.. see if you two can keep a relationship for like three years or something, and then you can ask if its love...im fifteen too and i HATE it when adults think that just because we are young we cant love, its possible for teens to truly love someone.
2006-12-29 03:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by music_king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can fall in love but believe me, when you look back on it 5 or 10 years from now, you're going to realize that it was more puppy love than true love. Love doesn't mean you can't go a day without talking to someone. I'm not sure love involves sympathy pains either but, whatever floats your boat.
2006-12-29 02:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but NO, u feel bad when he gets hurt becuse u care about him, and u just think u feel the acctual pain , but u dont, and he is and adult, ur 15! , make sure he loves u back , u can love some one at any age but is this love gonna last long, that i wont bet one, it might but it also it may not so dont put ur slef at place when ur left with a borken hearth if u know what i mean,
2006-12-29 02:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't fall in love at 15.
He on the other hand can be put in jail. Leave the guy alone. Grow up and in 5 years contact him and see if you guys are meant for each other.
2006-12-29 02:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
from what you described, this is puppy love. don't let anyone tell you what you feel is not real, but it is not matured. the older you get, the more you will understand about love, relationships, people, overcoming problems, and so on. for now, just guard your heart with care because the pain can be real when you get hurt.
2006-12-29 02:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in love at 15, my girl friend is 17
2006-12-29 02:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can fall in love at 15 i did and married the love of my life and i am still married to him . and i have no regrets ,but i would tell you to be sure he is the one take things very slow and don't rush into anything serious like wanting to get married . this way you will know for sure he is the one you love.
2006-12-29 02:59:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋