im involved with a married man whom ive met for 3 mos. i am married too..he has a son and im pregnant.i have a wonderful husband still doesnt know about the two of us.his wife caught our affair and she is trying to destroy my life by threatening me with so many things.involving my career.we know we love each other so much but theres no way to escape in this real life.we're in different places right now..we know the best way to do but we just cant stop communicating each other..we dont want to continue our affair for the sake of our own family.but we cant just stop thinking about ourselves..how can we solve this problem?im really having so much pain emotionally and mentally..i want this affair to stop.
2006-12-28 19:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by haylene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Too funny. You screw up big time and now you ask us for help. Too rich. Guess you should have thought about the consequences before you messed up two families lives.
2006-12-28 19:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Affair = emotional and mental pain = threats from agry spouse ... stop affair.
Get away with it, if you can. Call the wronged women an apologize, promise her its over, write nothing, do not leave a message.
Pray and hope to God the child is your husband's or nobody notices.
If it all hits the fan; own up to it, and beg your husband for forgiveness.
Life is so much easier and pleasant, I think more fun, when we make good choices and do the right thing. I don't know why more people don't try it.
2006-12-29 03:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your state of mind. For years I have had numerous affairs. I even had an affair with my daughter's 20 year old boyfriend and I am still suffering the consequences of my bad judgement on that one. He hasn't told anyone but has implied that he would on several occassions. i walk around on egg shells around him. I will probably eventually have to tell my husband and my daughter what happened for my own peace of mind. Hard to tell you what to do but you have to do something for your own sanity.
2006-12-30 18:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sherry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want the affair to stop, then just stop it and stop whining about it. It's entirely up to you. Nobody is forcing you to contact this man, or to take calls from him, or anything else.
And by the way, his wife is not threatening to destroy your life - you've done that for yourself quite nicely.
2006-12-29 03:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If You want to Stop it. Why did You even Start it?
You just Love breaking People's Hearts don't you?
Now Suffer the Consequences.
You SL(_)T.
2006-12-29 03:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by RR 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you need to sit down with your husband. and tell him. he might be mad. but she wont black mail you any more. if you love your husband you wouldnt be in this mess now. why do married people cheat for. i dont know whats wrong with this world today. i love my husband been married for almost 18 years now .i still love him.
2006-12-29 03:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by bay bay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want it to end...if u did you would stop it.....and you wouldnt get on the net and throw out such a question..I wish i knew your husband.....I would tell on you..You dont deserve to be happy......
2006-12-29 03:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say no, Sister. Whats the worst that could happen?
2006-12-29 03:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about your family.
2006-12-29 04:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's baby is it??? That will answer All the questions you have !!!
2006-12-29 03:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋