I lost my ex girlfriend due to my disloyoalty... about 3 years ago and she tried with me again for 9 months and than she kicked me out. As far I know, she only had one relationship for 4 months. But I am still crazy about her and I want to convince her that I love her and that I would never do it again and I want her to give me another chance. Keep in mind that i am trying since we broke up... I don't want to give up... but I start to get the feeling I will never succeed.... What do you thinks girls? or experienced men? or how do I get over her?
2006-12-28 18:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by John Th 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may want to find my post and read any advice that I received. Ok, I told my hubby I would change, but I didn't want to admit to the real problem, so I never changed. He kicked me out and wants a divorce. He says it's for the better. I have started a new path in life with counseling and having faith. There is a difference between letting go and giving up. Will I give up even though he says he won't change his mind, no. You really need to look inside and see what you are doing, why and do you really want to change yourself. I'm changing for the better, it may be too late for us, but never give up hope. Please don't. She is hurting too. Give her space if that's what she wants. God will take care of the rest. Take care.
2006-12-28 18:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were your ex I would feel much better if I had assurance that you were in counselling and plan to be for a while - this contributes to demonstrating a long standing promise (or at least I think so). Good luck!
2006-12-29 03:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You had your chance with her and blew it. Only thing you can do now is learn from your mistakes and not repeat the same behaviour with your next girlfriend.
2006-12-29 02:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should hang out more with your friends to get over her...
Everybody changed even me and you so do you girlfriend!
2006-12-29 03:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ice Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it... she doesn't trust you and that is a hard thing to get back. It doesn't matter id you love her if she doesn't love you and if she can't trust you then she doesn't love you.
2006-12-29 03:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-29 03:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by uri b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alan? is that you?
2006-12-29 03:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋