like i wnat to try it but i am not sure if i am ready i am 18 but still not sure
2006-12-28 18:39:12 · 49 answers · asked by emmaboo101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask... you are not ready.
2006-12-28 18:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by behr28 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if ur not sure, then there's your answer.u should wait.there is no proper age for having sex.religious people would say wait until marriage but as i know that isn't always the easiest thing to do.i was almost 18 when i did it and i wasn't really ready but i let the boy pressure me into it.also,when using alcohol one looses there ability to think rationally.i have found that making love is best when you love the person,trust and can count on being there when the tough get going.if u want to just have sex that wont be very good go ahead but if u want to have great sex or make love,wait until ur in a committed,lasting relationship.
2006-12-28 18:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by buckie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that the first time is not that great because you don't really know what you are doing and it won't be that great. Try finding someone that will take it slow and be with you for the secound or third time when it will be way better and you will enjoy instead of pain. I would wait till you are really seriouse about someone not just horny and wanting to do it. As long as you are on birth control and use protection there should be no worries.
2006-12-28 18:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by manchew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts then you probably aren't ready. Wait until you are in a relationship with someone that you feel comfortable with. Take things slow and get to know this person and one day you will just know that you are ready. You should never have sex because someone is pressuring you and if this is the case then don't do it! Please remember to practice safe sex when you do decide that you are ready! Use condoms! Protect yourself! I don't know if you are male or female but if you are female and you have not had sex you should ask your doctor about getting the new HPV vaccine... if you do not know about HPV you should research it.
2006-12-28 18:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-Maybe I'm old fashioned in today's standards; but I believe that "it" is something more meaningful than just "wanting to try it"....
-There is no magical age... It should be when you are committed in a relationship with someone you love. (For me, that commitment means marriage.)
-You should be mature and prepared for the responsibility of what may result from the action... be it pregnancy, disease, emotions... (the only "birth control" or disease prevention that is 100% is abstinance...)
Think seriously about these things, if you don't make it a casual thing, it will have much more importance and meaning to you. It will mean SOOOO much MORE!
Best wishes ; )
2006-12-28 18:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure then now is definetely not the time. What do your parents think about the subject. You are an adult now so why don't you try asking them. If you were my child and came to me at 18 with this problem I would be more than willing to talk and try to help. It shows good morals and judgement on your part for asking this question and I hope you do the right thing.
2006-12-28 18:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To do what? Have sex? If you have to word the question like that, then you're probably not ready yet. You don't seem like a very mature 18, and maturity's required if you want to do it right and enjoy the experience. At the very least, I'd hold off until you're comfortable with the 'S' word.
2006-12-28 18:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Wyatt B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no proper age. At 18, considering you are asking this question, you are probably not ready yet. (no offense)
It is a maturity issue as well as a commitment one. You need to be in a long term commited and stable relationship where you are able to deal with the possible outcome (pregnancy).
if in doubt wait.
I hope you never regret it when you do ! ; )
2006-12-28 18:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pre-martial sex is usually not a good thing. Wait to do it when you are ready...not forced into sex...or conned into sex... For example, if you tell a guy that you want to wait until you are married, but he turns around and buy you a ring...don't have sex! If a guy says, if you love me, you'll do it...dont have sex....if a guy says, I know a friend who will it....tell him, bye and dont have sex...Never feel guilty about sex. Hell, just wait until you are married. Some decisions are better left up to you. Trust me, a wet vagina is all you are going to get!! I waited until I was 19, but I wanted to. Now, I can do without it (until the right man comes along that is.)
2006-12-28 18:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no real answer or proper age. My fiancee was fourteen when he lost his virginity. I was sixteen. My cousin was twenty-two. My ninteen-year-old sister is still a virgin. It's not about what age you are, it's about finding the right person. At fifteen or at thirty sex with someone whom you don't care about or don't know very well just isn't going to be good. When you feel like you've found someone who you really want to connect with on an intimate level...well, you'll know when the time is right. Don't sweat it. There are more virgins out there than will own up to it.
2006-12-28 18:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda W 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is not about age. It is about maturity and being ready. Being ready means being prepared to deal with the act, the emotions, and all possible outcomes - positive and negative. Many people who think they are sure are not ready and if you are unsure that is a stronger indication that you aren't either.
2006-12-28 18:43:39 · answer #11 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋