Im ashamed to say it but im 15 and i have never had a girlfriend, i mean i know why well since i used to be a real chubby nerd, but now i got real skinny and got contacts, ive seen girls that check me out and stuff and girls who i think like me and tons of girls id like to know, the problem is im very shy, like super shy, Im a softmore i Highschool and i just dont want to end highschool without having a girlfriend, i just dont know how to ask a girl out, how? Thanks to all!
2006-12-28 18:54:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a parent of a 14 year old young man, who was chubby, and then my ugly duckling turned into a Goose aka Swan for females...He isn't having any trouble with the ladies chasing him.
He is 14 and 6 feet tall!
Hey there young Romeo, I would take your time. Trust me, its going to happen for you...don't rush.
I started my son off on "GROUP OUTTING" co-ed. He goes out with a group of his friends and the group contains boys and girls...to get out of your shyness, why don't you become the "SOCIAL COORDINATOR" . You take the lead and plan some events with your MALE friends and tell them to bring along their GAL PAL meaning a girl that they talk to and who is COOL.
I allowed my son to go to his ICE BREAKER dance, and trust me he did not want to go!!! Once he told me would go, I committed him to going. I would not let him back out. He went and had a blast and said he could not wait for the next time!
I would say hold off on approaching 1 particular girl, and just get yourself used to being around girls in general. By the time you get used to that before you know it you will be 16 going on 17, maturity level higher and able to accept repercussions of your activities of the girls you are NOW CHASING!!!
Don't sweat it!!!
2006-12-28 19:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by rkwj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Agreed, you gotta talk to people. Doesn't really matter if it's guys or girls, but get used to communication without being awkward.
Also, jerk off a lot. This will make you have a lot less interested toward girls. This makes no sense but is 100% true: the less interest you have in a girl, the MORE interesting she will find YOU.
Along the same lines, don't go running around chasing after a girlfriend. Nobody likes a desperate guy. Be confident, be strong, and the girls will come to you.
2006-12-28 19:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, im kinda shy but i still talk to the ladies i just talk it out and the convo goes smoothly. So what u need to do is either practice online and then practice on a close girl friend of urs that doesnt care and wont laugh at you. Then after that, go up to a girl you like and just talk to her like "How was ur day" or "How are you my name is...(Name)" then get to know her for a little bit, ask her for her number. Then you gotta call her up and ask her if she wants to go see a movie....go out and eat.......just chill somewhere. Then you have to tell her some sweet things like "You are lookin very lovely today" or "I love the way ur eyes sparkle" and just sweet talk her. Then when she seems to be falling for you just ask her out.
2006-12-28 19:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Let's Go See A Movie Or Something"... On You (just kidding about the last part). Watching a movie together is ideal for getting to know each other. It allows you both to be intimate in a comfortable way, because you will always have something to say... if you feel like saying it.
2006-12-28 19:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tooler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important thing is to be yourself. but in your case, I guess you can try and picture someone you look up to in your head. for example a celebrity or a character from a movie. how would he react to a suitation. if you don't have the confidence, try and fake it at first. eventually, when you start to open up, then you will get the feeling that you're no longer faking it, it has become a part of you. hang out with girls as friends first. then when you're used to them, you won't feel as shy to ask them out. good luck!
2006-12-28 19:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... Let me see you had the same problem as you did. Only thing is that if you never know till you try anything to that certain person and say hi I would really like to get to know you . Lallaa etc. etc.... Talk to her nicely. Then if she looks intrested ask her if she would like to go on a date....!!!!! Then if she says no... Dont worry theres so much women out there. So Try again, but if she says yes just get her number and your set. SImple as that good luck. Really though dont get down if she says no. Theres tons of women out there.
2006-12-28 18:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Save yourself a lot of trial and error and heartache. Look up David Di Angelo and get the right way to handle yourself around women.
2006-12-28 19:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Paul C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jokes and random sweet things always get me... leave a flower on her desk or in her locker, brush the dust off her chair, even though there isn't any, before she sits down. Ask her what she 's done to her hair. tell her she smells really good. You'll be fine.
2006-12-28 18:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice One
2016-03-28 23:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always write a love note to a girl you like. Don't forget to include your name,adress and phone number on it.
2006-12-28 19:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by sandwreckoner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋