errm.... there's this boy...
i like him, like as a friend... but the other night..
he kinda talked me out of suicide.
i like him... but more as a
friend after that talk we had...
i don't know how to thank him....
please help?
2006-12-28 18:26:08 · 12 answers · asked by Elizabeth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
marathonlife said about everything...
Sweetheart, you need to get help.. I am so glad this guy was there for you when you needed him and he talked you out of that -- for that, i am sure a simple thank you would do. But what can we do about yourself?? What if he wasn´t there? Would you have died? Please, honey, talk to someone about it. About the reasons you felt that way. A professional would be such a great help for you. Take it from someone who´s had some really rough paths, you need help.. I am here if you ever need to talk!!! Lots of hugs for you!!! :D Barbie
2006-12-28 19:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) it seems your problem isn't this guy
B) you clearly need some focus, sweetie
You were considering suicide????
I think you should first evaluate what got you in the situation that suggested you consider suicide.... THEN you can worry about a boy.
If you've resolved your suicide issues, my guess is he is a little freaked out by a girl who he had to "talk down off the ledge" and he'll probably want to stay friends with you, but if he is in the slightest interested in you as more than a friend then my suggestion would be for you to be open and honest with him and ask him if he's ever considered being more than friends with you. If he answers "yes" then you are set, if he answers "no" you haven't put yourself out there too much to be disappointed. But if you are disappointed please don't consider suicide... move on and find some guy who doesn't know you have a suicide streak.
2006-12-29 02:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by marathonlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you call him up and invite him to dinner or something and tell him it's for him saving your life. Tell him how much it means to you that he cares and that he talked you out of suicide. Thank him by taking him to dinner then you get to spend quality time with him and thank him.
2006-12-29 02:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say thank you, let him know how much you appreciate him. But don't let your feelings get away from you - he helped you through an emotional moment where you were extremely vulnerable, so your feelings may not be as true and deep as they feel. Wait on that, and see how/if those feelings develop more over time.
2006-12-29 02:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by jello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you sleep with him? You must like him more than a friend. If you slept with him, then you thanked him. If you didnt sleep with him, then you should have sent him a card and flowers to thank him for saving your life or just told him thanks. Either way, he must be a damn good friend to do that for you. Good luck. Piece of advice, if you continue to have problems confide in your friend or a trusted adult.
2006-12-29 02:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say thank you :) And enjoy your life... its a precious thing. Im glad you didnt consider suicide... we need more good people like you in the world !!
2006-12-29 02:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u go to him and thank him..tell him how considerate and benevolence he was to guide u the right way...And buy him an expensive present...which will show him how thankful u was.
2006-12-30 19:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Annabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to him and tell him that you are truly thankful to him. thanks to him, you have turned over a new leaf. get rid of your fears and just be yourself. be calm and composed. im sure he will understand. if stammer, he might get suspicious. just imagine, he saved you LIFE!!! you just HAVE to thank him. so, go ahead my friend. thank him. im sure that will mean a lot to him. cheers :)
2006-12-29 03:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Chinni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "thank you". Friends don't need more.
2006-12-29 02:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow
give him a gift or
the only gift he gets from you is that your still alive
2006-12-29 02:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by jemba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋