Why did she do that to us?

Question

MY SISTER IS A UNGREATFUL BRAT........ON CHRISTMAS MORNING AT ABOUT I DON'T KNOW 5:00 SHE CAME HOME.....ARE PARENTS TOULD HER TO BE HOME AFTER CHRUCH THE MORNING BEFORE THAT AND INSTEN OF DOING WHAT THEY SAID SHE CAME HOME AT 5:00 AM THE NEXT DAY I CAN'T BEILEVE WHAT SHE WAS THINKING I JUST DON'T UNDERSTEND WHY SHE DID THAT TO US WHY SHE WOULD WANT TO DO THAT TO US ME AND MY MOM STAYED UP WAITING FOR HER AND HER DUMB *** SELF TO WALK IN THE DOOR 5:00 AM....5:00 AM PEOPLE...ON CHRISTMAS MORNING SHE WALKED IN THE SAYING WHAT WRONG.....HA..HA..HA..HA..HA..I COULDN'T BEILEVE HER I JUST WANTED TO RE A RANGE HER INSIDES OUT IT MADE ME SO MAD I WANTED TO TELL HER TO HER FACE HOW I FELT OUT THIS BIG MISTAKE THAT SHE MADE AND I WANTED TO TELL HER HOW MUCH OF A LYING ***** I REALLY THINK SHE IS BUT I WOULD GET GROUNDED TILL I WAS FOURTY IF I DID EVERY TIME THAT ***** DOSE SOMETHING WRONG SHE ACTS LIKE SHE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT SHE DID ..........PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO. IM SICK OF IT.

Answer 1

First of all - simmer down!!!! She has no respect for your family let alone the Christmas holiday. You did no wrong so again, simmer down honey! She was wrong. Be patient and take the time to think of what to say to her to make her know that people care about her and worry about her and that alone hurts the whole family. She owes an apology to everyone. Christmas is the worst time to do that to family. But if she takes this like it "doesn't matter" - "at least I came home" kinda thing then - ask her what does she want the family to do on any given night when she doesn't come home and that type of behavior of hers happens again and nobody worries because it happens all the time so no one comes out looking for her when she is getting (God forbid) raped, robbed, hacked and left for dead! Will she look for her family then at 5 AM?

Answer 2

Wow. First of all it would help to know how old the suspected ***** is but i'll assume she is less than 18. If your parents are putting up with a daughter that won't abide by their rules, she should be dealt with very strictly... absolutely no privledges whatsoever. She obviously feels as though she is above it all and chooses to put herself first. The question isn't why did she do that the question is what is she doing? If she is completely disrespecting the rules/family it is for something that has her complete attention; drugs, guys, alcohol... probably not something healthy and good for her or she wouldn't have the urge to be so selfish. This is a tough love situation if I've ever heard of one, encourage your parents to be strict and firm with her. You should try not to get so enraged, try to be a comfort for you parents, but leave your emotions out of it.

Answer 3

You were hurt by her behavior. One thing we must learn in life is that oftentimes people do things we don't agree with but it's not a reflection on you. It does not demean your self-worth --- in fact it demeans herself. You need to remain calm and believe in your own values. Some people struggle more with obligations and are not too good at respecting others and this is due to various reasons too many to write about here. Try to be the best person you can be - that's all you can do. You can express your feelings without attacking and hope she can listen. If not, you can write them out and maybe she can read them when she's in a receptive mood.

Answer 4

well you can get bent out of shape over it, however it's your parents problem. Obviously, she has no real "rules" or she wouldn't have done it in the first place....

Answer 5

k...... wel dear first of all.... u got to COOL yourself down... i can actualli feel ur anger burning.... wel wel.......

hmmm... wat u can do is.... wen u see the time is rite... talk to her.. don scream or yell k.. ask her does she know wat she did was wrong... ask and talk to her.. explain stuffs slowly... but don be LONG WINDED... she won't listen..... k

take care

Answer 6

was she drunk