Because every guy Who likes me won't date me because he knows i won't go there. So unless there planning on marring me, it's hopeless.
2006-12-28 18:21:30 · 18 answers · asked by duhlaney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like you have your answer. It's fine, but you will drive a lot of guys away, but if it's that important to you, do what you must.
2006-12-28 18:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Interested 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an idiot. It's not okay. Unless you want to limit your choice of mate to a very small group of losers and zealots. And then even if your marriage is near perfect (which is extremely unlikely) you risk the possibility of wondering what you missed out on and being tempted to test it out. Get with the times already. Have safe premarital sex.
2006-12-29 02:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by PSpider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage you want that person whos going to love you no matter what, and care about you enough to be willing to wait. Theres a guy out there for you, who will do all of this. More than likly your marriage will last longer than others, knowing youd have this trust and comfort level with eachother.
2006-12-29 02:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! That's what everyone should be doing! Then there wouldn't be so much single mothers and AIDs and STD's in the world! If all they want is a one night stand don't give it to them. Keep doing what you're doing. Don't give up. You'll find the right guy someday.
2006-12-29 02:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Quetzalcoatl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay! Hold out. There are great men out there who will respect you, but you have to wade through a sea of immature guys to find them.
I guarantee if you give it up to a guy because you get tired of saying no, you'll regret it.
2006-12-29 02:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Information Technology (IT) is a growing field. It doesn't seem that going to school towards a career before marriage would be a bad thing.
2006-12-29 02:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by sameyeyam5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means.....WAIT. There should be more young ladies like you in the world. Be patient the right man will come along and he will wait till you are ready.
2006-12-29 02:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay to wait. You want a guy that respects you and what you want. If you wanted sex upside down in public you should find a guy that wants to give you that. If you want to wait, you should find a guy that wants to give you THAT.
2006-12-29 02:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with what you belive.. seriously save something thats a huge deal and special. dont use it on something that won't even be worth it.
youll find a guy who respects you for that. just wait. =]
2006-12-29 02:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your head up Hun . there will be a guy who wants you just for you and not just want you for your body .and you will be glad you waited and was not pressured into haveing sex just to have a date .
2006-12-29 02:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋