My fiance always gets out of folding and arranging our laundery by saying that touching my langerie (esp bras) makes him feel weird. Other wise he loves playing with and then taking off my langerie. Could my fiance be really grossed out or is he just trying to get out of a chore?
2006-12-28 17:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by mina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, i have to say that handling womens lingerie does make guys feel a little weird. Its not that we are lazy and want to get out of doing something. Its just that its one of those things that make us feel weird.
2006-12-28 18:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by <*Psyco*> 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he could be feeling weird when he does do it because maybe its just a guy thing.It could be that he's a bit old fashioned and thinks women should do the laundry.OR like you said he could just be getting out of a chore lol.Make him do something else to replace that chore then! Good Luck and Happy New Years Girl.
2006-12-29 02:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not bother me one bit to fold clothes, however no matter how many times she shows me I never seem to fold them (the bras) just right. So I will leave them for her to do and fold everything else. I think your suspicions are right, he may just be trying to get out of doing the laundery
2006-12-29 02:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by mongo_wood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how your fiance can feel wierd about touching your bras. If he plays with them and can touch them when you're wearing them, why would he have a problem with touching them when they are fresh out of the laundry?
Sounds to me your suspicions are right, he may just be trying to get out of doing chores. I don't think he's grossed out by it at all.
I know if I were engaged and I was doing laundry, it wouldn't gross me out to touch my fiance's underwear. It would kind of make me think a little and turn me on if anything.
2006-12-29 02:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by helo2k6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. I used to do the family laundry, at the laundrymat. I once told a drunk female fellow-customer that I wore the skirts on the weekends [not realizing that it was Friday afternoon :-) ]
And yeah, its more fun to handle the lingerie when someone is in it, but some guys can't even shop at Vicky's Secret for the ol' lady, much less handle her skivs in a public laundry. Cut him some slack.
2006-12-29 02:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's trying to get out of a chore...(my husband LIKES bras always has....)if he feels weird touching your dirty clothes, then why does he like to undress you ??? After you're married (and if you have kids...) he's gonna be more weirded out by messy diapers, snot, spit..etc...
2006-12-29 02:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is being a dick, tryin not do his share of chores, plus i'll be honest guys hate doin laundry, or maybe he does not know how to fold cloths or your cloths and he feel stupid nothing being able to do a simple task,LOL, try to show him if he start to whine tell him he can do his own laundry and you will do yours .
he will come crawling back.
2006-12-29 02:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes either insecure about his manhood.. i guess he feels gay or something handeling bras. but he shouldnt cause it's yours! i'd hope he's just trying to get out of a chore though.
2006-12-29 02:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that just the fact that he`s folding your lingerie may seem to him that it is TOO feminine so he doesn't want to fold them.
2006-12-29 02:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by pink_lousiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he love it hes just messing around!
2006-12-29 01:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by emmaboo101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋