i had a best friend, and i'm pretty sure she's the one whos been spreading the mean rumors about me. now, everyone hates me and i don't sit in the same group during lunch time anymore.........help?
2006-12-28 17:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by cHoCoLaHoLiC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You see rumors are like a**holes everybody's got one and when they're talking about you their leaving somebody else alone. I know this can hurt but you go to school to learn and if all they have to do is spread rumors about you then what are they actually learning. Keep your head up because good things come to those who wait and if you wait to see what's in store for you when you get those good grades then maybe they'll see that talking about you didn't bring you down at all. Good Luck!
2006-12-28 17:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off, the last thing you want to hear is that it doesn't matter what other people think of you, which is true, in the end it only matters what your close family thinks. Second, it will probably pass when they find someone else to talk about, this doesn't mean starting rumors on someone else, why would you want to make someone else feel the way you do right now?
Keep your chin up, and hold your head high, ignore the comments and the looks, even walk with a slight grin, make them wonder what you are planing, or what you are thinking. Be nice to them, act like it doesn't bother you. They are only doing this because they want it to bother you. You are better than that, and you don't have time to waste on gossip, or rumors. You have better things to do with your time.
2006-12-29 01:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by S Denise J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is your best friend than she wasn't your best friend in the first place and with friends like her you don't need enemies. I learned a long time ago that when someone spreads rumors that are not true that they have serious issues just keep your head up high and don't worry because anyone that knows you will know they are lies and still be your friend and if not then they are as shallow as she and was never your friend anyway.Trust and beleive in yourself and you will be fine
2006-12-29 01:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by pickardteresa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let it mess w you girl - it aint nothing but a thang - if i was you take a deep breath and start addressing the issue lyk if she s saying you slept w a bunch of guys say something in front of a bunch of girls lyk give advice and say but what do i know I just sleep w everyones boyfriend wait for them to all take shock and say ya you girls gonna believe that one i got a bridge to sell ya - something like that throw it off - it doesn't do any good being evil back but just be who you are and those who know you should know you well and those that don't can go to hell!!!!
2006-12-29 01:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe... girls are sooo caddy.
Hey, don't even sweat it !!!! Just be cool about it. Pretend like you never heard of the rumors. Whether they are true or not.... it doesn't matter. Just be yourself and if your best friend stabbed you in the back, hey.... **** happens ! but don't let it bother you. Just be cool about it and the rest time will tell... your friends aren't stupid... they'll find out the truth, which is who you really are =)
p.s. worst case scenario... if your friends ditched you becuz of that stupid rumor... don't hang out with them... find new friends, if you can't... go to church... you can find good friends there.
2006-12-29 02:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Batman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what to say about this except kick her ***!! If you are really 100% sure that she is the one spreading rumors than she needs a good *** whippin, then you can let everyone know that you whooped her behind and you are proud of it!!
2006-12-29 01:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by 1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and I know how it is when a friend starts a rumor about you just stay to yourself and forget those other people.
2006-12-29 01:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Stacey K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words alone cannot hurt me!"
If you feel that the rumours are untrue, just continue being your normal self. Let your audience be the judge. The truth has a neat way of standing out WITHOUT saying a word!
2006-12-29 01:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by ab3c2t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur best frind is a b itch so there u go.
u need to confront her on the situation asap!!!!! be blunt and get ur game face on.and then tell everyone that those rumors arent true if they laugh in ur face then punch them in the face....good luck
2006-12-29 01:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by orangejuice85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello my friend , ur friend who is spreading rumors abt u dont think abt her just see to ur other friends dont worry bcoz who is spreading rumors abt u be nice to her and even to ur friends never abuse her in front of ur friends and always talk good abt her in front of ur friends they will decied that who is good and who is bad who is perfect to be in group and who is not that much good to be there in group but if they decied not to keep u in the group its ok then u can play american policy it depends
2006-12-29 01:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by manzoor143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋