Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

How do you know if you have made a good impression? Do women actually know in the first couple of minutes if you are a suitable person to go to bed with?

2006-12-28 17:06:48 · 28 answers · asked by akmspark 1 in Singles & Dating

Often times, a guy or girl has interest in a person of the opposite sex but is unsure of what the true feelings are toward him/her. The person will often try to read to much into words/actions to fit their own wishes. However, an external observer who has no knowledge of the relationship and observes the two people interact can offer a more objective point of view.

Let me give you an example. I am questioning a girl's attraction level toward me. She has given me mixed signals (long story). However third parties, who have never even met us before and then interact with us, say things to me after the fact like "are you a couple, because I see the way she looks at you," or "are you in a hot and heavy relationship?" I question them because I don't see it myself, but they do.

Any thoughts on the nature of third parties observing attraction?

2006-12-28 17:05:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 17:05:47 · 18 answers · asked by leon 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story short. I was with this guys for four years. He cheated twice. This last time, it last a long time, she disappeared and reappeared. Shortly after we started working things out again, she calls and says she is pregnant. He moves back to our hometown shortly after and I have been going back and forth seeing him and being with him and then I find out that he is living with her. He has been trying to get back with me and I questioned him about a few things and he did a really good job trying to prove to me that he wasn't with her. Anyway, I go to talk to him and he won't because I told him I knew about it in a voicemail. So, I sent the girl all the emails, texts, picture mail and voicemails that he left me and she called me and basically said that it was all a lie and that I was a sideline hoe. He then calls me and curses me and asks me why I sent her that stuff and then hangs up in my face, then few mins later calls and says he didn't mean it that way and he was sorry.

2006-12-28 17:05:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm having trouble finding good friends... everybody looks so self involved

2006-12-28 17:04:28 · 12 answers · asked by Vishal H 2 in Friends

2006-12-28 17:04:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 17:04:11 · 7 answers · asked by gavy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 17:04:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where would you go? What would you and your lover do (minus all the lovemaking)? In other words, what is the perfect honeymoon? I am rather curious (and bored). Thank you in advance. Happy New Years! :-)

2006-12-28 17:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by Maria Gallercia 4 in Weddings

A friend of mine was molested by a close relative when she was about 7 years old. Now that she's married....she has a desire to be with her husband intimately, but suffers emotionally....she feels guilty, dirty, and used afterward. So she would rather forgo intimacy to avoid those feelings. What can she do to improve these feelings? What can her husband do to support her? Has anyone else experienced these type of feelings?

2006-12-28 17:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you single? haha ; )

2006-12-28 17:02:49 · 5 answers · asked by lovel art 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. i hang out with my friends every day practically and im always talking to them but i feel so distant... i feel so far away from everyone. i feel sad but i always spend time with them!!! i'm also sad but i really am not sure why. i have no clue what to do but i've just always felt distant from everyone.. even from God.. i can fake being happy really easily. no one notices but me. idk if its guilt or not forgiving but either way that doesn't seem like it would help forgiving or asking for forgiveness. people have hurt me i have hurt them and i'm not close enough to God. Why is this and What should i do??

2006-12-28 17:01:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was suppose to marry this female. I'm married w/ kids and she is not married but have 2 kids also. After seeing her after all these years it felt as if we never parted from each other. She opened up some old doors. She never got over me and I never got over her. I always thought that she and her family was mad at me because of the reason we broke up. How can our feelings still be the same after all these years?

2006-12-28 17:01:38 · 8 answers · asked by deangelohinton27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 17:01:21 · 4 answers · asked by RAJESH 1 in Singles & Dating

Something is wrong with my gf. When she sees me in person, she loves me to death. When she doesn't, she hates me to death. She is mean on the phone and doesn't wanna talk to me. This is driving me nuts. There is a girl that I know she likes me, and I do like her a bit, but I don't know whether I should give up this relationship and move on.

2006-12-28 17:00:58 · 2 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I handle a sister in law who you don't like. I am polite as she is married to my brother but she has been rude to me many times, We don't have much to say to each other, maybe a personality clash? Help please?

2006-12-28 17:00:39 · 20 answers · asked by m m 1 in Family

Is this WRONG?
This guy who were chilling with me and my friends lets his 80hb Ipod at my house. He told me if i have seen it and i told him no, because i wanted the Ipod, should i just keep it or give it back?

i dont even know this guy, and i dont like him much.



i did not steal it, he left it there and i told him i have not found it. but i did and its mine i guess.

2006-12-28 17:00:15 · 29 answers · asked by WITHtheNEWyou 1 in Friends

Ok.. Im getting really tired of the skanks that walk home after school like.. gawking at me when I drive by... Like.. Im sorry that I have my license.... You know?>.. why is it only the dirties that stare when you drive by.. and not just stare but.... STAAAAARRe.... Don't be a ***** if you don't like my question..... Just don't answer...

2006-12-28 16:59:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 16:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even though my husband tries very hard to arouse me but i just still don't get lubricated enough and specially now that we use a condom it gets really dry and tight and hurts both of us...

2006-12-28 16:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by Legant 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 16:58:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 16:57:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It will just be me and my little girl who is 22 months old.

2006-12-28 16:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

turned out to be a big mistake. I thought she would be a good person for him and 1 day ago she showed her true colors and i don't think he would appreciate the kind of attitude she has. And i was told to give him the phone number so he could call her but he hasn't yet because he's got alot of things going on right now. But she keeps bugging me now about him calling her and i just don't think that this would be a good idea anymore because she's not the person i thought she was and i know my friend very well and i don' t think he would appreciate me sitting him up with someone like her. So what should i do?

2006-12-28 16:56:53 · 4 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Singles & Dating

I recently lost the love of my life after dating for nearly 3 years. I've been a complete wreck, my mind spins 24/7 looking for a way to get her back...

I go to college. We live 4 hours apart. So we only got to see each other on breaks, usually one or two weekends a month sans major holidays. I made some mistakes, I admit. I said some things I shouldn't, and I have to say I made an *** of myself a couple times. I didn't show I cared as much as I should.

So suddenly she says she doesn't love me anymore and loves someone else. I was completely in the dark, and had no time to react, her mind was already made up. Apparently she had been pondering this for months.

It breaks down to this. I love her more than life itself, and would give anything for her. We're friends, and still talk and see each other a bit. She loved me for a time, but now has a new boyfriend who seems infallible. Help?

More about all this here (will update to responses):
http://www.nwizard.com/nmaster/yahoo_help.html

2006-12-28 16:56:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ma && dad have been devorced 4 a long time && they r dating again everyone else in my family is happy about it but me what shuld i do??

2006-12-28 16:56:02 · 14 answers · asked by TiNA B 1 in Family

Okay, she doesn't have an O every time. In fact, I hate to admit it, but I don't think she's had one in a few weeks. The O's used to be quite frequent. I don't think I'm doing anything differently, so what's going on? At any rate, she seems to be happy with our intimate life. Quite happy. But can she really be all that happy if she's not having any O's? Is it shallow to think that it can't be all that great without the O's?

2006-12-28 16:55:52 · 16 answers · asked by 670000000mph 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my hubby very much i don't doubt my hubby feeling the same way. But recently, i found a marriage cert. from 4 years ago from his ex wife and some pictures along with tax returns, etc...I asked him about it he claims he forgot he had them in storage. Before we got married in March I asked him if he had any pictures of his ex or her belongings, he told me no that he threw everything away after she left him for another man..my hubby said to destroy everything he has of her and that he only loves me......should i be mad or let it go?????

2006-12-28 16:54:08 · 22 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WE broke up on xmas eve.. he broke up with me. he says hes not ready for a sersiouse relationship, except we've been together off and on the last year and ahalf.


We'v had our share of problems but then we both got saved and things were going reallly good. i mean this is the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with.. we made plans to be together forever. and then he tells me that. and i dont know what to think

so xmas rolls around and he watns to hang out that night so i say yeah and we hang out and we fool around. i mean REALLY fool around (not sex tho) and he keeps telling me he loves me and calling me baby. but he wont be wiht me. and then when we get off the phone he tells me he loves me (somtimes) and he tells my gfs that he still loves me. what is up with this?!?!?! ahh im soo confused.

Ps. im 19 and hes 17. that MIGHT be the problem.

Help. what do you think. and dont tell me to move on. cuz i loove him way to much to do

2006-12-28 16:53:59 · 19 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 16:53:37 · 5 answers · asked by rooster 2 in Marriage & Divorce