My husband and I met in high school, dated for 12 years, and lived together for 10 years. We got married in June 2006. We had our ups and downs, but we always stayed together, and the years leading up to our wedding were the best ever, couldn't ask for anything better.
On Halloween, he told me that he kissed a 19 year old girl in the bar. (He's never cheated before.) He said that he has lied to me about things in the past. He said that he's very depressed.
He moved out on Thanksgiving, and he has continued to date this other girl. He has also COMPLETELY changed his character, and everyone notices it. He is acting and doing things that are completely unlike him. He has let the other girl move in, and he says that he is going to keep seeing her. He is also seeking treatment for depression.
He came over today and slept with me. It's like he wants her, but he wants me. I don't know what's true and what isn't anymore. I don't want to throw 12 years away, but I feel like I have to.
2006-12-28
16:22:06
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