how long he has been doing this, he said it was a while now. i kinda mad and i asked him if hes practical. he say no, how would i know if hes telling me the truth, he always fight me for nothing and always stir up fights please help
2006-12-28 16:22:52 · 13 answers · asked by rockmebabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u sure he used to be gay?..he might be bisexual..theres no such thing as used to..i think u should have a very deep meaningful conversation with him..
2006-12-28 17:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by drg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you say that he use to be gay?
What solid facts and information do you have that makes you so sure?
I hope you are not thinking that because he married a woman that make him straight!
That is typical when ever a man wants to leave it is normally an argument that is started up to give the reason for flight. Not always!!!! But most of the time, he is leaving to be with someone else.
It seems as thou you do not know your partner well enough and you both need to have honest communicative conversation.
Be prepared to!!!!! You might hear somethings that you might not be ready for. Ask yourself if you are ready?
My best wishes!!!!
2006-12-28 16:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ecala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you this but there is no such thing that your husband use to be gay-he is still gay-you married a gay man period-he start fights with you so that he can get out of the house and go do his own thing-you need to think about what you got yourself into and ask yourself if it is worth staying married to a gay man-who will always be gay and you can't change him-you need to start thinking about yourself-and if you keep letting him fight you -you will be the one that comes out on the worst end-not him-get out-let him go-it is now worth it-your marriage is over.-gay is gay bottom line
2006-12-28 17:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok im sorry to tell you this but if he was "gay" then hes gay now. A persons sexuality isnt just something that can be changed. Your born with what ever sexuality you have weather you like it or not. Hes probably ashamed of who he is and is trying to be someone else.
2006-12-28 20:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by nooooonnono 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oookay. "Used to be gay?" I'm Sorry...but he still is gay.
You can't be gay one day, and all of the sudden the next day you aren't. It doesn't work like that.
Even if he's trying to convince himself he's not, or maybe just you..nothing can change what his true preferences are..You really need to sit down with him, and have a serious talk about this.
2006-12-28 16:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by Massacre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay does not come and go like the wind , did you send him to one of those religious turn em back groups that cure them ? All they do is hurt and condom people and who pays the price ... The gay guy or girl who has to pretend to be someone who they are not and the poor fool who married them. OR did you have a lot of money and he wanted a sugar momma so he pretended for you?
2006-12-28 16:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by SE7EN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband USED to be gay? NO, your husband is still gay. It's not something you can just turn on and off. Wake up.
2006-12-28 20:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you think that God wants him to be your husband? You must pray and ask for your answers on this because you knew what his color was before you went into this.
2006-12-28 16:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by hawleysangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
used to be gay?
there is no such thing
its like saying i used to be white
2006-12-28 16:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you new he was gay and you actually thought you could satisfy him enough to make him straight ,did you have that foolish notion that Love would fix all. SILLY SILLY GIRL.
2006-12-29 01:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by cindybells 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋