my wife tells me who her friends r is not my buisiness she can talk to & hang out with who she wants?

Question

i feel this is a problem but she says no. help me

Answer 1

Well you need to tell her that if she can't tell you who her friends are then maybe she got something to hide and maybe y'all got alot to talk about because y'all are married and she shouldn't want to hide those kind of things from you. Good Luck! Because she is your business.

Answer 2

in any relationship there should be no secrets, since that only leads to problems in the long-term. She may feel that you may not approve of who she is friends with and thus prevent her from seeing them, just reassure her that she can still be her own person and continue to be with her friends. Sharing even the smallest part of your life with another usually helps in creating a stronger bond between two people. Keeping secretive about things allows for speculation, like "if she can't even tell me who her friends are what else is she hiding from me?" In some instances it takes you doing the exact same thing to make the other open their eyes to there own ways. I wish you good luck and hope this issue can be resolved between you and your spouse.

Answer 3

Why don't she want you to know who her friends are-why is she be keeping them a secret from you-what are they doing that is so much of a secret-and if anyone call your house you have a right to know who they are if they are just friends-now you start hanging out and give her the same answers that she gave you-if you don't have anyone to hang out with go to the park,take a ride,stay out one night and see how she like it-when the shoe is on the other foot it hurt-give her some of her own medicine-as you know some people can dish it out but they can't take it when it is their turn-start dishing out the same medicine to her-there is more than one way to skin a cat.-time to start skinning that cat

Answer 4

I believe that you should explain to your wife that communication is important in a marriage and if you communicate to her that you are concerned about an issue, the both of you should evaluate it and talk about why your feeling are a certain why. She needs to know how her comment makes you feel and the problems that it can cause it your marriage. If this doesn't resolve your concern, you might want to suggest counseling before problems occur.

Answer 5

Are we are talking about male friends or are they women who are a bad influence. I am going through pretty much the same thing. I agree with most everybody here. Do the same thing to her, but how does it make you feel? Do you really want to put her through that?

I've tried to explain to my wife, I've tried understanding her side, but she does not want to budge and I am not going to budge either. If you two can talk it out you can make it work. GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

You need to understand that she is her own person. You cannot control whom she hangs out with. I know you may see things that you do not like about her friends but they are her friends. You can try to talk to her and tell her what you think of her friends but she has her own mind to judge who she wants in her life and who she doesn't.

Answer 7

Your wife need serios help. Its ok for you guys to go out and give each other some space but it is not ok what she is doing. You should do the same and see what happends

Answer 8

Is this new behavior or has it always been that way? If it's new, may be she's cheating on you??

She has a right to have her own friends, but hiding things from you is the real issue.

Answer 9

If it's none of your business who her friends are and that she can hang out with whoever she wants then it's none of her business who your friends are and whoever you hang out with. If she thinks she can do what she wants then you can too.

Answer 10

as her spouse you should be her Best friend and there is no secrets with best friends there is more to the story trust me