2006-12-28 17:05:47 · 18 answers · asked by leon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because most of them have no idea what love is. And they are in the relationship for the sex, or just to say that they are not single.
2006-12-28 17:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Smoke Eater 512 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because the perfect relationship is an impossible media-constructed fantasy that everyone thinks they can/should/must/will have with the first person towards whom they feel a hormonal infatuation.
Also because we live in a society that has totally isolated us from each other and eliminated or degraded most normal human relationships except for the sexual kind- and everything we know about those we learn from drama-laden TV shows, romantic Hollywood movies, and sad pop love songs.
As a result, most American middle-class people have forgotten what life within a real human society is supposed to feel like, so they live fake lives and their fake selves interact with other people's fake selves and they don't even see what's wrong.
2006-12-28 17:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not that we have bad relationship. It is that we are bad, we are immature, we expect more than we deliver. Once I have accepted a person of the opposite sex, I have liked and I have loved the person, subsequently it is my responsibility to keep the relationship going. If the relationship deteriorates, it is because of my shortcomings, not the opposite party. If you have this attitude there will be no problem with any relationship. If we start the blame game or we keep on grabbing and not giving anything back, and still keep on expecting more, then no relationship will go smoothly. If you are willing to give and give and give (remember you have once loved this person) till it hurts, you can keep your relationship intact. Love demands that you give and not be greedy and grab everthing from your loved one.
2006-12-28 17:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many people allow themselves to think that they cannot survive a minutes without a bf/gf. They throw themselbes on any man or woman at a moments notice, or get fixated on one aspect of a person, like, they are hot, and forget that the person is a total loser besides the good looks. True love waits, honestly, i am 20 and have never had a gf. I have had plenty of opportunites, but i choose to wait. Then, when i am ready, i will find the one person in the world that is meant for me, and i will be sure. I have zero regrets for wating my whole life. And no, i am not just some pathetic loser. haha. well.....maybe.......
2006-12-28 17:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because people don't know what they are getting into in a relationship and they plunge right in, ignoring all the warning signs. The results can be devastating. Love's like a trapese: it's a work of it that's hard to master and any second can see you fall to the bitter end. But, when and if you do triumph, it's a glorious victory. If people set their sights on God first, then their relationships will follow and sort themselves out. A woman's heart should be so deeply burried in the Lord that a man has to seek Him first to find it.
Hope I helped.
2006-12-28 17:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dating is a learning experience, and in order to really figure out what you want and who you want to be with you have to date many different people. Sometimes you find something you really like and want to have in your partner for life, sometimes you find something you really don't want in that person. Whether or not its a good relationship, you learn something which helps you grow and will eventually lead to a great relationship.
2006-12-28 17:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they dont know how to communicate and they havent had good examples in their life of what a good relationship is. its mostly bad communication and rushing into relationships without evaluating if they're really good for each other.
2006-12-28 17:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by W.E.S. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad relationships are as much a part of life as breathing and we all have to go through a bad one or bad ones to get to the right one or ones
2006-12-28 17:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by piercedtrailerparkdiva 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they are dating for the sake of not being alone or they never really knew the person before they started dating them (bad mistake)
2006-12-28 17:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there are not two honest people or there is not enough time dedicated. And they are usally both great people... Oh well :(
2006-12-28 17:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋