my ma && dad have been devorced 4 a long time && they r dating again everyone else in my family is happy about it but me what shuld i do??
2006-12-28 16:56:02 · 14 answers · asked by TiNA B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should talk to your mother about it. Although you may not be able to sway her from what she is doing, divorce is a part of life and it will be hard for you to accept this, but you should keep moving. Talking to your mother would also help her understand how you feel about what she is doing right now. If you look at it from her point of view, she married your father, and at her wedding, she was most likely filled with joy, but after a divorce, she's lost someone she used to loved. So from her point of view, she is happy and you should try to cheer yourself up.
2006-12-28 16:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down and DISCUSS your feelings with whichever parent you feel closest to, or with both of them at the same time. Probably both at the same time. Before you discuss, try to visualize in your mind what exactly is at the core of your unhappiness. Then write down your impressions so you can have an intelligent discussion with your parents. This could include any fears you may unknowingly have. I hope all turns out well for you and your family.
2006-12-29 01:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never feel truly "happy" but you can be polite and respectful, not rude ,distant or judgemental. They will continue to move on with their lives with or without your approval. Try to know in your heart that you are not responsible for the decisions they have made in their past or will make in their future. They have their own lives and you should continue to have yours. Good Luck!
2006-12-29 01:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy? Was there abuse when they were married. It is odd to hear of a child that doesn't want their parents back together after they divorced. I know I hoped one day mine would get back together, but it never happened. If your mom and dad are happy, then you should be happy for them.
2006-12-29 01:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem if they want to get back together ?? You shud also be happy unless u have some strong valid reason which u have not mentioned.
2006-12-29 01:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by majorcavalry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you not happy with your parents dating again? divorced people deserve to be happy too.
2006-12-29 01:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by kute_regina_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why aren't you happy? :( i guess you need to just try to go with the flow and try to live with it.. try to ignore whats bothering you and think on the positive side
2006-12-29 01:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things take their course and don't worry about it.
2006-12-29 00:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont spoil it for herby being a brat
2006-12-29 00:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, live with it?
y does this make u unhappy? do u dislike one of them?
2006-12-29 00:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋