Often times, a guy or girl has interest in a person of the opposite sex but is unsure of what the true feelings are toward him/her. The person will often try to read to much into words/actions to fit their own wishes. However, an external observer who has no knowledge of the relationship and observes the two people interact can offer a more objective point of view.
Let me give you an example. I am questioning a girl's attraction level toward me. She has given me mixed signals (long story). However third parties, who have never even met us before and then interact with us, say things to me after the fact like "are you a couple, because I see the way she looks at you," or "are you in a hot and heavy relationship?" I question them because I don't see it myself, but they do.
Any thoughts on the nature of third parties observing attraction?
2006-12-28 17:05:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol prolly!!
2006-12-28 17:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, third parties can often gauge someone's attraction for someone else more clearly than the parties involved.
However, this does not mean you base your major decisions on other people's observations.
2006-12-28 17:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't have intercourse with you on the grounds that reformatory bait potential he's 21 and you're sixteen. carry out a little friendship relationship till you're 18. i comprehend it somewhat is long yet the two he will take you out and be a young guy or you will would desire to locate a fashion of basically conserving his kinfolk as buddies. you ought to not in any respect date brothers. you would be able to as nicely tell the brothers it somewhat is basically too undesirable you're so youthful. you're, and is probably not recognized as stalking. Stalking is to not be welcome to be considered. you may never make it till your 21 yet 18 is a sensible time to attend and you'd be in a extra helpful age team. adult men are extremely boys till they're 25 besides. His automobile insurance would be much less and you'd be extra mature and somewhat taller a minimum of. Is he going to college and what are your plans? that's what's going to make the main important difference, larger training.
2016-10-19 03:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't realize how much you are flirting with her. if others can notice signs as clearly as you say then maybe its time to get over trying to find the attraction level and just talk to her or ask her out. you have to take action to get answers.
2006-12-28 17:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i agree w/ the 3rd parties. they usually can see it more clearly b/c their feeling arent involved ...nothings tainted. if they can tell she's hot & bothered, she probably is. 3rd parties have been right about me & mine just by observing us!!!!
2006-12-28 17:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u sound minded person , take the decision on ur own, please dont disclose this type of things to her , she will die with shy .
2006-12-28 17:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they most defiantly can
2006-12-28 17:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by anita s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, it makes sense
2006-12-28 17:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Conor J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋