ok my bf likes me but i don't like him we went out before and i broke up with him and he guilted me back into a relationship and i want to break up with him but last time i did he basicaly couldn't live he WORSHIPS THE GROUND I WALK ON!!!!! hes sweet and everything but he's just not the one for me HELP!!!!!
2006-12-28 18:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste your time dating someone you don't like. You need to break it off with him. It's the best thing for him too. It is selfish to string him along when you don't like him. You just need to be honest with him. It's going to hurt him but it is the best thing for both of you.
2006-12-28 18:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you would be doing him a great injustice of staying w him. He might not see it now, but he will thank you later. Who wants to be in a one sided relationship. Stop being selfish (yes i said selfish cuz staying w him is the easiest and doesn't make you feel lyk a *****) and break up w him. It will take time but time heals all wounds just deal w the fact he won't be ok w this at first and he might even be hateful but thats his issues not yours and he will never recover unless you get (and stay) away. Don't go flaunting what he is missing in his face.
2006-12-28 18:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just torture for yourself, just break up with him as much as it may hurt him it would hurt him more if your relationship just kept dragging on and there would be no chance of it ever going anywhere and you just have to stand your ground and not let him guilt you again
2006-12-28 18:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is sweet & everything and loves ground you walk on -
Please do not leave him.Such bf are hard to find.
not relevent but reminds of a joke--
Husband - I wish to divorce my wife .She never talks to me.
Marrage Consellor - Dont such wives are hard to find.
2006-12-28 18:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grow some balls already. It's YOUR life and no one will ever love you enough to make up for your unhappiness.
2006-12-28 18:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find your backbone back!!!
If not your life is going to be very, very miserable.
2006-12-28 18:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by aUDREy TTT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do it eventually. Sooner is better because then he won't get even MORE attached. Trust me.
2006-12-28 18:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go on one long working holiday.
2006-12-28 18:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by patsie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u in a tight situtation....but its nice to see tat u not takin harsh decision...u don wanna break his heart...but u'l hav to break th news to him....tel him tat u were more comfortable wit him...when u'l were frnds....b cautious...
2006-12-28 18:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋