Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

2006-12-24 17:27:36 · 19 answers · asked by MituSense 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl and i were best friends like senior year of high school. i didnt really have any other really good friends before that and during that, so i stuck with it. even then, i knew we had opposite personalities. im like a quiet, not wild type, and she's like the loud, party type. we had things in common though and we did have some fun times. but she was kinda bossy, involved me in her friend drama, and a few months ago, i was fed up and just stopped talking to her. then recently she just emails me and said she wants to be friends again. im iffy about it. i believe in giving people second chances, but i dont know if she'll really change for me. i cant see us as best friends again, but i can see us talking on occasion. is there anything weird about being friends with her, but just not talking or hanging out as much as we used to? would it be weird if i verbally said this to her? i mean i do want to talk to her since we didnt have closure & it couldnt hurt to meet up and talk with her

2006-12-24 17:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by cfab 1 in Friends

Hubby gave me a fabulous designer dress for Christmas. Except I want to lose weight. So we agreed that I would go and exchange it for a credit voucher and buy what I like when I've lost the weight.

His family come over and in front of his family, he tells his sister she can have the dress. He asks if I'm ok with that and because I didn't want to create a scene in front of his family, I say yes.

I'm not mad about the dress. I'm mad about him not checking with me beforehand and putting me into an awkward position.

HE thinks I'm making a big deal out of nothing and that he'll buy me another one when I want it.

His excuse is that he hasn't bought his sister anything. So the birthday and Christmas presents she gets come from the Tooth Fairy ?

How can I explain to him what I feel, in a way that he'll understand ?

Side note:
mother in law: "let your wife wear it"
sister in law: "oh, it's too expensive... where's the receipt ?" meanwhile, heading to the front door with bag in hand.

2006-12-24 17:24:28 · 17 answers · asked by midnight_lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you can choose between a woman whose a virgin and a girl that gives out sex easily, both equally good-looking , which would you choose and why? this is a girl you would want in a relationship.

2006-12-24 17:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by soccerjock 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ive been together with my man for 3 years going on to 4years. he lives in the other side of the world and i live in new zealand i spend around $200 every week just calling him and he wants me to send him gifts and money and everything but i cant afford it im a student and im studying and for xmas hes giving me hard times which is not good at all i love him and all but at times i think hes ussing me for money and everything he works he earns good money and im broke cos im still studying he controlls. if i want to cut my hair he would have a big drama over it he doesnt want me to dress up like putting on make up and what i normal do he thinks im a ***** when i do that so yeah im confess on what i should do cos i tem to always call him and always get hurt and i still do it

2006-12-24 17:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by lena 1 in Singles & Dating

As a Christian, I know today (Christmas) is not about materialism. Part of me is thinking about those who are cold, hungry, lonely, sick, and/or suffering, which makes what I'm upset about look pretty lame.
Here goes: As I was hanging stockings, my husband told me that he didn't "have anything for yours" which he then qualified by saying that he had something (implying one thing) but couldn't find it. I was really bummed; tried not to show it. Over the years (married almost 24 years) I've gotten in the habit of putting some of the candy I put in others' stockings in my own, & I slipped a few little treats in there. Usually I start filling the stockings & then he adds to them. Maybe I've been enabling him by slipping in a few treats for me, so it doesn't matter if he only adds a few things? Or he thinks since the kids are older it doesn't matter much? I'm upset w/me for being upset, if that makes sense. I know it's NOT about getting; it's about Jesus, so I shouldn't be hurt.

2006-12-24 17:21:55 · 12 answers · asked by sdewolfeburns 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my neighbor is an officer's wife. she thinks she can get away with telling my household they are being to loud, when never have we had a complaint before and i have lived here for 20 years...shes lived her for only a month. she always comes over telling us that our tv is to loud when we are watching a movie or a football game, also we dont "have to be quiet" until 11 PM....any advise on waht to do or tell her or get back????

2006-12-24 17:21:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So I have liked this girl since i spent a day with her a few weeks back. She is in 8th grade i am in 10th. I am in high school she is in junior high. I know her through my sister. Talked to her a lot during that day, and now it seems like she is into me. By things ive been hearing and seeing that shes doing and how shes acting i believe she kind of likes me but is afraid to admit it because i am her friends brother. She invited me and my sister to new years party. What should I do? I dont want to go and seem like i have nothing better to do. But i also want to show up. Should i go an hour late? or go for an hour then leave? I would rather be there later in the night as she would probably be more comfortable during then. But how should i act? Its quite a tough situation, i like her so i will try to act like i dont, aka i will be confident, non chalant, etc. not a cocky a**. so, how should i approach this girl, and how should i act? I want to go with her but dont want to ruin my chances

2006-12-24 17:21:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we found out I said a couple of days later it's not the end of the world deal with it...That is not want I wanted to say and she says I was not there for her though all of this.. she has thyroid cancer..

2006-12-24 17:17:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-24 17:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 17:15:08 · 14 answers · asked by Jeremy H 1 in Family

2006-12-24 17:14:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Singles & Dating

who thinks my boyfriend/ babys daddy should stay living with me rather then move out and come over all the time to see me and his child ...... and do you think he is cheating on me if he wants his own place but still wants us?
please help ASAP
ps..... Marry Christmas

2006-12-24 17:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy and i want to know what i have to change about myself.

2006-12-24 17:13:37 · 24 answers · asked by Chica 2 in Singles & Dating

A while ago I had a friend who had a crush on her cousin and we and our friends were trying to figure out if it is wrong in the eyes of God. In Leviticus it meantions aunts, sisters, mothers (the male versions are applicable too I think, but it wasn't written like that b/c men wrote the Bible).

What do you think?

2006-12-24 17:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by Kaiya 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and a half and she recently turned 15. We have many mutual friends who would think that we'd make a good couple.

I already know that she likes me and is waiting for me to ask her out. Would I be fine dating a freshman?

2006-12-24 17:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by twintree 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is being so unfair to me right know... it's like i get no freedom but my older brothers get all of it. They get to do anythng that they want. whenever that want Yestyerday i went to the mall with mt best frined right! and she(as in my mom) got mad becauce aparently my brother saw me talking to some guy.(he showed up with his frined) ...! wtf i was not talkingot any GUY. i love them (mybrohters buti hate them what the hell should i do about this. it's frustrating me... my hairs going to fall out! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
guys help pleas!!!!
P.S i tried talking toher she just tells me everytime i try ot say something " you have two ears and one mounth " oooooo i hate when she says that

2006-12-24 17:12:21 · 8 answers · asked by shoo shoo 1 in Singles & Dating

We werer married for 15 years, and had a few issues, but no "killers" or at least it seemed, then one morning she came in and said she wanted a divorce. I suggested counciling but when she came to the first meeting her first statement was, "This won't be any use." As I reflect she has had a long-time anger mangement issue, and after talking to my analyst I have come to the realization that she has been abusing me. I actually do not trust her around our children, either, since she has hit them and belittled them in front of me. Any good suggestions?

2006-12-24 17:11:05 · 20 answers · asked by PartyTime 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i lent money to a friend at the job. she said her mother's lights were gonna get cut off if her mother didn't pay the bill.

her mother told her to ask me for the money. i felt sorry for her mother so i gave the money to my friend so she could give it to her mom. she said i would get it back on the 22nd (payday).
-When that day came and i didnt receive the money. i ask my friend what happened. She said she couldnt get it from her mom, they are having a fight.
-on the 23 i asked about it again. She still didnt have it. My friend said she will ask her boyfriend for some money to pay me back instead.
-i am starting to see signs of her avoiding me because we usually eat lunch together, but fpr the past two days we didnt. And we usually take the bus together, but today we didn't. i feel a little upset and used.
-I have a feeling that she lied about the whole situation.
-now i dont even know WHEN and IF i am gonna get my $60 back.

2006-12-24 17:09:34 · 17 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Friends

i think so!!

2006-12-24 17:09:06 · 21 answers · asked by FaT BuTiFuLl 1 in Weddings

i have a bf that is getting om my nerves. i told him i was having problems trusting him and he knows why and i told him he didnt spend quality time with me. well now he is constantly in my face. hes looking at me when i eat, he is pushing the buggy at the store when im trying to push it, he is always standing around me in the apartment, he is even taking up all the bed when we sleep, so i slept on the couch one night and the next morning he came in the living room. well i got up to go to the restroom when i came back he was sitting in the spot he know i was laying in. why didnt he sit on the love seat. well even at the store its hard to shop when someone is constantly standing right under you. i asked for quality time but not for him to smother me. if i say something he is going to say im never satisfied. even now everything i do he has a comment about it. what do i do?

2006-12-24 17:06:41 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

What is the best man suit for wedding ceremony ? Where I can get authentic desinger man suits on line?

2006-12-24 17:04:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If a guy wears pink shirt, does it makes them less than a man? I am not bothered about it though I like them wear pastel colors,sometimes they turned out to be more loving when they appreciate feminine aspects....what do you think?

2006-12-24 17:04:12 · 35 answers · asked by Sherry A 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend asked me to have sex with him but i dont know.....is it better to wait and not rush into things....Im 16

2006-12-24 17:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

i think that my girl frend that ive been with for 5 years is cheating on me what can i do to find out if she is or isent?

2006-12-24 17:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by chongo89478 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

when is the right time 2 kiss ur b/f 4 the 1st time...it would be both mine n his 1st kiss...im 14 n he is 13...we have been goin out 4 like 3 weeks on this thurs...is it 2 soon 2 do it like on new years??...plz help me

2006-12-24 17:03:32 · 7 answers · asked by cool chic 2no 2 in Singles & Dating

I just met this girl and we hung out 3 times and the 2nd time we held hands and cuddled and 3rd we got really close...what should i do next...like i dont know what to do the next time we hang out of to go for the kiss or what? HELP!!!!

2006-12-24 17:03:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has been seperated for well over 10 years from his wife. He is just looking for some basic information online on this topic so he knows what his former wife is and is not entitled to. Thanks.

2006-12-24 17:02:44 · 3 answers · asked by amethystwolf68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lets say this guy that you've known for 3 years now, talks to u alot when hes tryin to get with u, and he HAS gotten with you in the past, and claims he wants to be in a relationship, is he for real? but u really like him and u get mixed feelings from him, amd also the two girls that that he dated dislike you for some strange reason, serious answers only,

2006-12-24 17:02:08 · 10 answers · asked by buddah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 17:01:12 · 7 answers · asked by finander 1 in Singles & Dating