Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

Is there anyone else out there whose husband is in Iraq like mine and you can't sleep this Christmas Eve night cause you miss him so much? (military)

2006-12-24 16:24:08 · 10 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We had a pretty good two year long relationship and I miss him like crazy. He says he still loves me, then he says he only wants to be friends. I'm tired of hearing him say he still loves me but won't come back.

2006-12-24 16:23:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just lost two of my jobs this week. I just moved here 4 months ago. i dont know any one and im completly alone. i moved to start over and now every thing is falling apart..i also work in mental health so im pretty smart on figuring things out. i want to move to a cheap place and chill for awhile so i can get re organized .. any real advice?

2006-12-24 16:22:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, I don't even like him...

2006-12-24 16:21:03 · 12 answers · asked by venom! 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:20:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:19:52 · 21 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

He was verbally and emotionally abusive. I left 6 months ago and it was the hardest thing to do and it is still hard to stay strong but I am doing it. He called to wish me a merry xmas and went on about how I gave upon us and how hurt HE is. I have always said,even before I left, that he needed anger management or therapy and he agreed but never followed through.I thought leaving would get him to go but he went for an intake session where they said he indeed wouldbenefit fromanger management but he hasnt continued. Now when he tells me I gave up I remind him that for my own safety and wellbeing I would not even consider getting back together unless he went for counselling. He wont go and doesnt see that HE is blowing it AGAIN.

Does this mean he doesnt love me enough? I dont get it.If he wanted meback so badly wouldnt he have just gone? He says he doesnt want to talk to anyone about himself. He has lethis friendships and family go to. Has isolated himselfand wont talk to anyone.

Why

2006-12-24 16:19:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 6'1" barefoot.

2006-12-24 16:19:20 · 17 answers · asked by roxy667 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 years old and my b/f is pressuring to lose my "V", he said if I didn't let go of it quick he will drop me! So I dropped his azs was I wrong for letting him go?

Be honest and no kid sh^t okay grown up converstaion and I want up front and straight answer?

2006-12-24 16:19:04 · 24 answers · asked by Callie B. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this guy but I can't stop thinking about him day and night every where I go it's just hard for me to stop liking him I even pictured him with a million zits on his and take a fece What should I do?

2006-12-24 16:18:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:18:28 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 in Friends

She tells me she is either just driving around or at the casino by herself. I don't even know if I trust her anymore. Can't follow her cause I have to stay home with my 10 y.o son. I have confronted her many times and had many fights but she still does the same. She swears she's not cheating on me with someone. What am I supposed to do. I want her to have all the freedom but it is tearing me apart inside. Is it just me or does it seem unusual for a spouse to be out till the wee hours? Please help. I am thinking of a divorce but she has no where to go if we split up. What do i do?

2006-12-24 16:18:13 · 21 answers · asked by techdave1969 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think she is so gorgeous!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2z-69QKNZJ4

2006-12-24 16:18:06 · 23 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

ever dumped a guy(cause he was cheating) and actually felt good about it, almost like a weight was lifted off your shoulders?. The way I see it is, if you treated him right, did nothing wrong, were faithful, and loved him...and he still couldn't appreciate you for who you really are (a good person) then why cry over him, he's not worth it...he didn't value your worth!
So, ladies...has it ever felt good to move on without "him"???

And please no rude comments, it's just a simple question...I'm not offending anyone, I'm just curious.

2006-12-24 16:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

well the old car is parked in our driveway, i think about a half a tank of gas, its a 95 ford escort...ive wanted to runaway for a long while, should i just hit the road once i get paid on wednesday? ill get 50 bucks...that should buy a couple of meals till i can get to a friends house in another state

2006-12-24 16:17:41 · 6 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Family

I really really want to keep going and I can't just stop

2006-12-24 16:17:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not complaining, I'm just wondering if any one else was...so we can have a party DUDE!! (sure don't wanna feel sorry for myself. lots of people have it so bad, I'm actually pretty lucky--- & I like being alone actually---but, I'd sure like to know someone else misses being WITH someone, (I do a little)

2006-12-24 16:16:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Its on the same subject about his dad reading the messages on myspace. I want to know how long we will have to wait to talk to each other. Because i love him

2006-12-24 16:16:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After dating girls of several beliefs, I have come to the conclusion that above anything else, dating people with the same religious beliefs as yourself is very important. They just differ too radically from each other, and there are so many religions out there it is astounding. It is very sad that we are divided in so many ways, but I can't do anything to change that.

I myself, am an Agnostic. I do not believe it is right to force your own beliefs on your children, and I am adamantly against performing religious rituals on children. It seems that most people that follow a religion believe it there place to make sure their child has the same religious beliefs as them.

While I definitely do think that there is something to the saying opposites attract, as this is true in many areas, but I for one think this is something that is very important as it is not something many people are willing to compromise on.

2006-12-24 16:15:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:15:25 · 21 answers · asked by Future father-in-law 1 in Weddings

Things have been going pretty badly with my husband.(lazy bastard) I guess it shouldn't shock me that this year after I carefully planned his gift and wrapped it, (regardless of his recent/constant/always gone on behavior)he purchased me a "gift Card" to a place 20 miles from here. My question is... Why are women blamed for marrying male blunders? Why is it that men push the concept of acceptance of this thoughltess behavior with statements like "awe, shucks, he's a guy!" As if that explains it all? Why don't they all agree to uphold a better standard, so that their wives can be happier?

2006-12-24 16:14:33 · 17 answers · asked by kikumatsu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-24 16:13:53 · 23 answers · asked by bigkey 1 in Singles & Dating

What's the best new years resolution you've ever made?

2006-12-24 16:12:45 · 2 answers · asked by trenay0023 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-24 16:12:40 · 27 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How long do you think you will be single for until you find someone?
do you ever think you will find someone? how do you deal with it?
Isn't it frustrating ? Personally I am separated and had been
married 12 yrs & going thru a divorce- its a b-i-t-c-h and
finding someone else sometimes seems hopless ( I am 43 now)
and all I find now are other divorcees and ones with kids...
Should I give up any hope ???????

2006-12-24 16:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

omg...my date is so boring. i ahve had boring dates before but this guys is like i wanna slit my own eye out boring. all he does is talk about wall street dow exchange and stocks and business finance an stuff. my god! and it doesn't even matter what iam wearing or how much i flirt with him. i have no more smiles and nods left to give.
he even brought a brief case on one of our dates..my god! and he read the paper while i was in the bathroom touching up.

i have held out for three weeks hoping he would change because he is sooooo hot, and can be sweet at times and makes good money. bu he is a bore hole!

anyone ever experience this?? what do i do??

2006-12-24 16:10:33 · 22 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

I sent you one!!

2006-12-24 16:09:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if he smiles at u while he talks to u in a soft tone..is this considered flirting? WUT ARE SOME WAYS OF FLIRTING FOR GUYS?

2006-12-24 16:08:05 · 6 answers · asked by Caitlynn L 1 in Singles & Dating

hello norma just wanted to wish you a happy christmas and a happy new year. sorry to have made an *** out of you in front of my brother, but now that i'm drug free i can defend my mom.she deserves it all in all respects. anyways, i want to say sorry for being so rude to u over the phone.as a new year comes around i want to start over with our sister in law friendship because you are my brother's wife. have a nice day ! love, veronica

2006-12-24 16:07:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 24 years old and have been with the same guy since 1998. We have 4 children together and I just found out he has concieved a baby with another woman (age 18). Their baby is 1 month old ours is 3 months old. He is still lying to me and saying its not his, but I was on 3way with one of his friends and him and heard him admit it to the friend.(he didnt know i was on the phone too) I love him but i dont know if i can handle the lies and cheating should i just throw away the past 9 years or just forgive and forget? Please help!!!!

2006-12-24 16:06:08 · 45 answers · asked by lala 2 in Marriage & Divorce