Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

I met with this guy and we are getting alone very well. There is a very good connection at intellectual and emotional level. However, I am having problems getting intimate with him cuz he is overweight to the point that he can qualify as an obese. I've never dated with an overweight guy before, so I am afraid if I sleep with him it is going to ruin everything. Hence, what's the point of keep dating with him and give hope? Anyways, what should I do? Should I break up with him? If yes, How should I break up? Should I try to talk to him about the issue?

2006-12-24 15:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

so I dated this german girl before, actually i didnt really like her. I used her for "getting some" she was nice looking and all but shes absolutely boring. She went back home, and we continued to have a "relationship" i lead her on to believe that i still wanted her, 6 months after that, she came back to visit me. It was 2 weeks of hell for me, when she left, i decided to just lose contact. Ok its been about a year, and im thinking of her. I wonder if should call her an explain myself, maybe just be friends with her. do u think thats a good idea, or should i just leave her alone. you know, she was nice and all the me, but shes just not the gf material. I was too nice to tell her so..

2006-12-24 15:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i am with this guy and we have only been together for about 3 months. about a month ago my apartment was robbed and he told me he didnt want me to live there anymore and asked me to move in with him.So i moved in with him. Since i have moved i have not been able to find a job because i have not had a car and he works all day. So while he is at work i clean his house and do laundry and i cook him dinner almost every night... But there has been 3 times that after work he told me he was going to work out and left around 430 or 5 and didnt come home untill 11 or 12 at night. He never called to let me know where he was or anything. But most of the time he stays home with me and we spend time together. Also since i have lived with him i still do not have a key so if i leave i have to base everything on him such as when im going to come home and everything. I dont go out very often but when i do he calls all the time. My dad thinks he is using me because i always cook and clean. so?????

2006-12-24 15:23:35 · 12 answers · asked by Shasta 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:22:39 · 15 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

wat do u do if ure on a first date with a person at ur house

2006-12-24 15:22:22 · 7 answers · asked by runscape dude 1 in Singles & Dating

And he lives out of town, for the first time he asked me if I had a bf. He has never done that I he is about to locate because of his job. I would if he is looking for a gf, I know he mentioned something about getting married before a certain age.

2006-12-24 15:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend, his parents, and me were driving back from a nice x-mas eve dinner just talking about random stuff and enjoying some laughs when my boyfriend was like "ugh! you guys always interrupt me!". No one knew he was saying anything and of course his parents and myself did not intentionally mean to cut him off in mid sentence. He basically threw a fit and did not continue saying what he was supposedly talking about. The car became really awkward and silence and I just felt like crap after that, and I'm sure his parents felt kind of awkward too. I just wanna know why he would flip out over something so pointless?

2006-12-24 15:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by bri 3 in Singles & Dating

It seems that every one of us, male AND female, have this crazy tendency to be hopelessly attracted to people that are obviously bad for us; only to ignore and refuse the advances of people that would be make great choices for us.
I mean, I constantly run into girls that are only interested in men that are aloof and sometimes even abusive; only to look right past the "nice guys".
Whereas the guys always seem to be head over heels for the girls that couldn't care less about them, only to look right past the girls that would do anything for them.

What's up with that?

2006-12-24 15:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by negrito con sabor 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-24 15:17:39 · 23 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've already tried kissing him all over his neck and face and he loves that, but what else can I do?

2006-12-24 15:17:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by booboo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband doesn't want to go to his Dad's house tomorrow, because they got in a fight tonight about his brother. His brother makes comments to our children about how much they cry and how much better he is. He made comments throught the whole night and he got mad at his Dad and his step mother for not supporting him. My husband hates his brother, his brother is a mean person, and his wife finally got pregnant and I hope they get ten times fold what they are doing to our children. My husband likes to drink on the holidays with soda, and his stepmother was drinking more than him and she said to him " Your Dad told you to not drink anymore at our house" When his Dad did not say that. I have to go by myself to their house and I just can't believe this on christmas, what should I do?

2006-12-24 15:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Family

i have a friend who is attracted to girls. I am in no way biased or homophobic of any sort ( i'm very comfortable with my sexuality).

I do, however, feel uncomfortable around her sometimes because she has hit on me in the past, which I have confronted her about, but it hasn't helped.

She has recently gotten out of a bad relationship, and i would like to be there for her, but I'm afraid she might get the wrong idea.

I know she still has feelings for me, so how can I help in her time of need without putting myself in an uncomfortable situation?

Thanx all! :)

2006-12-24 15:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by p00mkin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well actually it is my friends parents but my friend said... her mom was threated to get arrested if her mom didnt take her to a theripist because the daughter cuts herself

I hope that was clear enough

2006-12-24 15:15:28 · 22 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Friends

2006-12-24 15:15:02 · 15 answers · asked by finest_man_in_fl 1 in Singles & Dating

He cooks dinner and you watch a DVD or play a board game and maybe a glass of wine or two.

Have we been trying to hard to impress dates with expensive restaurants and shows etc?

2006-12-24 15:14:55 · 6 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Singles & Dating

A guy who tells everyone that he wants to find the right woman and get married sooner than latter has just devastated me.
I have told him that Im looking for dating, ultimately settling down and not for casual carnal flings.
We've never even slept together and have only been on three dates.
Apparently he doesnt consider me girlfriend/wife material because he actually had the nerve to IM me and ask if I'd consider being friend benefits and he's "Blank me" when I needed it.

Im so stunned & livid that I dont know how to react !

At no time did I tell him Im the kind of girl who'd like that, particularly since I already was starting to care for him and like him very deeply.
And it stings a lot because he already told me other people how he wants to get married start family with a great girl.
Do I just ignore him for good or tell him how much that bothered me ?
Am I overreacting ?

2006-12-24 15:12:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A year ago I fell in love with the woman of my dreams...modern, good looking, intelligent, eloquent, kind, ambitious, trustworthy...the type of woman that draws music from inside my heart when I thought that chapter of my life was closed forever. In my fortune or misfortune my love was returned and for a year, I am ashamed to say, I cheated on my wife with her.

I am 31 year old and have been married to a Russian wife for 7 years. We have a child together who is a year and a half old. My wife , as most Russian women, is very loving, docile, and subservient. She is the meekest person on Earth with a very big heart and she loves me unconditionally. But so does the other woman whom I have promised to marry in secrecy.

I have until January 24th to make a decision and no matter what I do someone will get hurt tremendously, myself included. Do I marry this 38 year old woman who dreams so intensely of a child with me and of us being together and ruin my marriage?

2006-12-24 15:12:32 · 13 answers · asked by TheBiggestStep 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-24 15:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

1watch parn and make out
2eat a quiet dinner
3take a walk
4go to his her house
5try to make out all night in a motel

2006-12-24 15:11:34 · 25 answers · asked by runscape dude 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:11:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so me and this guy have been dating for about a month now, and i think that he is great... the best guy ever... like im not used to being treated so good... and i finnaly feel the same way about a guy as he feels about me (for the first time) we are both crazy about eachother... but one problem... he's my boss... he is 5yrs older than me (not a big deal) but it's against policy to date him so we keep it quiet, only his friend who is also a manager knows and one other person who happend to see us on a date... but im going to be getting a new job hopefully soon, but im going crazy... he is treating me like im nothing at work (this was never like this) but when off work im his queen... but he tends to give me the silent treat ment at work, flirts with my co-workers (who he KNOWS like's him)... and his old "best friend" form child hood is back in town and he has not seen HER in 5years and he spends his breaks at work talking to her on the phone... this is starting to hurt me...what u think

2006-12-24 15:09:10 · 6 answers · asked by sierrajones37 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a little fat man wearing red standing outside my house. He keeps calling me a Ho...he keeps saying it over and over again Ho Ho Ho...
Ho Ho Ho...

What should I do????



















Ok just kidding actually I am just trying to wait for my children to fall asleep. They have been in bed almost an hour but are too excited to sleep!!! And I have nothing better to do!
♥MERRY CHRISTMAS ALL ♥

2006-12-24 15:08:27 · 12 answers · asked by foolnomore2games 6 in Singles & Dating

ok so i really like my boyfriend a lot and want it to last ....... and he always tells me that he likes me alot also ..... and i think he is actually surprised about how he feels about me and didnt expect it ..........

i am a virgin and he is not [he is 16 and i am almost 16]..... we havent been going out that long, and we have already gone pretty far ..... i am not very comfortable with REALLY doing stuff with guys and going all the way is a serious thing to me ...............

he has kinda been pushing a little bit into going really far.... i have been very hesitant but i like him so much and it is hard to say no to him.....

what should i do to keep my ground??

2006-12-24 15:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright there's this boy @ my skool(for saftey lets call him Kevin) Kevin has smiled @ me in L.A a couple of times. I wanna ask him out. How on earth can i do that when i barely know kevin?!!? plz help y'all!!!

2006-12-24 15:07:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:07:55 · 2 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been nice to my husband's family and they have been nasty people to me.(and the thing that bothers me is,i would stick up for him if my family said anything nasty about him and he doesn't do that for me)when i was pregnant with his baby they were being mean to me and I forgave them and now we live in Florida and I never talk to them and they are still talking **** about me to him.What do I do?

2006-12-24 15:07:13 · 11 answers · asked by poohtiggeroo2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want them to listen to what I have to say and comment back!

2006-12-24 15:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by leave your thoughts behind 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I were on and off 3 times during our one-year-long relationship(we are long distance).I made big mistakes by chasing him back and making things easy for him every time. I thought i was being considerate but he was losing respect for me although i have lots of admirers and he's not a ladys' man.I think the main reason i love him so much is b/c he is my 1st bf;i wanna work it out. 2 weeks ago we broke up again. It's his finals week,he's under a lot of stress and i called too much. i got mad when he didnt pick it up and didnt return the call and when i confronted him with it he got even more stressful(since he's not been doing very well in college).Before the final, he's all that he loves me so much and all of a sudden he's like i cant see a future with you and i want out before it has the potential of lingering around forever(i'm also his 1st gf).This time i'm definitely not gonna beg or call him or chat online first,i wonder if he'll ever come back to me after say 2 months?

2006-12-24 15:06:02 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

i never cry but i fell like it. iv waisted 5 years liking a stupid guy that dosn't even bother like me.(well it fells like that) i didnt ask him but i know he dosnt and he nows i like him because my friends told him!and keep reminding him, i think they ruined my chance.and when i ignore him he ends up talking,calling,or emailing me!he flirts but he almost flirst with everyone of my friends!which i dont now...im not a giver upper but i think hes playing me.should i quit the games with him and be JUST friends, which i dont think he would have asked me out anyways>so...what do u think

2006-12-24 15:04:33 · 15 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Singles & Dating