Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

Will you go home for the holidays this christmas? Or does your family live to far away?

2006-12-24 15:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6 in Family

I have been feeling that my marriage has been lacking serious issues..I came to realize that the only thing I could do is tell him...I don't feel like he protects me mentally or physically.. He doesnt talk to me, when he does it is generic. When it comes to life decisions he leaves everything up to me. And when I do make a decision it seems as though it is to hard for him to back me up. I used to know these things about him, but I always thought that when times got tough he would change and be a man and stick up for me..But there have been many occations where he has not..I know he loves me, its just that his actions are telling me that he just is not able to love or treat me like the man that I feel I need.. I always thought that when you love some one you don't let any one disrespect them or you. When enough is enough you let it be known. I love him and we have a son together that is why I am still with him, but its been about a year that everyday all I can think about is leaving

2006-12-24 15:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told this boy that i liked him and he said he just wants to be friends, but i don't want to be just friends i want to be with him. I just might be in love with this guy and it's killing me that he won't tell me how he feels, so for christmas i was planning on making a move on him and see what he does/says.

2006-12-24 15:44:23 · 30 answers · asked by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:44:14 · 26 answers · asked by Moe 2 in Friends

i am almost 18 years and have put up w/ years of crap from my parents and sister.....i dont have a problem w/ them just im sick of listening to my parents arguing w/ each other..........and them arguing w/ my sister......im also sick of my sister stealing my stuff all the time, keeping me up all night....i have a part time and a full time job and in high school so am not home that much but when i am it is hell.......but about a month ago my parents told me they were going to build me a room so can stay here and save my money while im in nursing school....and they are really trying to put the guilt trip on me now.......what do i do....i want to leave home so bad....i dont want to hurt their feelings even though they all have put me through years of hurting and hell......is staying home smart or what advice please.......................its been alm ost eightteen years and they are just now trying to fix things???????

2006-12-24 15:42:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He didn't just go to a friend's house... he packed his stuff and left. He came in after working all day, started putting me down, like always and told me how much of a whore that I was and that he didn't know if he wanted to be with me anymore... I have never cheated on him and he is just angry at the world so he has to take it out on me. I have tried and tried and even cried in the recent past for him to not leave me but I can't cry anymore. He emotionally abuses me and I know it is best that we are not together. He took the key to my car on his way out the door. Hope that our little girl doesn't get really sick tonight and I need my car. I don't know what to do anymore. I love him so much but I am so sick of being messed with emotionally. I am so tired of hearing how he will leave every other day. He doesn't realize how a lot of the times, it's not me.. it's him. How can I love him so much yet hate him so much! Words of wisdom please! Words of strength too please.

2006-12-24 15:40:39 · 28 answers · asked by BOOGIE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24 and currently living at home with my parents and younger (21 yo) brother. I'm planning on buying a house when I move out 6-8 months from now. I do like living by myself, and have before back in college. I moved back to my parent's house after I graduated from college but lately i've really starting to get that itch to leave and start brand new. As in - New job, New house, new Everything! I just got the new job and a good raise (thank goodness) so i'm ready to move. The thing is my younger brother (21) and also one older brother (28) are in the same position as me, all of us want to get a house, but I'm not sure if living together for another 15yrs (15yr mortgage) is a good idea. We do get along, but in the last 2 years we've really changed alot; Different friends, Different interests, Don't hang out, etc. Our relationship is still strong but we're not "friends". So should we commit to living together in the same house or should all three of us live seperately??

2006-12-24 15:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by Sam A 1 in Family

when is the right time 2 kiss ur b/f 4 the 1st time...it would be both mine n his 1st kiss...im 14 n he is 13...we have been goin out 4 like 3 weeks on this thurs...is it 2 soon 2 do it like on new years??...plz help me

2006-12-24 15:39:42 · 9 answers · asked by cool chic 2no 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been trying to get a girlfriend for years, I'd say since kindergarten. I'm in 10th Grade and STILL can't get one! They say I'm sweet, but what do they REALLY think?

2006-12-24 15:39:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 8 months wouldn't take me to his house (he is in his 30's and i am sure he is not married with wife and kids). everytime i ask him he always gives me excuse for not going or say he will take me soon. he says that his parents are staying there temporarily for some reason but I am thinking he is an adult and why can't he take me home? what do you guys think?

2006-12-24 15:39:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

also, plucked eyebrows? do you really want them almost gone? and fake-baking, do you find that attractive? just curious

2006-12-24 15:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my wife and I get in arguements, which is quite often, she says really mean and personal things to me.
She calls me names, insults my family, my manhood etc.
I think she unconciously does it to get a rise out of me, or to bait me when she thinks that she has gone too far.

I try to ignore it, but sometimes I start shouting too.

I have tried to talk about it when we are calm, but it always just sparks a fight. Basically we have a really bad communication and I don't know what I should do.

2006-12-24 15:37:17 · 26 answers · asked by <><><><> 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What does that mean?

2006-12-24 15:36:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every year, Christmas has been a BIG DEAL. nobody belives in Santa, but we always bake cookies and leave them out for him. We always decorate a LOT and we always have a big Christmas feast.
This year, my dad didn't decorate, we didn't bake cookies, and he threw my gifts out on a chair and said Santa came early, because he didn't want to get up in the middle of the night.
What should i do to cheer myself up?
Am i being selfish?
please help

2006-12-24 15:36:03 · 9 answers · asked by girly000 2 in Friends

I am very sad, not even Christmas makes me happy enogh... I dated this guy on my vacations (he lives at the US and I don't) but every summer I go there. Ok the thing is that this guy gave me my first kiss, he showed me a lot (i'm still a virgin 4 the record) , he made me feel so many good things, he is like so perfect: funny, outgoing, sexy/cute, makes me laugh, smells SOOO good, he treats me like a princess, etc. The thing is that I can't forget him, I feel so sad, and so alone. We still talk twice a week. But a few friends told me that I had to be realistic, and that it may not be possible for us to get back together. (I'm going next year again, and I'll be staying for years). So we could pick up were we left off. But I don't want it to hurt so bad if it doesn't happen, besides it already does because of the distance...

Help me please.... HOW TO GIVE UP HOPE? HOW TO CURE MYSELF FROM LOVE?
in your opinion DO U THINK IT'SPOSSIBLE FOR US TO PICK UP WHERE WE LEFT NEXT YEAR OR NOT?

2006-12-24 15:35:57 · 18 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:34:33 · 19 answers · asked by texascomet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was 14 I met this young man and found him so amazing yet my parents thought he was not good enough for me. He was to dark or to tall or didnt applied in his studies or maybe the sun was not shinny enough...I dont know. Still we allways looked for each other and made the best of it. We became high school sweethearts and we had plans to go to college and even married in the future. But it did not worked out that way. Still the thing is that after so many yrs I came across him and we had a great after noon. I think it was one of the best one ever. We made plans to meet again, he share with me his future and his plans to marry and we were happy. Yet, 6mo later he was dead by a drunk driver.

2006-12-24 15:33:50 · 6 answers · asked by ♥*~ღ~NYSunrise~ღ~*♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean the likes of Beyonce Halle Berry Jessica Alba are very pretty.But because they are more popular but Keshia Knight Pulliam is the prettiest isn't she.

2006-12-24 15:32:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by Adam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So much is going on. Im so jealous. He wants me to get a bigger butt. He is transfering to another university, I just had an abortion and now im depressed. We are happy most of the time but we have problems. Should i leave him

2006-12-24 15:32:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so I dated this german girl before, actually i didnt really like her. I used her for "getting some" she was nice looking and all but shes absolutely boring. She went back home, and we continued to have a "relationship" i lead her on to believe that i still wanted her, 6 months after that, she came back to visit me. It was 2 weeks of hell for me, when she left, i decided to just lose contact. Ok its been about a year, and im thinking of her. I wonder if should call her an explain myself, maybe just be friends with her. do u think thats a good idea, or should i just leave her alone. you know, she was nice and all the me, but shes just not the gf material. I was too nice to tell her so..

2006-12-24 15:31:56 · 15 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about a year. My wife gets mad at me about usual stuff like leaving a mess or forgetting to do something or whatever. I can understand this. I listen, and I try not to do it again even if habits are hard to break.

But sometimes she will get mad at me about things that she just can't explain to me. They probably make perfect sense to her, but they are so wrapped up with her emotions that they just don't make any sense to me. I try to listen and validate, but eventually I just get frustrated as say, "OK, so what would you like me to do?" and this just leads to arguments or tears. For example, she will say, "You don't support me and you never will". So I ask her how I can support her better, and she can't explain. Or she'll say, "you can't make any decisions without me." So I'll explain that that is because when I make decisions, she will try to change them anyway.

We have these arguments that just go in circles and make no sense to me. What to do???????????

2006-12-24 15:31:34 · 17 answers · asked by <><><><> 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-24 15:30:12 · 9 answers · asked by jessy_a 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by Kiara 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:27:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I completely understand that by doing so you are causing the other person terrible amounts of probably undeserved pain but if what someone is doing is purely out of love is it the wrong thing to do? If one is going to tell the other but all the same has completely fallen out of love with one as result of falling fastly into love with another- are they really to blame? Can you accuse a heart of a crime? All my life people have told me to follow my heart- what if my hearts leads me somewhere immoral? I understand that prinicply you should wait til you're out of one relationship but what if then it's too late. Please, I am in no way trying to justify cheating i would just like to hear your opinions.

2006-12-24 15:27:20 · 49 answers · asked by Taylor M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-24 15:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by nglfrmhvn 1 in Singles & Dating

So the holidays are here and this is the time, where we get to see friends and family that we really dont see all year round.
Is there that one person/ family member that you really could do with out seeing. You know crazy Cousin Billy, loud Auntie Sally or rude Uncle Buddy or the wacky family friend of you parents.

2006-12-24 15:27:14 · 2 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6 in Friends

My cousin is friends with the girl and she told me! Im so upset because i paid 350 for that game system and he gave it to her as a gift because my cousin said they are still fooling around and he still likes her! Im so furious i feel like kicking him in the balls! How do i get that game system back and my money???

2006-12-24 15:26:26 · 34 answers · asked by sexy sasha 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 15:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships