so I dated this german girl before, actually i didnt really like her. I used her for "getting some" she was nice looking and all but shes absolutely boring. She went back home, and we continued to have a "relationship" i lead her on to believe that i still wanted her, 6 months after that, she came back to visit me. It was 2 weeks of hell for me, when she left, i decided to just lose contact. Ok its been about a year, and im thinking of her. I wonder if should call her an explain myself, maybe just be friends with her. do u think thats a good idea, or should i just leave her alone. you know, she was nice and all the me, but shes just not the gf material. I was too nice to tell her so..
2006-12-24 15:31:56 · 15 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go...
2006-12-24 15:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are feeling guilty because deep down you know that you treated her poorly. I dont think you were"too nice" to break up you were too scared or maybe just too lazy. No one likes to feel like they are wasting their time and their heart on someone who doesn't care and it seems that's what happened here to this girl. I can't see the value in you contacting her now to say that she just wasn't girlfriend material. I think she figured that out already. I think you have to ask yourself why you want to call her. If you have something to say that might benefit her then maybe you should call but if this is about easing your own guilt about basically blowing her off then you should just let it go and move on.
2006-12-24 15:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by E B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you were too nice of a guy too tell her, according to your recent questions, which are all about men with fat women, you don't sound like a nice guy, you sound like a shallow guy with no respect for women, no morals, and no idea how to treat a person right.
Get some respect. Leave that girl alone, she can do so much better than you.
2006-12-25 03:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if she has any hot friends shes made while in your local area. if you do diside to talk to her again, play it off like you lost all your information to everyone, and use a new e-mail adress or use a friends phone to kinda proove it.
but at the same time, if you just lost contact with her and she didnt try talking to you too, maybe the "using" went both ways and you can explore that to just a sex thing
2006-12-24 15:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by clever+dimwhitted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u want but it seems u still like that girl why dont u change her to a gf material since she is not one,thats the best thing to do
2006-12-24 15:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has moved on, and you are perfect free to move on. Save yourself the cost of an international call, don't worry about this little affair, and move on. No need to feel guilty; you "got some," and so did she, and nobody was harmed. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-24 15:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the small world we live in, I am sure she could of gotten ahold of you if she really wanted to. I think she's over you, so get over yourself already. Maybe she was "bored" with you.
2006-12-24 15:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have melancholy. Its no longer something to be embarrassed approximately and its quite worry-unfastened. You asserting "i do no longer comprehend whats incorrect with me" exhibits that its melancholy it relatively is a chemical imbalance on your suggestions. you will get on medicine to point issues out and make you sense extra powerful. i will quite relate, as i'm a mom of two boys very on the fringe of the age of yours and my husband is interior the militia too. As a militia spouse, its your activity to stay reliable on your boys and on your husband. Its quite no longer ordinary, when you consider which you're consistently faraway from family individuals and stuff...i'm specific melancholy is amazingly worry-unfastened between militia spouses. pass communicate on your physician and enable him/her comprehend which you have indications of melancholy--they provides you with a prescription which will make you sense extra powerful and assist you get excitement from life back. reliable success :)
2016-10-05 23:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just thinking of ladies past, because you're not with anyone right now. We all do it. Just don't *act* on it! If she really did show up on your doorstep, you would be pretty miserable. I suggest you channel your energy into finding someone new!!
2006-12-24 15:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Athenart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh you are such a player. NO! Its not a good idea! Leave that poor woman alone romeo!
2006-12-24 15:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your last line cracks me up..."I was too nice to tell her so..."
when have you ever been accused of being too nice.
The nicest thing you did for her was stop talking to her. Leave her alone
2006-12-24 15:38:12 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋