Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

I love my boyfriend to death and would do anything for him but lately im finding myself turned off by the things he does and im starting to not like him as a person. Does that make any sense?

2006-12-24 16:36:10 · 40 answers · asked by georgiabelle87 4 in Singles & Dating

How many girls out there do not wear underwear when wearing American Eagle jeans? I am curious if I am the only one. Some girls say it is gross, but it is so comfortable for me. American Eagle jeans are made of very soft jean material. I have been going "commando" for years. I have never got a yeast infection or any other type of infection by not wearing underwear. I think underwear is useless because you have to wash jeans anyway.

2006-12-24 16:36:00 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie W 1 in Friends

this girl named ____ always makes fun of me becasue im goth . Its not my fault that im goth. i was born into a head banging /weed smoking family that approves of the way i dress..all of a sudden this girl moves down the street and thinks she can control me and my friends. The problum is her dad is abusive and im scared of him w/e i do to her , the father might come a knocking on my door... i dont really need that ****. so what can i do to get back at her without the parentals gettting involved

2006-12-24 16:35:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How many women(20-35) deal with a man who's refusal to grow up makes her feel like a mummy to an over grown teenager? I shave his back...and he plays video games?! NO excuses for men's "reknowned" limitations please! just how many women do you think? like out of ten?

2006-12-24 16:34:59 · 13 answers · asked by kikumatsu 2 in Singles & Dating

How do i get a girl that i LOVE but is taken,?
This girl ive known since september is beatiful, smart, and the is the world to me. In november she broke up wit her boyfriend of 2 months. I really never talked to her so i started to and we talked about evrythin. I felt comftorable around her since she was single. This past weekend on saturday i was gonna make my move then she hooked up wit her old bf. This made me so mad because the first time he jus let her go and found a new girl the next week. she was so sad and i was so mad. i got to know her more than when i wanted to make my move she hooked up wit her old boyfriend, As a friend i told her that i care about her and will protect her. I told her to becareful wit this guy. I wanna tell her so bad but i dont want to be a jerk. I love the girl but im not sure if i should say my feelings to her cause i dont want to seem like a jerk and ask her while she has a man. Cause she mite think im desperate

2006-12-24 16:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

heys.. can you help me?
i duno if this guy still likes me..
two weeks back, we were like always talking on the phone forn hours at night but then, he went to japan..
he is now back,
but he avoids me ,
before he left singapore, i sent him this msg about how i will miss him and stuff...
then he actually showed the msg to his frens..
i now dont if he still likes me anot?
i dont know if i sld make the first move and talk to him...

2006-12-24 16:34:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just met this nice girl on line. Can somebody help me how to introduce myself better to her and start to get to know each other? Thanks.

2006-12-24 16:34:06 · 7 answers · asked by KRSNA 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex before thanksgiving. (From rumors about him cheating on me but now I know he didn't) And a couple weeks ago we were talking and he said he still liked me alot (and a bunch of other nice things) But he never asked me out! But now he acts different around me and im not sure if he still likes me anymore. But I really care about him! To make it worse I have two friends who HATE him and if I go back out with him they will be sooooo mad at me! PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-24 16:33:59 · 4 answers · asked by taylerkiz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:33:20 · 3 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Friends

Why is it so hard to let go? Why is this person so unforgettable?


To me this person was my ex. The funny thing is,he is the first love of ALL of his ex's and his current girlfriend! Okay, more weird.

2006-12-24 16:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to go out with him, but at the same time I don't want to ruin our friendship if we broke up. So I don't know. Should I ask him out or should I just stay as friends? He's been showing signs that he likes me, so I think I should go for it, but I just wanted some opinions.

2006-12-24 16:32:33 · 5 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

i live in the us but i need some specifics on where how and what to do. i just lost both of my jobs, and my wife and i divorced. i need a break. soccer is the only thing that gives me life. i would like to know of where i can get by for awhile on some $$ its not much but im willing to sell what i have. what can i do so i can re group.

2006-12-24 16:32:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you guys really want someone to love, or is it honostly sex? it seems like so many women(myself included) want so much for true love, but do men want the same?

2006-12-24 16:31:56 · 17 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy back in January, but he lives in Texas and I live in California. We hit it off great, had a lot of things in common, and I fell in love with him which I told him 4 months after meeting him and he confessed that he loved me too. We would talk everyday for hours on the phone he would tell me about 10 times in one conversation that he loved me. The last time I talked to him was 18 days ago also his b-day. I have sent 4 text messages and 2 e-mails but he doesnt reply. I really thought he was the one!!! What do I do?? HELP PLEASE

2006-12-24 16:30:40 · 18 answers · asked by cute_chica 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by rachelle g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought her a ring from Tiffany's and I want the moment to be absolutely perfect. I want to show her that I'll love her forever, and that I'm honest with her, and that I trust her with everything. Any idea on what I should say? Thanks for your help.

2006-12-24 16:29:49 · 17 answers · asked by soccerwarrior00 3 in Singles & Dating

My co-worker is dating someone, however everytime we work together she totally ignores him if he comes into teh shop, she is always making googly eyes at me and blushes around me. She tells me that she loves her b/f but then she does outragous Yoga stretches, sexually, in front of me. I was just wondering what her deal is, does anyone have any ideas. By the way I am 5 years older than her.

2006-12-24 16:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although my boyfriend knows that I love him so truly and genuinely, he seems not to appreciate what I have done for him. For Christmas, I sent a big gift package shipped from Vietnam to him and all the members of his family in the US. I don't mind it costs a lot for over sea shipment by DHL, I just want to make him happy. In the contrary, he gives me nothing and silence even a wish for Christmas. I never mean to get back what I give but I feel sad because he seems not to care about me or think of me on this holiday. I planned to come and see him in the US but failed to get visa approved. So, he wants me to pay the ticket for him to come and see me in Vietnam because he said he has no more extra money. He just spent a big sum of money to buy something wonderful to surprise me (I guess he bought a diamond ring to ask me for marrying him because he said he wants to marry me).

2006-12-24 16:29:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The trailer for My Boys shows the star saying she hopes her first date restaurant is inexpensive so that she doesn't feel bad telling the guy it's their last date if she doesn't like him.

This got me to thinking that maybe we shouldn't act like we're made of money on the first date and we should keep it simple and inexpensive, low pressure all around.

2006-12-24 16:29:06 · 8 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend. I need some people to remind me of the great things about being single in college, because I can only think of the bad things. Thanks

2006-12-24 16:28:26 · 31 answers · asked by oldgranny 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:28:01 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My step dad died day after birthday of throat cancer he fought 4 14 months.Dog died in May of liver, spleen cancer & hind legs paralyized!Didn't even know she was sick! Find 1 day & seizing the next!I cried more over losing dog then step dad! She was my daughter!My step dad I loved him but when growing up he was an acholic & abusive BUT he was the 1 who promised sister & I a dog!I miss them both very much! I have a new pup 6m old & I love her but not the same! When I was wrapping presents I kept forgetting that I didn't have 2 get for them. My mom cries ALL the time & she is mad that I don't! She EXPECTS me 2 cry! I don't 2 let he down but I don't like crying in front of people & she knows this. I miss them so much & love them so much! This is the 1st Christmas w/o either & it doesn't feel like Christmas! I feel like I'm looking in on everything from above me. Like a 3rd person! I know that when I cry my hubby gets upset so I keep everything in! I just don't know what 2 do.

2006-12-24 16:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Family

I am suffering with post tramatic stress which turned into severe health anxiety after a few months struggling with getting better and trying to feel normal.I have been to two doctors that have said that other than depression im ok.I have been trying to be normal and do things everyday that I havent dont in awhile which is a real achivement for me.I had severe flu for three weeks and it was horrible .Im getting better and getting around.Yesterday my wife was called by family members and told of her father possibly being sick.She made all kinds of calls and got him into a hospital and personal doctor.We live a long way from where he lives so we couldnt be there.he is in no danger other than flu,but she worried so I consuled her as best I could.I have been with her 4 years and its been one thing after the other that I have been strong for her and been there for her.Now thatt I need her to be a little help for me ,she says what have you done for me lately .She forgot about the past 4 year

2006-12-24 16:27:26 · 6 answers · asked by LL B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was casually sleeping with a man for over a year. After 3 months of seeing each other sexually, "I love you's" began to come out of his mouth. In a year's time, I told him I wanted something more serious with him. He of course, did not. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? He claimed then that he only said I love you b/c it turned him on. It was at that point a few weeks later that I discovered I was pregnant with my first and only. He immedietly upon telling him, wanted me to get an abortion compliments of his money. I couldn't go through with it. He said he would not want to have any part of this childs life. He then proceeded to move 2000 miles away. Now that I am 8 months pregnant, he has decided he wants to be a part of our future daughters life. He doesn't want to be romantically involved with me though, although he says he cares about me and the life inside of me. Is it feasible to expect him to change his mind about "us" since he did so with the baby?

2006-12-24 16:27:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if it is possible that a man dont want to stay with his wife because of some personal reason and he wants divorce from his wife & if wife said in front of Judge that she wants to stay with his husband & Judge gave the judgement to stay with ur wife against his wish not to stay with his wife

2006-12-24 16:26:25 · 32 answers · asked by ash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I recently moved into an apartment together and she has had some relationship issues in the past which she warned me about when we first started dating. Both of us agreed that because we got along so well and we are very good for each other that this was a good step to take. Now that we're in the same apartment (co-signed on a 1 year lease), she has said that she is freaked out and doesnt' know what to do. She loves having me around and loves me but says that things are different now and she has trouble giving 100% into our relationship because she is overwhelmed by it all.

I don't feel like I was lied to or used and we did this together. Both of us want the relationship to work but I'm worried the best way for us to stay together is for us to be apart for some time. She cannot move out but can't afford to take the lease on herself. Another roommate is out because it's a 1 bedroom place. I don't think I can deal with paying my half and not be there. Help!

2006-12-24 16:25:49 · 6 answers · asked by Evan G 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I be so stupid sometimes? I am alone for the first time for christmas. My boyfriend is on a trip because he is a pilot. My dad sent me a card with some money in it and I was cleaning out my closet and ended up throwing it away in the dump at my apt. I went back to look for it and its gone. It was the only Christmas I had. And its not just the money but the card. I feel so depressed now.

2006-12-24 16:25:44 · 5 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Singles & Dating

Dear (name here)

will you go with me?I love u and want to get married and have 2 children.

2006-12-24 16:24:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well this is a follow-up to my post from last night about me and my neighbors mother in-law fling last evening in me and my wifes house..actually it happened on our couch and the master bed..
WELL today after walking up I went thru my usual routine here at the house. I prepared for the Christmas party at my Neighbors house which was tonight. Me and my wife went to the party and I pretended like nothing had happened last night with "Helen". My wife finally met "Helen" and I was not a bit nervous..thanks to your postings last night to pretend nothing had happened! The party went well, we ate, socialized..and when my wife went to the restroom "Helen" noticed her chance to come over. She gave me a big hug and told me how awesome she was feeling from last night! I smiled with a grin :) and she leaned over and whispered in my ear that she was up for it again..I told her my wife was leaving for work tonight and that she could stop over. WELL she did..and yes you can imagine what happened...

2006-12-24 16:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships