this girl named ____ always makes fun of me becasue im goth . Its not my fault that im goth. i was born into a head banging /weed smoking family that approves of the way i dress..all of a sudden this girl moves down the street and thinks she can control me and my friends. The problum is her dad is abusive and im scared of him w/e i do to her , the father might come a knocking on my door... i dont really need that ****. so what can i do to get back at her without the parentals gettting involved
2006-12-24 16:35:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i cant ignore her becasue its coming to the point where she calls me at 3 in the morning call me names and hanging up and at school she slams my locker on me..... i just recently had a locker change but it still continues
2006-12-24 16:39:00 · update #1
ignore her
2006-12-24 16:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Goth Girl, none of these answers suffice. the bottom line is you're being bullied. One good way to get back at someone, who is obviously trying to control he environment socially, because her dad beats her A*s*s @ home, is to kill her with kindness, my big sister always used to say, "keep your friends close, and your enemies closer." To kill her ever angry soul, try sending her a card, that says.... "hey ______, sorry things have been so messed up lately, (other Bhitch girl) told me stuff is really bad at home. Sorry you're so unhappy, call me again if you need to talk." this will riddle her with a confused bout of guilt and envy and frusteration that her bull isn't breaking you down. It's called being Patronizing, grown women do it at work when someone is pissed off about something going on at home, and brings it to work. Her dads Vile example is clearly rubbing off on her and she has no way to release it, oddly enough it's not you, she just randomly picked a punching bag, who seems to actually have more in common with her than she would like to look at. Reaching out to her might make you both realiize how much you have in common. A very famous psychologist suggeats that people despise in others what they do in themselves.
Hope this helps I majorley feel for you.
2006-12-24 16:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by kikumatsu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, in fact don't even acknowledge her existance. She wants to feel like she can control you and if both you and your friends ignore her there is no way she can feel that way. Also by ignoring her there is nothing she can complain about to her parents either since you are actually doing nothing to her. As far as her dad being abusive that might very well be her problem but thats another issue altogether.
2006-12-24 16:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what she says, ignore her. If her dad is abusive she is most likely very dysfunctional and not worth getting in trouble over.
ETA...well if she is physically threatening you tell the teachers at school. I mean what choice do you have short of fighting her!
Also, if she attacks you or threatens you outside school on the street go home and have your parents call the police.
Seriously, I would not tolorate this bullying.
2006-12-24 16:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person and leave the situation alone. The more you ignore, the better off you'll be. Engaging and attacking isn't the answer. You'll feel better when you don't get upset at what others say about you. They're the ones with issues, not you!
2006-12-24 16:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by nimzaj1969 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why bother? Let it go. Whatever you do; there will be consequences.
Get on with your life. Don't associate yourself with her and if and when you and your friends discuss her - don't involve yourself in talk about her.
In this day and age; you can easily wind up in jail or juvenile (depending on your age) for a very very long time.
P.S. Karma (look it up) takes care of everything. And you don't have to lift a finger or say one word. Always remember that.
2006-12-24 16:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it the legal way...report her to the police and school authorities for harrassment the get a restraining order on her...if she calls you or comes close to you after the order is issued...you can have her arrested
2006-12-24 16:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and if what she did was really harsh, karma will come to bite her in the ***. You will just stoop to her level if you try to do something to get her back. (which it sounds like she has a hard enough life as it is without your help)
2006-12-24 16:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Whit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She probably thrives off the fact that what she says even has any effect on you.
The best way to handle people like that, is to not let them get to you.
2006-12-24 16:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is calling you at 3 in the morning then YOU need to call the police and have her charged with harassment. But you have to have PROOF of her calls.
2006-12-24 17:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore her because after a while she will just leave u alone because she will notice that your not paying attention.
2006-12-24 16:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by chongo89478 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋