Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

I am the guy who thinks,
to be happy ,
1. I need to be physiclly healthy and balanced ,and to have good shape so I can respect myself and others .
2.I need to find a real love , if I just collect tempory hearts or keep on unsatisfactory relationship there will be no true sex,no true pleasure ,no true satisfaction.
I know it very well.So I decided to do it.So I did good exercise and tried youga and I tried to find a real love.I tried to be real me.
BUT I lost my self I ate alot watching late night tv( but not to the degree like a fat guy) ,stopped exercise and what the hell is real love I kept on collecting temporary pleasure.and I realised something went terribly wrong So I decided to do it again.This stupid circle was not once
To speak shortly my life has been like this .How to keep controlling myself and not to fall in this stupid circle again I amm serious PLEASE HELP

2006-12-24 17:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so here's the deal
mi cuz has been friends with this guy since elementary school but lost touch after thier elementary graduation. mi aunt is still good friends with his mom. well i hadn't seen him for like YEARS and i saw him this past summer and thought he was really hott and have had a crush on him ever since but i didn't think it was that serious. This past christmas eve i went to mi aunts house and he was there. idk how or why, but suddenly, it felt like mi heart was gonna jump out of mi chest......he's funny, cute and has a cute laugh. he seems to like me too. he always looks at me with a smile on his face and we laugh about anything together.....the problem is he's a really quiet and doesn't say much at all and i am like that too but not as much as he is. the biggest problem is, is that i'm afraid that things will get wierd between us if we were to break up or if i tell him and he doesn't like me back.
how do i find out if he likes me without having someone ask him for me??

2006-12-24 16:59:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and it goes straight to voice mail, does it mean that the person's cell phone is off, or that he has your # blocked, or either or?

2006-12-24 16:57:45 · 18 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I still love my first love ,and its hard to move on does anyone still love there first love !

MY First LOVE Daryl Rey Martinez ! who lives in WASHINGTION i STILL LOVE YOU

2006-12-24 16:57:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by drinkj71 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im the bigest silent hill fan that i know of i got a full back tattoo of all the monsters and poeple from all the silent hill games.

2006-12-24 16:56:22 · 1 answers · asked by chongo89478 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

See i was wit a girl for 2 years and i used to make out wit her almost everyday..now she has betrayed me and doesn wanna be wit me anymore..but i still keep goin back to her..sometimes i have dirty felings in my head and i wanna make out only wit her again..how do i concinve her to do it wit me once again?? i keep dreaming about her almost everytime..help me pls..give me d right advice..

2006-12-24 16:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:56:16 · 9 answers · asked by cavillier1970 3 in Friends

we broke up after year and he wont live me alone

2006-12-24 16:54:46 · 20 answers · asked by mgm 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know how to quit. i've done it for 3 years and i just feel i need to quit, plus my parents are starting to catch onto me!! but i cant help it, everyone in my family does it, so im wayy under the influence!! HELP!!

2006-12-24 16:53:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love sleeping with either lights on of off. But the light is on i want it dim, it's more like peaceful for me...

2006-12-24 16:53:50 · 22 answers · asked by Sherry A 1 in Singles & Dating

Good morning and Merry Christmas everyone!!

My friend and I exchanged Christmas presents. She bought me some jewelry which is not my style at all. However I wore it and pretended to love it, but the reality is I will probably never wear it again because its just not me and doesnt suit any of my clothes (Its really for an older woman and I kinda like more boho jewelry).

The dilemma is for a couple of reasons. Firstly and most importantly, my friend and I have a policy of NEVER lying to each other - we tell each other the truth no matter how uncomfortable or painful, we will phrase it delicately or sensitively if need be. The other reason is that I wouldnt want her to be fooled into thinking that I liked that kind of jewelry in case she wastes her money buying another in a similar style.

Was I wrong to have lied to her? If I should have been honest, how should I have phrased it??

2006-12-24 16:51:27 · 31 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6 in Friends

whats it mean when you prank call a guy and you say who do you think this is? and they say laugh again and ill tell ya! why would a guy remember a girl laugh?

2006-12-24 16:51:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wifes older daughters and I dont get alone. I get alone with my mother inlaw but thats it. When ever there is an event or something my wife and kids are welcome to go but not me. What realy gets me is that most events are held at the daughters fathers house my wifes ex. We dont get alone and I hate that my wife dont stand up to this and let them know that Im her husband and some events will be at our house like it or not! Can some one give me some advice.

2006-12-24 16:50:42 · 8 answers · asked by mrbigdog35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have asked several questions concerning dating, the opposite sex, etc and have developed a theory....
love complicates life
do y'all agree? so many stress about it, when they find it, they dont find it satisfying, and cheat. people break each others hearts apart...or their own. dont you agree?

2006-12-24 16:50:22 · 11 answers · asked by Shucky D 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the advantages and disadvantages of being the woman on the side?

2006-12-24 16:49:40 · 3 answers · asked by violet83 2 in Singles & Dating

She says that we are soulmates, gonna get married, etc etc. Stuff like that. What does she mean by repeatedly saying she is my soulmate. Does she like me more than as a friend or not? We are pretty good friends as of right now.

2006-12-24 16:48:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 16:47:46 · 20 answers · asked by drinkj71 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this guy more than i liked anybody b4 and hes perfect to me. he finally knows i like him im in 9th grade hes in 10th i have one class with him... i nvr officially asked him out. h dated this other girl and she dumped him and now he says hes not boyfriends material. and id do anything for him =] and then tonight he got online and i imed and hes like its officially xmas and i told him happy xmas and he said it back and im like i hope im the first to officailly say that to you and he told me i was second, and then he said he was going to go to bed. and he was like love ya, goodnight. and he NEVER said love ya to me before and i dunnp if he said it to be nice bc its xmas and he knows i like him or if it really means sumthingg..... please help me i really like him and my one friend thinks im in love with hmm =]

2006-12-24 16:47:08 · 8 answers · asked by brittany l 1 in Singles & Dating

If they are responsible and take care of their kid and all, is it acceptable for someone to dress punk,or rocker, or some other genre, and still go to concerts once in while???

2006-12-24 16:46:55 · 12 answers · asked by thisones4menotu 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i get a girl that i LOVE but has a bf?
How do i get a girl that i LOVE but is taken,?
This girl ive known since september is beatiful, smart, and the is the world to me. In november she broke up wit her boyfriend of 2 months. I really never talked to her so i started to and we talked about evrythin. I felt comftorable around her since she was single. This past weekend on saturday i was gonna make my move then she hooked up wit her old bf. This made me so mad because the first time he jus let her go and found a new girl the next week. she was so sad and i was so mad. i got to know her more than when i wanted to make my move she hooked up wit her old boyfriend, As a friend i told her that i care about her and will protect her. I told her to becareful wit this guy. I wanna tell her so bad but i dont want to be a jerk. I love the girl but i dont want to seem like a jerk and tell her while she has a man cause she mite think im an ****** and rude cause she already is taken

2006-12-24 16:46:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy I've been talking to online for a while and last Thursday we went and played pool together and the next day he called but I wasn't home...then tonight he came to a party my family was having and when he left he told me to call him tomorrow...I know he is kinda looking for someone he can see himself being with for a long time, but I dunno if he thinks I could be that girl at all. How can I tell if he maybe wants to take it to the next level?? He gets along really good with my whole family and we're both Aquarius's. Can someone help me out please?

2006-12-24 16:45:01 · 1 answers · asked by TheHottestChristinaYouKnow 2 in Singles & Dating

im a goth and someone is keep on messing with me and i was about to go to jail becouse he started to talk crap about my family and frends so i cant accept that becouse i have anger issuses.

2006-12-24 16:44:35 · 8 answers · asked by chongo89478 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have gf been with her more than 2yrs now but before that i had 1st gf was with her about 8months then I cheated on her so we dont talk since last 2yrs and now me and my ex talk as friend but I feel she likes me way she talk like sweet, want me buy her gift and she going to buy me bday gift so am i doing right thing by talking with my ex or should ignore her.

2006-12-24 16:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated a guy last year when i was a freshmann in high school n we dated for like 3 weeks and for some stupid reason i thought i loved him and ended up performing what i guess you could say was oral sex on him i know it was a mistake and we've both come to terms with that and are at peace with eachother but i still feel horifically guilty about it and my friend keeps bugging me as to whether or not i've told my current boyfriend (who ive been dating 4 like 10 mos). I figure he probably doesn't want to know nything unless it's how much better he is as a boyfriend than the other guy was, but whenever i think about it it makes me feel upset and guilty. I'm not sure if he'd look at me any differently or respect me any more or less or be disgusted or what his reaction would be. I do believe he'd still love me but it would be something i could never change. Should I tell him?

2006-12-24 16:43:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but it had nothing to do with how i look or my outfit.i just happened to say i was always hot and he says you shouldn't work so hard.and it wasn't sarcastic either.we work in a supermarket and i like him.is this a good sign and would you take it as a compliment.

2006-12-24 16:42:57 · 15 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

well not that kind of love...the love that im talking bout is boyfriend girlfriend love......

2006-12-24 16:42:45 · 26 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 in Family

2006-12-24 16:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my bff iwa got in this huge fight about her bf and how she never hangs out with me anymore because her bf gets in the way. and i havent talked to her in a month and i have looked at her...basically weve avoided each toher. my heart hurts so much. i know she misses me because shes been sending me emails saying she has, and that just hurts more. what should i do?

2006-12-24 16:40:35 · 5 answers · asked by this sucks 1 in Friends

there is this guy i am not sure if i like him.. he is a very nice guy..
yesterday night, we hanged out with his cousin and our friend.
so it is 4 of us...
he became so close to our friend and i feel kind of jealous.. i do not know why.
they were like at istana park talking and she even ended up lying on his shoulder..
i duno if i like him, but i am quite sure that he will not like me at all...

2006-12-24 16:38:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating