What is the best way to control yourself and not to fall.. ?

Question

I am the guy who thinks,
to be happy ,
1. I need to be physiclly healthy and balanced ,and to have good shape so I can respect myself and others .
2.I need to find a real love , if I just collect tempory hearts or keep on unsatisfactory relationship there will be no true sex,no true pleasure ,no true satisfaction.
I know it very well.So I decided to do it.So I did good exercise and tried youga and I tried to find a real love.I tried to be real me.
BUT I lost my self I ate alot watching late night tv( but not to the degree like a fat guy) ,stopped exercise and what the hell is real love I kept on collecting temporary pleasure.and I realised something went terribly wrong So I decided to do it again.This stupid circle was not once
To speak shortly my life has been like this .How to keep controlling myself and not to fall in this stupid circle again I amm serious PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

Ask God to give you the hope and strength to reach your goals.

I have a goal too. My goal is to be pure till my wedding night. I asked God to give me the strength to not give in to premarital sex. It has worked for over 10 months now. He has given me the guy who really does love me and is willing to wait. I didn't look for him either. He was even under my nose the entire time.

Finding real love shouldn't be a goal. That's GOD'S job.
He will bring you the right one in His time. Just have faith in Him.

Be happy with yourself. Respect yourself. Be true to yourself.

Answer 2

It took me a long time to finaly realize what makes me happy anyways. Everybody is different and has their own things that make them happy. But the meaning of life... or true happiness comes with the relationships you establish with people. It doesnt matter what you look like...it doesnt matter where you are, it doesnt matter what you have. You are only as happy as you make up your mind to be. Being the best person you can be, and learning how to treat people with respect, and putting yourself in other peoples shoes instead of always thinking about yourself. Having a positive view on things, and try to stay away from the negative expectations, because it could lead to the very situation you dont want. But making the best out of every situation, and apprecaiting what is givin to you. Know that you always did your best, and you can look back and be satisfied with who you are and what you accomplished. Avoiding stupid situations in the first place, before it even happens. Just stay true to yourself, and im sure all your love and other situations will probably take care of its self! This is what makes a person happy... or atleast myself :-)

Answer 3

it is written- if any man is in CHrist, he is a new creation- and I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me- when a temptation comes- it is always a common one- and there is a way out- knowing what you want to do and knowing you are on the right road is half way there- belong to the Lord does wonders- when you belong to Him his Holy spirit dwells in you and teaches you- just ask-and know his Word-D

Answer 4

Let someone else [the government] do it for you! The marines are looking for a few good men!