Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

Okay. So my previous question was a bad one, which now i realise that (thanks to the answers), and im giving my girlfriend probably many years before i proceed to that intimacy. Well, back to this question. Im a graduate so i have no worries in my studies. However, my girlfriend is still studying. I dont want to affect her studies at all but still wanting to keep this relationship badly. What should i do?.

2006-12-24 17:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by LeBear 2 in Singles & Dating

I've got the hots for this girl. Am I insane or do you guys think she's good looking too??

http://profiles.yahoo.com/brown_eyes528

2006-12-24 17:51:54 · 16 answers · asked by From Russia with Love 1 in Singles & Dating

THINK HARD , PAST LOVE , OR WHO EVER , TELL , SOMEONE WHO YOU REALLY LIKE !


IF YOU COULD BE WITH ONE PERSON WHO WOULD BE ?
i WOULD BE WITH DARYL REY MARTINEZ 23 IN US.NAVY , MY FIRST LOVE

2006-12-24 17:51:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 17:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by abilash b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

countries,britein,french,russia,china,germany.please help me with this quetion,it's so very important.I mean the monarchies names.& I did try to reaserch,I've being trying for a week now.but didn't get anything,& this is like the last minute.so please help.

2006-12-24 17:51:07 · 2 answers · asked by uni_tesfu2008 1 in Friends

2006-12-24 17:46:38 · 7 answers · asked by sunil s 1 in Singles & Dating

I need a buddy someone who wouldn’t mind shooting the breeze with me from time to time.

2006-12-24 17:45:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ex that i dated for 3 years broke up with me since then she has been a ***** to me so i finally stopped tryin to get her back...lately she has been calling me alot leaving voicemails i didnt talk to her for 3 weeks till now she wants to meet up and she said that she loves my family and what not prior to not talkin i said not to call me unless you want to talk about us what is she doin girls do you have good ideas on this

2006-12-24 17:44:43 · 11 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a hard working entrepreneur who loves fishing, boating, golfing, travelling, and the finer things in life. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.

2006-12-24 17:43:27 · 16 answers · asked by Maria Gallercia 4 in Singles & Dating

So I had been dating this guy for 8 months, my first serious boyfriend and first love. Our relationship had been ok, we did fight about things like the fact that he didn't trust me for no reason, that he wasn't over his ex when we first started dating, he lied to me, etc. We had our problems and after I came back from studying abroad over the summer, which we fought the whole time basically, I felt that enough was enough and I broke up with him 2 months after getting back. I didn't really realize until after we had broken up, but I wasn't happy. I had him get away with some things that really bothered me, but he hadn't realized there was that much problems cuz I hadn't let him know. However, since we have been broken up, we've come back and forth because I still really care about him and he's always wanted me back, i've been holding him in limbo, but not on purpose, but because I've been confused too. Recently I decided I wanted to give us another chance and was fully commited to ...

2006-12-24 17:42:57 · 8 answers · asked by soso98 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in my current relationship for a little over 2 years now. We're going to get married once I finish school. I've grown quite close with my inlaws. My son has a different father, but is treated as if he was born into this family. My problem is that my son's father is giving me a hard time about my son calling my fiance's parents grandma and grandpa. This would be the only grandfather that he has because 1 is dead and the other is non existent. He does NOT call my fiance dad. I'm curious what you think? I think it's ok. I don't mind if my son picks up extra grandparents in his life, as long as I'm never replaced. if you think it's ok... any words of advice for defense to cool things down on that side? His mom seems to be quite offended by all this. (she often speaks for her son through his son... squawking in the background when I'm on the phone trying to converse with him... ya she's one of those)

2006-12-24 17:42:52 · 18 answers · asked by born2bfree 3 in Family

im 15/m i really this girl and really intrested in her
she tends to "bump" into me while we walk at times and whenever i look towerds her she always looks back and sometimes catch her looking towerds me at times,the thing is i cant really tell her because i dont want my heart broken again and dont wanna ruin our friendship
we always laugh togheter and she laughs at my jokes
that might sound good so far right?
but i asked her if she was lookin for a relationship (not with me just in general)she says i really like my first love and wanna be with him but if i remember correctley she wouldent mind someone new
do u think she likes me im putting my faight in your hands i have known her for about 2 weeks now shes also 15 and she calls me daily if not every 2 days to come hang out with her n blaze =] she my smokin buddy also lol i really like her alot and im gona go with what u guys tell me please be honest if no then no if yes then im gona ask her please help me
sincerly
mr.confused=/

2006-12-24 17:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by rafael m 2 in Singles & Dating

I've always wondered about the dynamics behind such relationships. It's easy to say the victims are just stupid, but so many smart people get caught up in them as well that there must be some other answer. Please no speculation if you've never been in such a situation before; I really think this is one area you have to endure to truly understand.

2006-12-24 17:40:52 · 9 answers · asked by mathew j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy is really sweet, but I think he just wants to have sex with me.Should I like a guy like this?

2006-12-24 17:39:13 · 12 answers · asked by Chica 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in very uncomfortable situation. I have a friend/acquaintance that I visit at a private local book store. We all know each other in the bookstore and are all nice acquaintence friends and often share hugs with our hellos. One woman there is my same age range (50), she has been married one year (she's known him about 6 years), and lately when I go in to the store her husband will also hug me, but lately more closely, a bit longer embrace. He once followed up the hug with a kiss on my cheek, as he saw my friend (his wife) just do that, he seems to want to talk to me a bit longer, lingers in my company . . . once when I was at the counter talking with his wife on the other side, her husband came around to my side and began moving his hand at back of my neck under my hair just a bit...I motioned with my body language for him to stop, he then began moving his hand down my back. I treasure my woman friend's friendship, don't mess with another's guy...how do I handle this situation ?

2006-12-24 17:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Friends

First of i want to say i love my girlfriend & we've been together for 3 years & lately I've been wondering if shes the right person for me.
This is my first serious relationship and I'm not sure if my expectations are justified(A relationship to me is where two people try to work with each other & help each other progress & accomplish each others goals.) but i don't feel like shes meeting them & this leaves me feeling unfulfilled & empty.In the past 3 years i have matured some & I've starting to notice things about her that maybe should have been noticed.Things like
Her immature ways(I'm 20,shes 18),laziness,clinginess to-wards me,the fact that nobody in my family likes her,possessiveness,& the fact that she don't have a drive to do anything to better herself or her life just to name a few negative traits of hers.So how can i find out what i should do.

2006-12-24 17:37:00 · 17 answers · asked by Slim504 2 in Singles & Dating

when something falls thru what happens?

did it go thru or did it not go thru?

2006-12-24 17:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

after all you know they will jack up the price once they hear the word wedding...... I want something nice but not over the top, and I don't want to over pay for anything...
I look at catering menu's and they are nice and resonably priced but then you go to another page with pretty much the same food and the prices are inflated by up to 30-50%

2006-12-24 17:36:45 · 14 answers · asked by drkbabe73 2 in Weddings

2006-12-24 17:36:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this kid in my skool nd i like him madd a lot- rescently he told me that he loved me nd i think i love him back but im not sure because of the fact that we're not even goin out. on top of that we both are in a relationship- just not wit eachother

2006-12-24 17:35:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I finally left abusive husband after 13 years of pain on December 16th, moved back home with mom and brought my 2 children with me ages 6 and 4. The first week I wasn't sad but now I feel a bit sad because he hasn't even called to speak to the kids.
Also I left him a message asking him to make arrangements to drop off their gifts for Christmas and he hasn't called and it's now Christmas. I'm wondering if he's going to be one of those dads who ignore their children. He's will have to pay child support. I just read his email and saw he'll be moving to his apartment on January 4th. How do i get through this? I thought I would be happier away form him and I am but also depressed. I feel that he'll have it easier than me and start a new family and forget about our children. Also I haven't filed for divorce yet due to lack of funds and emotions. How do I let him go and move on?

2006-12-24 17:35:38 · 24 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex called me like 6 times today i talked to her once n said i have nothing to really say she wants to go out wed since then she has called me 3 times what should i do what you think she is thinking?

2006-12-24 17:35:19 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

my uncle is dating my 3rd cuz on my side....

2006-12-24 17:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 in Family

What do I need to do,what type of visia is needed, Can she come to visit and I marry her then she stay here.

2006-12-24 17:34:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

25 years before my father and uncle went to malaysia, thn after a few months my dad came back but my uncle was still there, soon my father passed away and now me and my family have no idea of where my uncle is, where he would have gone. We live in Karachi, Pakistan. My uncle would have ran out of visa and could be in jail. We have his Identity Card and his photograph too. So anybody please guide me who to ask or what to do to find him.

2006-12-24 17:32:12 · 3 answers · asked by xtremist 1 in Family

My last post was frustration. She has some problems (some baggage given to her, which sucks, but...). I am not about to suggest I am anywhere near perfect. But we had such an amazing thing going for a while, and then she disappeared from our relationship w/out a word. Just withdrew. I asked her about it and she won't tell me shiat! If I had to guess, I'd say if I let things run their course, in 2 months I'll never hear from or see her again. I was SO, SO patient for MONTHS trying to give her space, hang in there, be there for HER b/c I know she was just testing me for whatever reason, but now resentment has set in and a part of me could care less. How much of this can I tell her?

2006-12-24 17:31:47 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

have a crush on my friend and i gave into peer pressure by confessin my true feelings to her. The thing is that she claims to have an online bf who she met in an online game and she ahs never seen him in person. Shes completely obssesed bout this kid in the U.S and shes rejected 3 guys along wit me for this guy as she claims to 'love' him. Anyways, ever since i told her shes been actin weird and shes also been ignorin me a lil bit. I was thinkin of tellin everyone that im over her so that things return to normal again. Does it sound like a good idea? coz i havent gotten over her yet, im just thinkin of lyin to set things straight again. Im in grade 12, shes in grade 11. We live in Canada by the way.

2006-12-24 17:29:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Quick Scenario
- been good good friends for years now - really close, can tell each other things, goof off but can be serious when we need to be
- i tell him stories about the boys "interested" in me - he teases me all the time about it and he'll tell me about girl stuff
- silly friends and we have silly nicknames for each other

NOW...
- we've matured alot - esp. him
- i told him (not in a serious matter but from my honest observation) - "woow, honestly, you're like a boyfriend to me...i tell you everything that i wouldn't tell some dude...funny, right" - don't know if he freaked out with, he just responded, "aww, that's cute"
- he's still the same guy BUT just...not as dorky-silly - trust me, he doesn't hate me or anything...he's just more "cautious"
- He's "there" but "not"...sometimes
- If he were tell me a story about a girl i'll joke around and say "don't say it...i might get jealous"...(as a joke) and then he really won't tell me...
- he still wants to hang out

2006-12-24 17:29:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend (43-years old) who has been acting very strangely today (unlike her normal cheerful and encouraging self) insulted me today by joking: "I am going to be like YOU: an alcoholic, pill popping drug addict who also does crack." I (23-years old) quickly took offense because (a) I don't abuse prescription pills anymore, (b) I am not addicted to cocaine or even marijuana, and (c) I am a recovering alcoholic. I has been drug free for 20 months, has not popped a pill for 7 months, and don't get drunk nearly as much as I used to. Ironically, my best friend forced me to break those habits. I think, in part, the fact that her anniversary was yesterday and her husband left her for a younger women plays a part. Another factor perhaps is financially she could not afford a Christmas and she resents the fact that I spent thousands in cash (but I saved it and went without throughout the year) for Christmas; thus, she is resentful. I really don't know. What do you think? Thanks....

2006-12-24 17:29:01 · 12 answers · asked by Maria Gallercia 4 in Friends

Just wondering...

Thanks for any answers!

2006-12-24 17:28:50 · 18 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Singles & Dating