My last post was frustration. She has some problems (some baggage given to her, which sucks, but...). I am not about to suggest I am anywhere near perfect. But we had such an amazing thing going for a while, and then she disappeared from our relationship w/out a word. Just withdrew. I asked her about it and she won't tell me shiat! If I had to guess, I'd say if I let things run their course, in 2 months I'll never hear from or see her again. I was SO, SO patient for MONTHS trying to give her space, hang in there, be there for HER b/c I know she was just testing me for whatever reason, but now resentment has set in and a part of me could care less. How much of this can I tell her?
2006-12-24 17:31:47 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And anyone who reads (read) both, I never said anything like that to her. Never will. Never would. Just upset.
2006-12-24 17:35:23 · update #1
Open up and let it all out. You may be surprised at how Favourably things can change when she senses your sincerity. Sometimes, relationships need to be jolted into action again.
2006-12-24 17:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.k. Take the kid gloves off and tell it to her straight that you care about her and want to be with her, but you can't help her untill she let's you help and that everyone has had terrible **** happen too them, but that you are not these people that have hurt her and that you never would hurt her for you care about her deeply and that you understand she needs her space so your going to give her that but if she needs you to call, and then move on with your life and do your own thing for then it's in her ball court not your any more. I know it may be hard cause yuo care but there is only so much you can do she needs to do for herself now. Good luck
2006-12-25 01:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, from your many many previous questions, I would recommend that you seek professional help. Yahoo! questions is useful but really..all those questions... I recommend you tell her none of it because if she cared she'd be dating you, and if she doesn't care, then what is telling her going to accomplish? Go out, read a good book, eat at a new restaurant, try a different bar, travel to a different city and walk around for a day, meet someone new. Life doesn't have to revolve around one person who obviously doesn't care about your mental well-being.
2006-12-25 01:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, that while she tries to decide on how she feels, and where she stands, that you cannot allow yourself to just sit around and wait on her. You need to move on with life.
2006-12-25 01:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it be and move on. Don't put yourself through anymore pain that you have to.
2006-12-25 01:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Peter N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does'nt want to be with you,and it's her way of telling you.Or it could be someone,or something else making her do it.Like does her family close friends approve of you?
2006-12-25 01:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care about her, your relationship and yourself tell her all of what you just said here...honesty is always best. and you deserve to be happy and treated right too.
2006-12-25 01:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on bro Or you'll be lost for Life
2006-12-25 01:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋