Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

i am of 23 yrs. my name is geeta. i am in love with a boy of same age but bigger than me from 30 mins. my problem is that he likes to do sex with me before marriage and i also want to do. but my fear is that if i become a pregnent before marriage it will be a problem. please help me. i love him so much that i can give my life for him. wat shud i do

2006-12-24 19:22:51 · 22 answers · asked by dolly g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe in love? Not attraction, crash and etc, but real love

2006-12-24 19:21:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I like very much is so confusing. I know he has a gf that he sees on the weekends & often when he was getting ready to leave to visit her he would tell me he didn't really even want to go. Was he hoping I would tell him not to go & stay & do something with me? He is all the time asking me why I don't ask him to do things for me. He wanted me to go with him & meet his buddies once & I told him I couldn't. He doesn't seem to understand that since he has a gf I can't interfere & there are lines I can't cross.

So I guess I just want to know how often do guys do this (have a gf and act like it has nothing to do with him and another girl). I've given him several chances to just completely walk away but he won't. I'm assuming he is still with his gf but we don't talk about it anymore. I guess we are friends (he won't say what I am to him---he knows I like him as more than a friend). Why does he not understand this?

2006-12-24 19:21:13 · 8 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I started to spill my guts about the whole saga blah! blah! blah! but I would prefer advice on getting my so and so out of the bed and going on with life.
His words haunt me " I am a good man and you will never ever find another man like me" and I am starting to believe those very words. Please pinch me, slap me, shake the hell out of me, but help me get those words out of my head and to help me move on with life. Any advice is welcome or just tell me how you got through this painful time. By the way the getting together with friends is out because my friends are 10+ years older than myself ( I am 39) and they just don't do those types of things.

2006-12-24 19:18:34 · 14 answers · asked by adorable_nobie 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend very much and planning on marrying him some day.

My problem is he is very happy right where he is. Living I mean, not that I want to ever move but I would love to travel the world. Visit the pyramids, See the wailing wall, wake up on a tropical beach or even visit the markets in China.

He has told me these things do not interest him.

Should I go alone, join a tour group things like that.?

He has told me he would fine with me going and him staying home.

Do you think he is telling me the truth.?

By the time I get to where I can afford to travel both our children will be grow. His right now is 17 mine is turning 17.

Help.!!

2006-12-24 19:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by LadyCatherine 7 in Singles & Dating

Do u believe in ghost spirit? Well I didn't until I went my friend house. My friend & his roomates rented a 3bed house, the reason they rent this house cuz it's cheap (only $1000/mo)& in perfect condition compare to a current economy in CA. They've been informed by landlord dat the house had a murder crime record in the past decades & 3 peo were brutally murdered in dis house; dis probably the reason dat it's been vacanted for a long time. The landlord was about to demolish dis house until they moved in. He told dat his room mates were scared & 1 of them have moved. They told me dat they hear a massive voice of a woman crying @ midnight & a lurking shaddow fly acrossing the hallway& a rattling noice in the kitchen. At 1st, I didn't believe him, den I crashed at his place 1 night. Now, if da stove or a candle goes off by itself, u probably blame the wind, but not vice versa. I saw from my own eyes dat ceiling fan turns on by itself & a transparent white shadow of a woman appear.

2006-12-24 19:14:10 · 11 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never heard a girl/woman fart in my whole entire life. Is it true that they never fart? Or if they fart, does it smells like roses??

2006-12-24 19:10:45 · 19 answers · asked by Mckyboyz 2 in Singles & Dating

Why in the world would my mother give me a ceramic dog vase for christmas? I've never been a ceramic anything person, and I don't have pets because I work out of town. You would think that after all this time, she would know me better.

2006-12-24 19:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by debdini 5 in Family

like i know bro's before ho's but still my friend was always pms-ing about everything his girlfriend did so she stopped liking him and then she started liking me cuz she thought i was cool or w/e but now she wants to get back together with him but i think he's moved on to another girl the girl that i liked before me and his gf started liking eachother so ya he's like playing his ex so should i tell her this or not?

2006-12-24 19:03:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 19:00:53 · 13 answers · asked by sri d 1 in Singles & Dating

is it possible for someone to be addicted to lying, one of my close friends says she is, she lies to everyone to make herself look like a better person, she lies about her age, race, and pretty much everything and she claims she can't help it, is that even possible ?

2006-12-24 19:00:40 · 24 answers · asked by surfing ='s life 3 in Friends

age between 18 to 22 years

2006-12-24 18:59:48 · 7 answers · asked by imti 1 in Friends

2006-12-24 18:58:43 · 12 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am about 5'9" or 5'10" i gave up on measuring myself. but yea i am only 17 and many people who are older conatantly say i will enjoy my height. the only reason i dont like it is because it seems it makes guys look away as if i am intimidating. i want to be see as an average girl, not the tall girl. so guys, what do u think when you see a taller girl about my height?

2006-12-24 18:58:42 · 22 answers · asked by loverly 2 in Singles & Dating

for me it was mmmmmmmmm , my family was happy coz my sis got married and my brother graduated from medicine school .I was able to travel 4 times ....
the worse things that i lost hope of achieving any of my dreams..I lost my best friend and i am one year older with no promosing future emotionally or socailly !

2006-12-24 18:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by Silent tear 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my Girlfriend a lot , she loves me too. When our relationship started , she had told me about a guy who was attracted towards her. I know she loves me a lot , but the problem is that she sometime mentions about that guy in our conversation. i don't like this and I have told it about her. But she keeps doing it(not too often). Whats in her mind why she mentions about him even if I don't want to listen and she has no interest in him....

2006-12-24 18:56:13 · 6 answers · asked by @rrsu 4 in Singles & Dating

I want it...or at least one just like it!

2006-12-24 18:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by Sara E 1 in Weddings

2006-12-24 18:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He leaves when conflict occurs, generally he goes to his moms, but not always (this is when he says he stayed at our workplace.) I know he must be masterbating freqently & I just wonder why when he could have the real thing! I have become reclusive, insecure, and regretfully, suspicious.He could have ANY woman he wants-he's gorgeous (and he knows it)! My dad died in 2005, & I self-medicated with enormous amounts of alcohol; the fights were terrible during my plight in which I wasn't even pesent enough to care. I fear my husband does't look at me the same because so early in our marriage, I was not the girl he married...I was a mess. He claims to be in love with me, but I have NEVER encountered a man who doesn't want sex like all the time! I've gone from "easing the tiger" (past boyfriends), to teasing, caressing, kissing, complimenting, and trying to playfully "rile up" the tiger. Lately, there's no romance, no passion. I feel him resisting my touch. Please help! Have I lost my love?

2006-12-24 18:50:28 · 21 answers · asked by keli berg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl just yesterday and i found out that she likes me but im not sure if liked me before she found out that i was a virgin...she jsut lost her virginity this year and she wants me pretty bad and i kinda want her too but i dont really know her so what do i do?

2006-12-24 18:47:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 18:46:42 · 34 answers · asked by ajitav 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend are in love for the past 6 yrs. we both are in good job. The problem is her parents do not accept our love. Attempts to make our both parents to meet had ended in clash. Her Parents are not ready to take this matter furthur. But i cant loose her(ofcource she too doesnt want to loose me) but at the same she doesnt want to loose her parents.


Her father hates love marriage and inter-caste marriage.

I have fixed a final meeting with her father to discuss about marriage (in 2 weeks). But iam not sure what points to discuss with him so that he accepts. And what should i do if he insults me. Any Advice will be great.

2006-12-24 18:42:52 · 23 answers · asked by AKBoy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i belong to a good family but i want to show 'em all that i can earn

2006-12-24 18:42:00 · 11 answers · asked by JKL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friends girlfriend started to like me more than him and then they broke up then we started to hangout more and then we kissed and said that we loved eachother but now she wants to get back with him and like he says he doesnt know if he wants to like i think he likes this other girl she was the girl that i liked before i met his girlfriend so should i tell her that i think he's tryin to get with another girl?

2006-12-24 18:40:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am doing Security for the firm that i work for, it is very boring and it still very dark outside, i finish at 6.00pm.I will go home and to my roast and vegetables. so some on guys i need cheering up, sense of humour please, thanx

2006-12-24 18:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by Ruksana P 4 in Friends

2006-12-24 18:36:43 · 7 answers · asked by james e. c 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever corresponded via email for awhile and felt like there was a LOT of chemistry between you and the other person?...then you finally met them, and their personality really matched up w/their expressions/writings?
Or was their personality totally different than you expected?
NOt talking so much about looks-wise, personality!
Yeah, I wanna hear some true stories! :o)
Thank you

2006-12-24 18:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by Auntie Marie SueB 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about the guy I like. We talk sometimes, just small talk. How can I get him to notice me even more?

2006-12-24 18:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Singles & Dating

Well,I show my mom all my talents,intelligence and some merits I have achieve,my independent attitude and I just ask some liitle money once this christmas only....but she screams and slaps me....But why is that it is ok for her If a boy commits mistakes, beg her some money and she always agree and treat those boys like her precious and backstabbs me a loser because I'm just a girl....Agggggrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhh.... i can't help it anymore!I'm turning 17 this yr....

2006-12-24 18:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by desperate lady 1 in Family

2006-12-24 18:35:39 · 11 answers · asked by curiousk D 1 in Singles & Dating