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Question

i am of 23 yrs. my name is geeta. i am in love with a boy of same age but bigger than me from 30 mins. my problem is that he likes to do sex with me before marriage and i also want to do. but my fear is that if i become a pregnent before marriage it will be a problem. please help me. i love him so much that i can give my life for him. wat shud i do

Answer 1

You are Geeta. Justify your name.Don't do this before marriage.If you are too keen to have it, then tell your parents to fix your marriage with the man you say you are in love with.I know it is hard to check the temptation and hard to follow my prescription.It may be anxious for others and in some cases their parents might even OK it. Will your parents OK it? Can you divulge your desire to your parents? If it becomes unavoidable and if you are really going to marry him, then use a safer method which many of the answerers would suggest.

Answer 2

My dear geeta... i do not know whether i am the right person to answer ur question.. even i have a girl friend and even i want to get cozy with her all the time.. boys really can never draw a line where to stop.. its girls who have to take a stand and tell the guy this it enough and wat u r thinking of is possible only after marriage... i knw u both want to get married and i pray for that too but god forbid if it does not happen like the way u think wat then... if u have sex now b4 marriage and the marry someone else god forbid...i wud be really not good.. since u love him so much and i hope he does too... even u want to have sex but NEVER DO SOMETHING WHICH U CANT OWN UP...will u be able to OWN UP THAT U HAD SEX WITH UR SOMEONE whom u r not married.... if u can go ahead use pill or condom and enjoy but ONLY IF U CAN OWN UP AFTER U HAVE DONE IT... think of everything of ur future ur parent and not only about ur eagerness get intimate... REMEBER A GUY CAN GO TILL ONLY THAT EXTENT TILL WHICH A GIRL ALLOWS HIM TO..
best of luck...

Answer 3

well very common question now a days, dear geeta, if u r looking for a sincere suggestion, i will ask you that if both of you are in love to each other then why you dont go for marriage directly, talk to your families so they arange a weding ceremony of you, its so simple. and if your mariage time is not near then much better advice is to be patient in this matter, you can go on for some caresses in love, but the full fledge will be a wrong idea, because in my view the sex is actualy the most wonderful secret of life for men and women both, its curiousty that do accelerate the love , affection in hearts of the lovers, some secrets should remain secrets before marriage and sex is the biggest of the secret, the curiousity is the key of love in my eyes, and if it is disclosed then in mariages you surely will find less charm.
Secondly, the pregnancy is another matter and may it never happen but if you are aparted before marriage then this pregnancy will be a question mark? though i pray the most ideal relationship betwen you and your bf...
but remember that love can grow in the purest forms only if sex is after marriage plz.... its my sincere sugestion, the decision is upto you!

Answer 4

I think your lust is asking more then your morals. I would suggest not to go in for sex unless and until you are sure you are marrying him. His thought and ideas will change as soon as you have sex. He may feel satisfied and may not even bother to contact you. If you already in to that act then go and see a gynaecologist and ask for prescription. One more thing you want to give your life for him but he may not be interested to do the same!! Check out!!! And your age difference is too less so the understanding level of his is much lesser then yours.
And still you have not done but want to do before marriage use contraceptive, Condoms are good as they protect from getting AIDS or any other STD.

Answer 5

I hope u understand the difference between love and physical love.....love is never demanding geeta well if u think he cant wait until he gets marrried than think twice before gettting marrried to him....can u actually guaranteee urself as per what if he doesnt marrry u once he has sex wit u...well if he doesnt u have gifted the precious thing of urs to a person who likes physical love....welll condoms are always there to prevent pregnancy but ask urself will u be able to face urself if he ditches u in the future....ask him to wait or get marrried soon....

Answer 6

Geeta you are a sillly girl. DO NOT have sex with him before marriage. Even if you do not become pregnant, your life can get disturbed. He can refuse marriage and suspect your character that if you can open your legs for him, you can also do it for others. I AM TELLING YOU THE TRUE PICTURE. you are the best judge. you can both wait till marriage, what is the hurry? and after marriage of course you both can do it as many times as you can...

Answer 7

first up all stop giving him so much important yes love him but he cant be more then Ur moral values n respect of Ur parents

me n may guy to wanna have sex but only bcoz i m not comfortable with sex before marriage stuff he agreed to not have sex before marriage

what if tom after sex he dithc you then what

do what u want sex should make feel u good an happy it should not make feel regret later on

god bless you

Answer 8

If you like to have sex, why not. Don't think about marriage, maybe you marry him maybe not. It doesn't depends to sex. I think to marry somebody, and not to have sex with him before it, is crazy.
Marriage is something just on the paper. Sex depends to love, if you love somebody, then you should have sex with him, it makes it perfect.

But don't forget to use condoms and if you want really be sure, take also pills.

But do it, you will see, how great it is;)

Answer 9

Come on you already know the answer, so it all comes down to who you really are. Are you some cheap slutt that wants to impress some idiot or are you a girl who actually has some virtue? There is a solution to your problem: it's called MARRIAGE. You ever hear of it? What kind of girl wants to disgrace herself and her family with slutty behavior? You should be ashamed of yourself. Straighten up now before it's too late.

Answer 10

You are right to wait. Even using protection is not a sure thing. You may still get pregnant. it happens all the time.

Wait until your married. If this boy really loves you he will show you the respect you deserve.