Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

What should i do?

2006-12-24 20:46:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 20:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by Hagit Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do each mean? like do they have different meanin or what??

2006-12-24 20:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just wanted to tell everyone that i love my husband very deeply.
he is a good man,and a good husband, he helps people that are in need
he feeds the homeless,he's always giving,i respect him and i appierate him
very much and i would also like to say to him...thank you just because.
your wife booboo

2006-12-24 20:39:24 · 15 answers · asked by nobodyspeical00 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-24 20:39:22 · 18 answers · asked by TCSO 5 in Singles & Dating

My wife is 30 years old and I am 35. She always has less interest in sex, whereas I have a healthly inclination towards sex. We love each other, hence donot want to seperate, also since we have a 5 year old kid. She is also not agreeable to visit a doc. Can someone suggest some councellor in Calcutta?

2006-12-24 20:38:49 · 35 answers · asked by trantor_man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the reason I'm asking all of these questions is my friend and i who have both been victims of cheaters have decided to get together and right a book on the subject. we are trying to look at both sides.

2006-12-24 20:38:33 · 6 answers · asked by unitedfaith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never been big on the idea of marriage, it's always just seemed like a waste of effort and resources. Are there any REAL benifits from getting hitched? I'm not looking for answers telling me about love and all that, I understand relationships but personally do not see any benifits over just living with your other and having a good relationship without the paper work and possibility of devorce in the future.

Please don't assume that I am anti-marriage. I know that it works out wonderfully for some people (my parents have been married for 33 years now, which is amazing considering that my mother was 15 and my father was 20 when they got married) I just don't see how it would benifit me in any way.

Any thoughts?

2006-12-24 20:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by Lori B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when girls moan during sexual intercourse?

2006-12-24 20:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by zxcv 3 in Singles & Dating

i grew up with an abusive brother and a relative. i am now in my 20s and plan to kick them out of my life as one of them is still abusive. both have scarred me emotionally and i just cant bring myself to forgive them because of the pain they've brought in my life. .when someone is in an abusive relationship they get out, but in my situation they are someone i am related with. is it wrong for me to cut ties with these people.?

2006-12-24 20:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do girls have to play hard to get? Why i can't i pick up the phone the first time a guy calls me instead of waiting after three calls. Is there a difference between hard to get and ignoring a guy? If i get into a fight with a guy and i talk to him the next day how the hell am i easy? isn't dating like being best friends? I don't get the date game. why are there so many freakin' rules.

2006-12-24 20:34:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and he is a wonderful guy and most everyone would agree. I am very in love with him and he claims to feel the same. The problem is my obsession with the possibility of him cheating on me in any form. I have been quite volatile during the relationship; putting limitations on him, such as telling him which of his friends I hate and don't want him seeing, and then he has lied a few times to see them for fear of having a fight with me. The friends are guys, but they seem to always be on the prowl for women, which i hate. This lying has caused me to be paranoid to the point of hysetria. Asking him everyday if he has cheated on me etc... I don't konw what to do anymore because I am stuck in this horrible loop of paranoya, but due to his past lying (even though they were somewhat minor), I am terrified more than ever. I want this obsession to end but all i can think about is the possibility of it being true or possible in the future! What should I do?

2006-12-24 20:34:56 · 8 answers · asked by L K 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is my issue. I have a tendency to let people take advantage of me. I am the first person people go to if they have a problem, or issue, or need something. I do like this because it obviously is a good feeling to know people trust you and can depend on you. On the other hand my friends rarely ask me to hang out with them, they often say and do mean things, and use me. I hate to sound as whiny as I do right now, but this has been an issue since I was in grade school, and I'm now in my mid twenties. Several times different people have said to me something to the effect of not wanting to make plans with me because they want to see if a better option comes along, or they will tell me that they only invited me somewere because they couldn't invite another person for some reason. I swear I I'm not annoying, I'm easy to get a long with, I don't smell bad, I'm not judgemental, some say I'm funny. I just don't know what to do anymore, this is kinda killing me. Any advice?

2006-12-24 20:34:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't know what the problem is but when it comes to giving shes not giving at least not to me anyways. But I heard she was giving when it came to her last Boyfriend what should I do?

2006-12-24 20:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by mercedesinthehouse 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 20:29:47 · 18 answers · asked by unitedfaith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather date a country boy or a city slicker? Why?

2006-12-24 20:28:59 · 16 answers · asked by Whit 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 20:28:23 · 12 answers · asked by unitedfaith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When my new girlfriend asked me if i ever visited a hooker, should i have told the truth,even i have over fifty times,and see would have gone right off me,i lied and now feel guilty1

2006-12-24 20:27:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay here we go. I met someone a year ago on this day. I sent them a card. They contacted me and told me on the day that we met that they found their true love and they are happy and left it at that. Do you think they are being vandictive. The whole respond I recieved seem very brief and cold.

2006-12-24 20:26:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend "Johnny" and I got into a fight. He accused me of liking him, then his friend "Mark" who I am also friends with. But I had been talking a lot more to Mark online from about 10pm-2am. I have no interest in Mark. Then after I told Johnny I didn't like Mark over and OVER again, he told me I didn't like "Karl" the guy I do like. When I assured him I did like Karl, Johnny said he didn't believe it, and left the IM convo saying that I indeed like him, Johnny. Basically Johnny said I liked him, one of his best friends who I started becoming good friends with, said I didn't like the guy I like, then left off saying that I like him. Later he said sorry, and I forgave him. But got really weird when I asked why he did it. Something about how curiosity killed the cat. I dunno know, it was weird. Anyways, we're friends again, but everything is sort of awkward. So, tell me what you think. Any idea why he did it. He was one of my best friends, and I really want to fix this. Help?

2006-12-24 20:21:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 24 years old and i have a boyfriend who is 62 years old. He wants to make love- he's still strong but im scared and i would feel nasty if i do make love with him.

2006-12-24 20:19:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I apologize or anything about it?

2006-12-24 20:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know why women shave now a days. But what started it all. Why did women originally start shaving. Men now a days like shaved legs because thats what they are used to. But before women started shaving wern't men used to hairy legs. Why the switch???

2006-12-24 20:17:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a bf nd all we do is kiss - is dat how its supposed to be or shud we go farther

2006-12-24 20:16:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People are very visual. We like to see pretty people and will chose to hang out with a prettier person over an ugly person. This is a fact. However, there is also the realization that beauty if only skin deep and what really should matter is what is on the inside. But would you go out with a girl that was ugly, yet she was smart, kind, warm, social, and had alot of beautiful qualities?Or would you chose the more attractive girl? How important is physical appearance and how much time and effort should one put in order to look good. Please do not say that physical appearance does not matter, you are lying to yourself, since we are not blind and the first thing we see and judge, in other words our first impression of a person is based on their appearance.

2006-12-24 20:16:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are taking a friend on a quick trip to Vegas in three weeks, she's ill. We are all gal pals for many years and it will be a total of five. Her husband is going to join us now...that's fine, he's her hubbie. The dilema is, now he's invited a few men to come along ie: brother, Dad, best friend. We just wanted it to be a weekend for us together, as old girlfriends celebrating her life. What is up ? I'm sorry, but I findher hubbie controlling and ....I won't say more. This is it....she's not going to be around in a few Now some of the women want to cancel and I say bs. I've never experienced a more controlling individual and I've respected the union for years but this is it. BTW she wants to go but is a bit of a wallflower and always has been. What do you say? Serious answers only please. Happy Christmas.

2006-12-24 20:16:30 · 5 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Friends

2006-12-24 20:15:28 · 9 answers · asked by goldy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 20:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

erg, well for starters i broke up with my boyfriend after being together for 6 months, i deeply regret it, and i miss him so much.
And well my best friend, and him are also best friends , and i found out today she likes him, and he sure as heck acts like her likes her back.
I really want to be happy for them, but it's so hard.
I don't know if i should just keep it to myself and not say anything to my ex or tell him how i feel ..
I don't want to ruin anything or cause waves.
Any advice ..?

2006-12-24 20:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny** 2 in Singles & Dating

i do not have time for social life as my jobs hour is too long but i want to make a girl friend so that i can feel that i am alive

2006-12-24 20:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by orion 1 in Singles & Dating