should i tell the truth?

Question

When my new girlfriend asked me if i ever visited a hooker, should i have told the truth,even i have over fifty times,and see would have gone right off me,i lied and now feel guilty1

Answer 1

So, go to her and tell it now and tell her that you were afraid to own it at first because you were afraid that she would break up with you. Trust can only be gained with honesty and truth and if she cannot digest a nasty secret about you, she is not the one for you.

Answer 2

Ok, first of all, have you visited a hooker after you two have been together? Second of all, you shouldn't have lied.
The thing about the truth, is it's a way for you not to fix the past, but to plan for the future. We all do things we shouldn't have done, and yes, the past does hurt, but we can either run from it or learn from it.
But you can't build a relatioinship on a lie. If/when she were to EVER find out, you're relationship would more than likely be gone. Better to find out now...and from you...than in the future after you've worked on establishing a fake relationship. I'm not saying she is or isn't going to forgive you, but she'll be more than likely to forgive you now than in the future after she's put so much trust in you only to have it destroyed.
Good luck...

Answer 3

not really becuase if you tell the truth it going to be worse and she probably won t like you the best thing is don t tell her anything about you seeing a hooker just get rid of the hooker and be with your new girlfriend. All you have to do is don t let her find out anything about you being with a hooker hide all notes and numbers for her but i advice you to break up with a hooker and also if you have sex with them unprotected you should go and see a doctor before you get her any kind of disease.

Answer 4

A person should not really dig into a person's past. If you told the truth she would've been very upset guaranteed. The thought of my husband being with someone, a low down hooker would really infuriate me. I would be so upset even though I don't dig into his past if he had hookers in the past.

I don't know why see would even ask this question, maybe it is a trust question for you whether she can trust you? Maybe she has some trust issues with men? Who knows.

Your past is non of her business, yet she would be so upset if she found out the truth.

Answer 5

Geesh, you need a girl who understands sleezy guys.
If she is decent, you are a creep to lie to her and you are a creep to have seen hookers.
You definatly have issues that arn't fair to put on a decent girl.
She most likely deserves someone better than you are.

I suggest you make the decision to change. If you can't change then don't expect yourself to hook up with a wonderful gal. You will just hurt them. Get control of your addection before you go to any sort of relationship.

Should you tell the truth. I would say yes if you are still doing this.

I don't know, you really have blown your chances at a good relationship

Answer 6

One should be honest with his girlfriend/wife
One should have the courage to tell the truth
Even after knowing the truth she stays with you - you are confirmed that she loves you. If she wants to leave - then she may not be suitable for you.

Well you can ignore the no. of times you have visited hookers.

Answer 7

The truth does hurt sometimes. But it will hurt so much more when it is discovered later on. When it's about to be revealed, better you than others or than she herself do that job.

Answer 8

thats a tough one, if you already lied and she has a way of finding out the truth your s.o.l.! Take some responsibility for your actions and be a man!

Answer 9

That's because of sin, we sould feel guilty that's how it works. This is of course untill we repent of our sins and accept Jesus into our hearts. Then we can have a right relationship with God and other people.

Answer 10

Always tell the truth.