im 24 years old and i have a boyfriend who is 62 years old. He wants to make love- he's still strong but im scared and i would feel nasty if i do make love with him.
2006-12-24 20:19:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yuck..............
2006-12-24 21:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Why do you have him for a boyfriend in the first place if you feel that you can not have sex with him because you think he is too old and that it would be nasty. As far as sex is concerned it can be nasty with a guy of any age or delightful. It depends on the person and the way you feel about them. Don't do anything with anyone you don't want to..
2006-12-25 05:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, sex is not only for young people, so yes it is okay to sleep with an old man.
It sounds to me like you have some issues with this relationship, so you should probably consider all of them before sleeping w/ him. Why do YOU feel like sex w/ him will be nasty? I think that may be a warning sign to pass on it.
Maybe you like this man more as a friend-if so, then tell him. There is nothing wrong with taking more time to explore your relationship before you take that step.
Good luck
2006-12-25 04:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Honey27 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My biggest age gap while doing the nasty was Me: 21, Him: 59 (but he looked a bit older and I thought he was a bit older).
He was very experienced, gentle, goood. Still sexy to me when I look at photos of him.
But if u r scared maybe it's more than age difference. What are you scared of?
P.S. Guys at 62 can get u pregnant; they don't stop being able to get a woman pregnant unless they've had a vasectomy and follow-up checks. Just so u know.
2006-12-25 05:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by le païen 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well most old men that like younger like 24 are usually perverted not to be nasty ,rude,or mean but my frined when she was 18 she was dating a 70 year old and he always wanted her to wear diapers so he can play with her and its not right follow ur heart and that is nasty!
2006-12-25 21:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by hott m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will know if it is right for both of you, remember an age barrier is only what you make it to be. If you love him and he loves you, there shouldn't be a problem as long as your relationship is legal.
Don't worry about what anybody else thinks, if you are both consenting adults go for it.
2006-12-25 04:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Puck 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If the very idea of sex with him makes you feel nasty then why is he your boyfriend in the first place?
2006-12-25 04:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie R 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
If you feel uncomfortable then maybe you shouldn't. It doesn't make any sense to have sex with someone you don't feel comfortable with. C'mon think about it...you pretty much answered your own question! Good luck and best wishes...
2006-12-25 05:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he isn't too old to be your boyfriend, then he isn't too old to have sex with you either.
You've got to make up your mind. Is he really your boyfriend? Or are you just using him with false promises of a relationship and love?
2006-12-25 04:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Of course you can have sex with him. He's your boyfriend. He's just an older model. From the sounds of your question, you're just in this for the money, so you might as well start earning your money.
2006-12-25 05:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
That has to be your decision. ??? to you. Are you in this because you never had anykind of a father daughter relationship with your own dad or are you in it for the money.
2006-12-25 14:48:03 · answer #11 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋