Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

90% from guys aruond the world do secret habit.. even the married guys... so do u have any idea how to stop it?? i wanna got answer from someone who get over it. it's seruios,,no joking please.

2006-12-24 20:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by SAM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i did something really bad (its not related to sleeping with other girls) that hurt my gf feelings a lot...... what do i do 2 make things right. I know she loves me a lot but she hurt now..... i cant live without her.

PLEASE good ans only.

2006-12-24 20:00:21 · 4 answers · asked by M u Z z I 3 in Singles & Dating

women seam to think its the best time to make a point

2006-12-24 19:59:32 · 24 answers · asked by Carma 1 in Singles & Dating

When people ask me if I ever had a bf I tell them no. There like in shock because they always telling me how pretty I am and how boys would be over me. The truth is they don't hardly.

Im kind of shy but I always try to smile when I can, Im not afraid to smile. If someone starts talking to me or if I do it's easy.

Im just not one of those girls that the first time they meet you they have this bubbly personality. For me it takes a couple of days and I noticed guys don't give me a chance to. The ones that do sometimes I find out that they have gf's so it's a no no.

So why do they just give up so easily?

2006-12-24 19:56:25 · 15 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Singles & Dating

okay...im 14 years old and i live in MO...but im going out with this 16 year old who live in NV. I've known him for like 5 months and hes so sweet and nice and he knows everything about my life..hes the only one i love and he says the same to me:] he listens to me when everyone else ignores me. Hes my life. But i've never really SEEN him:[ i've talked to him on the phone but i havent seen his pic...hes told me what he looks like tho...I dunno what i should do...should i stay going out with him cause i really do love him or should we be over? How do i know he doesnt have some other girlfriend or something? For christmas he gave me his HEART:] and he wanted me to give him phone sex but i said i wasnt ready and he said he respected that...what should i do?

2006-12-24 19:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by kassity_boyd 1 in Singles & Dating

Actually I am in love with a man who is 20 years oolder than me.
The problem is I do not know this guy is just wanting me for sex or he actually likes me. He is 44 years old and he stares at my body alot .

2006-12-24 19:55:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My stepsons are 17 and 19 - and think the world owes them something. My wife is great but these kids do not say thank you, or make an effort to be friendly - nor does she make them. They ignore me and spend hours ((full wasted days) in front of the TV or computer while any extra help around the house is not given. Just venting but what do you think? Should I rock the boat and give them cr@p or lay low?

2006-12-24 19:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how can one recover password stolen from your messager , same on my email, someone is using it , when am in yahoo messager with my new id,i can see my previous id of my messager , somebody appearing online and offline , but currently i cannot access to it

2006-12-24 19:54:46 · 3 answers · asked by chrisnobell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i forget somone that love and love her but her parent sepreat us appart just because i from italy but i never love someone as much as i loved her and she left the state like year ago but i cant get her out of mind i know for sure that she love me but she have to listen to her ******* dad

it been year and half and i can't forget her eyes please don't tell me date because i try and the girls end fell in love with me but i still thinking about the other one
i know alot of girls and all have crudh on me but i'm only intersted in one person the
person that left alone


how can i change
how can i forget her how can i forget the most beatiful eyes i have ever seeeeeeeeen

how how how

2006-12-24 19:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live about 15 miles away from my g/f. I do not drive nor does she.
Lately she has been stressed out. In January I believe her father is going to jail. He is an alcoholic. She wants to spend time with him before he goes and all he does is drink. I understand how hard this can be. There are also a couple of other family problems going on. My fone has been shut off and the only way I can call her is with my moms fone. I may not see her (my mom) everyday so I cannot call my g/f everyday. she hates not knowing if and when I will call her. So Do I! She has been crying herself to sleep the past couple of nites...so have I... She said she does not want to hurt me and she hasnt. I want to stay with her. I care deeply for her. I do not think this is a reason to split and at christmas at that. What do I do to tell her this? It is just a rough time in her life that I have nothing to do with and she wants to split.

And what can I do to show that I truly would not be happy without her?

2006-12-24 19:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated this girl for four years and after everytime I get in a sexual encounter with another, I don't get excited or in the mood, the only time is when I am around my ex. How long does this last and will I ever be normal again, I want my mojo!

2006-12-24 19:53:15 · 5 answers · asked by nottoobad 2 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a 31 year old man but I am only 19. However, our relationship is not akward because I am very mature and he appreciates that. He wants me to visit with his family tommorrow but I dont know if I should go? I am afraid of what they will think and how they will treat me. Not to mention we are two totally different races which might make it a little more uncomfortable...

2006-12-24 19:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well soon to be girlfriend if im too fortunate.

First of all and the big thing is we are in a distant relationship. I gave her a gift on her birthday, a gift this christmas. She took it very well with thnx. But sometimes she's acting weird. The last time I talk to her, she was a little mad coz of a little conversation we had that i dont think its a big deal, shes so sensitive. SInce then, she never answered my call on a christmas eve even a text message.

Sometimes when i call, she never like to be talked when shes out like shopping, going to a parlor coz shes not comfortable with it. I told her about this and she said, you have to deal with it coz im like this, i even dont answer my mom's call, she said. If you cant deal with it, our relationship will never last.

In short, shes in a good mood in a minute but after few minutes she's bad and it cycles all over again.

Weird!

Is she hiding something from me? or is there other girls like that?

2006-12-24 19:49:31 · 19 answers · asked by benison_jerberson 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for nearly 8 months and we haven't kissed yet ... is that bad? i don't think it is but it seems like a long time and i know when the time comes i'll know it but i just wish it were sooner. and he's told me he wants to kiss me so bad and yet when i'm around him he doesn't kiss me... help please.

2006-12-24 19:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by cowboygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I did start a new project and now im seeking for people who like to chat and who like to meet new people... im searching for them everywhere but cant find anybody... where are people like that?

2006-12-24 19:45:48 · 3 answers · asked by explosivegrey 2 in Singles & Dating

i am so inlove with my guy friend who's been my date for almost a year now. i wanted to get serious with him so i asked him if we can have a serious relation(with commitment), i felst so bad when he told me he isn't ready yet and that he can't get serious with me..since then i started to stop texting him and started saying no to his invitations to go out and watch movie and have sex, but the thing is he is making me special still, i am confused..until now i still see him and my love for him is still there.what i'm afraid of is he might just be taking advantage of me and how i feel for him??should i dump him??how??

2006-12-24 19:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by tata 2 in Singles & Dating

Friends should be preferred to kings. False or true?

2006-12-24 19:45:11 · 1 answers · asked by raashi 2 in Friends

I have a thing about female feet and dominant women. My gf is pretty selfish, and we have had quite many fights over that. After lots of effort on my behalf, i have managed to bring a balance in the relationship, which i wouldnt want to destroy, taking into account weve been together for only a month and were trying to make the whole thing work. Im afraid if i tell her about my preferences i will blow everything up. But id love to find a "safe"way to tell her....what should i do?

2006-12-24 19:42:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so many things are going on these days, of course war, but also my parents are going through a divorce and, well lonley christmas this year. my friends dad jut dad, my grandfather left, my father hagging out with this weird lady who i absolutley abhor, and yet he still makes me hang out with. i need help trying to do things that will keep my mind off of these things. any ideas? also, do you have any idea how to tell a dad that you really love that you hate hanging out with his supposed "friend"?

2006-12-24 19:41:35 · 8 answers · asked by newsha d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some signs a shy guy will show you if he likes you?

2006-12-24 19:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 19:35:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To be frank: Id dump a woman if she gained a pound of weight. call me shallow, but i think its just fair, i stay in shape, why should she stuff her mouth with big macs? I no offense.,.. wouldnt it be gross to see her naked with all the flabs hanging in the side? what about the putrid sweat? strech marks here and there... is this out of desperation or is it true love. Im sure a lot of you will say, maturity.. but come on, do feelings really hide the Flabs??? I meant I cant imagine being with a fat woman. I go to clubs alot with my petite girl and i really wonder how dudes can stand dancing with a fat girl. How does He deal with all the Grossed out look in public?

2006-12-24 19:33:34 · 25 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy was sitting at a table by him self but he looked inviting, Would you talk to him ?
lets assume this is at a social place for example a local establishment that serves drinks.

2006-12-24 19:30:10 · 13 answers · asked by Joe 2 in Singles & Dating

I think alot about everything, ideas, religion, politics, I hold no beliefs and hardly any opinions, I base what I think on facts and what makes sense to me, I do, however, have emotions but never, well hardly ever, express them, at least not like other people. Because of this it makes it really hard for me to relate to other people and I have difficulty taking an interest in most people. Let me explain better, people, and i generalize, take interest in what celebrities do, what other people say and do, what happened to them today, and trivial things such as these. I don't know how else to say it but I really don't care about these things. It would be painful for me to try and have a conversation about me going to school and driving to work or what my friends did and stuff like that for more than about 2 seconds. Don't get me wrong, I love to do fun stuff, play sports, and go to clubs, but I guess i just have trouble with making small talk and connecting with people. Advice please

2006-12-24 19:29:01 · 10 answers · asked by Eric G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

For me, 2006. I got separated, my 25 years hubby left, he had had a 5 years relationship, unknown to me. My daughter left home and me, she hates me now, don't know why, really, I was left totally alone and broken, even my parents and sis dumped me.

2006-12-24 19:26:58 · 19 answers · asked by camadida 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For me, 2006. I got separated, my 25 years hubby left, he had had a 5 years relationship, unknown to me. My daughter left home and me, she hates me now, don't know why, really, I was left totally alone and broken, even my parents and sis dumped me.

2006-12-24 19:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by camadida 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of my "friends" constantly ask me for money or for me to co-sign for something or put my name on an account in promise they pay me back. I come from a very well-to-do family, and I work hard (in addition to save and invest wisely, build excellent credit, and live way below my means). I am considered a "tightwad penny pincher" by a lot of my friends because I am frugal but have a lot of assets. I paid a friend's probation off ($4,000 in cash) and never seem to ever get what I let people borrow back. I am set to a large inheritance and I'm afraid that my nightmare of beggers will never end. There is more to the story. I am 23 years old, and have more money than my friends in their forties. They resent it because of the age difference and I can do whatever in reason. I don't want people to know about my money. How can I hide my 'wealth' so friends can like me for me not because of my bank account and other assets? Please offer me some advice on this. Thank you in advance.

2006-12-24 19:26:19 · 21 answers · asked by Maria Gallercia 4 in Friends

im alone to nite praying to jesus and thinking about my pass things that i have done this year.some good and some not so good
have you ever sat down and gave this any though?

2006-12-24 19:25:49 · 6 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the best way to make you talk about eveything and u say the truth even ur bad things that u did ?? teach me how u can say eveything whats the way that i can make you say ??

2006-12-24 19:23:11 · 18 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Singles & Dating

My lad & i hav been 2gether 8yrs, 4 a while now hes been doin things which u shouldnt in a relationship.He crashed my brandnew car my mam got me(weve never had a new car b4) & becoz my mam payed 4 it it was difrent respect 4 car rules.Ive had others wot he damaged(&1s of his own).He takes drowsy substances sumtimes , more than he should, ends up in trouble doin sumthin stupid.I worry about his health,he has got an illness & i wonder if hes had bad news 2 set`him off,Hes only 31 & has had health probs from wen i met him,some hav got better,others hav appeared/got worse,Sum r gone.He moved out at my request,I'd like 2 get back 2gether if he could calm down, talk about wots goin on in his head so he can get help.Do u think seperation will help put things in perspective,make him think bout us or wil it make him worse.I really dont know wot 2 do this time 4 the best.Weve always lived 2gether.I worry i'l make him worse,he'l go on self distruct & we'l lose him 4 good-Any advice.I love him

2006-12-24 19:22:53 · 12 answers · asked by Poppypunto 4 in Other - Family & Relationships