I live about 15 miles away from my g/f. I do not drive nor does she.
Lately she has been stressed out. In January I believe her father is going to jail. He is an alcoholic. She wants to spend time with him before he goes and all he does is drink. I understand how hard this can be. There are also a couple of other family problems going on. My fone has been shut off and the only way I can call her is with my moms fone. I may not see her (my mom) everyday so I cannot call my g/f everyday. she hates not knowing if and when I will call her. So Do I! She has been crying herself to sleep the past couple of nites...so have I... She said she does not want to hurt me and she hasnt. I want to stay with her. I care deeply for her. I do not think this is a reason to split and at christmas at that. What do I do to tell her this? It is just a rough time in her life that I have nothing to do with and she wants to split.
And what can I do to show that I truly would not be happy without her?
2006-12-24 19:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your making this about you. Bad idea. Your worried about your own happiness. Instead of showing her you wouldnt be happy without her, show her your concern for her mental state concerning her familyproblems. Forget yourself and do what you can to help her. Worry about yourself later when shes stronger.
2006-12-24 19:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 miles isn't far to walk. . .
That being said, dress up in a big red suit and go to see her. Preferably entering through the chimney. I'm sure she'll have some milk and cookies to share with you.
Then, you can talk and talk and talk and work things out and it'll all be okay!
2006-12-24 20:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bobby, This is a terrible thing that is going on,specially on Christmas Eve. She is under alot of stress,just let her know that you care alot about her,and that you will be there if she needs you.Just give her, her space for now. She will be calling you.
Clowmy
2006-12-24 20:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to tell her the same what you just told us. I'm touched that you cry yourself to sleep, just because you care so much for her. Tell her this , tell her you wont give up on her.
I'm wishing you the very best and hopefully a wonderful Christmas :-)
2006-12-24 19:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u realy love her find a way to see here be there for her mentaly an emotionaly that is what gurls want we dont want to fight or any thing we just want te one we want and love to be there so all i can say is be there for her as much as poseble with out smothering her ther is a time were we do want to be alone so just try to understand but most important try to go see her as much as poseble and call her just to say i love u she will apreait in the long run ok
2006-12-24 22:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by rachelle g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound to young to handle a serious relationship - tell her you care but at this time in both your lives your not ready to hurt each other with childish temper tantrums and go your separate ways..
2006-12-24 20:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do? You break up. Everything you said says breakup for your own good.
2006-12-24 19:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on getting it on untill she goes.
2006-12-24 19:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
F CK HER IN THE NECK! KICK HER TO THE CURB AND FIND SOMEONE NEW
2006-12-24 20:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find nather
2006-12-24 19:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋