okay...im 14 years old and i live in MO...but im going out with this 16 year old who live in NV. I've known him for like 5 months and hes so sweet and nice and he knows everything about my life..hes the only one i love and he says the same to me:] he listens to me when everyone else ignores me. Hes my life. But i've never really SEEN him:[ i've talked to him on the phone but i havent seen his pic...hes told me what he looks like tho...I dunno what i should do...should i stay going out with him cause i really do love him or should we be over? How do i know he doesnt have some other girlfriend or something? For christmas he gave me his HEART:] and he wanted me to give him phone sex but i said i wasnt ready and he said he respected that...what should i do?
2006-12-24 19:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by kassity_boyd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, its bullsh!t. You can't be "in love" woth someone you've never looked in the eye. Sorry, Honey....
2006-12-24 20:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question. He is 16 and wants phone sex from a 14 year old. That amounts to verbal child molestation. Get out of this relationship and get out NOW. He's probably not 16, either. You need to watch NBC Dateline, they have specials every week called "To Catch a Predator". This sounds an awful lot like your "boyfriend". Haven't you ever wondered why he hasn't sent you a picture in the five months you've known him????
2006-12-24 20:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your parent know that? If so, you should never be together with him. If he was nice and sweet, you should appreciate this chances althought you have to keep this as secret from your parent. Most of the girl shouldn't get in love in your age but i think may be your country is different from mine. Try to look up or think wise again whether you want to be with this guy. Good luck
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2006-12-24 20:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by WEN1988_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
History records that hardly anyone ends up in a long term relationship with their first love. In your case you are pushing the statistics, when you have not even seen this guy, hence you do not know if he is heaps taller / shorter, has long hair / no hair, blue eyes / one eye? then there is the question of how does he picture you?...swap photos this way you will find out if he is a he...
2006-12-24 20:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful! He could be anybody and any age? Did you meet him online? If so there are a lot of sex offenders lurking to get to young girls. They start off getting to know you being sweet and then getting you to talk dirty and eventually meet them somewhere. They will come to you no matter how far they have to come. It is strange that he is so sweet and asking you to do something like that. That sounds like someone experienced. Honey please be careful. You are questioning him or you wouldn't be asking this question. Go by your instincts.
2006-12-24 20:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you go out w/ someone when you havent seen him yet?! anyways, maybe it's best to know the guy pesonally... meet him and hang out w. him. being in a relationship w. someone you havent seen yet is kind of risky... there's a huge possibility that he's telling lies just to woo you. just dont get too involved w/ him... remain friends w/ him but dont take things too seriously. you're still young.
2006-12-24 20:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds too creepy,get to know somebody you have seen.
2006-12-24 20:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋