i lost 3 kids and my wife last night how can i go on?

Answer 1

Lost em or just forgot where you left em?

Answer 2

Did you treat her badly or do anything wrong...?
My husband was abusive and I about left him but then decided to stay but I told him certain things needed to happen...

If you broke her trust or treated her badly then start by apologizing. If you have problems then SEEK COUNSELING. Tell her you are going to get help if you have a problem and then if you do love her think about why and let her know when you see her again.

If you don't know why she left then you need to ask her why and really talk to her to try to work it out.
Although it hurts that you lost your wife you may have hurt your wife more to make her or urge her to want to leave you. If she loves you she will forgive you for what you have done./ Just pray a lot and turn it over to god. She also is probably struggling and thinking about you after leaving.

Most likely she WILL come back soon but just hang in there and do your part to make her happy if you did something wrong or figure out why she left. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

u didnt say how u lost them,but if they left due to a change in your wife's heart, then a good start might be to do a mental inventory of yourself and see how u can improve. lose weight,gain weight, get fit. like what u r becoming better than what u were when she was with u.the saying"living well is the best revenge" is true. i did that when my x left me,and the positive changes helped me deal with the pain until it finally left.we all have things about ourselves that need improvement, and many people have used the pain of loss as the motivation to begin.if u r spiritual, lean on that ,as well ,to find strength. i lost a spouse to death and years later, i lost my second spouse to someone else.i used very similar stratagies-self-improvement,as well as a stubborn desire to live,and live well to cope .hopefull,u have friends and family to lean on at times.u might be surprised at how much inner strength u can find inside.really, u have only 2 choices-accept ,grow,and heal -or- wither away and just go through the motions of life until u die.and u really do have the power to make the choice to get past this .u must have already chosen to live well, because u reached out for help. best wishes

Answer 4

One foot in front of the other. Only time is going to heal you and reaching out like this really does help. Stay on this friggin computer until you pass out if need be. I am sorry for your loss. The reason why platitudes are so over-used is because they are true; one day at a time, one foot in front of the other, time heals, etc. They are all true. People are incredibly resiliant. We live through unbearable situations and sometimes I don't know how in the world we do it, but we do. Have faith. If not in a higher power, than in yourself and your ability to survive this thing. You will. It is horrible right now, but you will. Trust in that and hang on. Call some of those help lines and pour your heart out. No one will know and who cares if they do?

Answer 5

I am so, so sorry for your loss-- did they die? not that it matters, a loss is a loss and this is the worse time of year to go through this.

1. Do not be alone- go to any close family or friend and stay with them, if they are not around for the holidays- get to their house - no you wont feel like celebrating but you cannot be alone- you are mentally unstable whether you know it or not.

2. Call the crisis hot line- now- they will talk to you about what you just experienced- they will make arrangements for you- whatever you need done, and they will direct you to the correct agencies to help you get through this.

3. Unfortunately, we can only tell you - but you experienced it and we haven't words are just words- feelings are emotional knives that eat through your flesh and that is the reason you need to seek counseling. If they are deceased, I suggest you stay with family or a best friend- or check yourself into a hospital for observation for a few days- you cannot be left alone to deal with this-- no human being can be strong enough to handle this only.

I am so sorry for your loss, my prayers and thoughts are with you.

Answer 6

pieced together both of your questions and I want to say that I am sorry for your loss. I know that you must be going through 10 kinds of hell right now.
I pray that you find the strength you need to get through the next few days as they will most assuredly be some of the hardest you'll ever encounter. I pray that when you can finally "feel" your loss that God gives you a soft place to land.

Answer 7

I am so sorry to hear that.
Even though it might be really hard for you right now, you have to keep believing that everything happens for a reason. We might not know what the reason right now, but keep believing that If God allows this to happen to you, He is teaching you something right now.
Always keep in mind that God loves you. You may not see that right now, but He really cares for you. Talk to him, and ask for his guidance, and rely on Him. Keep praying to him and Hang in there.

Answer 8

I hope it's a joke,if not sry to hear that i lost my best friend 4 days ago.He passed in Binghamton General Hospital here in NY.59yrs old of cancer.

Answer 9

One day at a time. You'll make it. Lean on family and friends. Take care of yourself.

Answer 10

You don't say why or how you lost them. Maybe your question will be easier to answer if we know what you mean.

Answer 11

Aw my friend you should find peace and redemption in a bottle my friend.

I prefer to look in a bottle of Bud-light