What Do I do about a guy who hasn't communicated with me in 18 days?

Question

I met a guy back in January, but he lives in Texas and I live in California. We hit it off great, had a lot of things in common, and I fell in love with him which I told him 4 months after meeting him and he confessed that he loved me too. We would talk everyday for hours on the phone he would tell me about 10 times in one conversation that he loved me. The last time I talked to him was 18 days ago also his b-day. I have sent 4 text messages and 2 e-mails but he doesnt reply. I really thought he was the one!!! What do I do?? HELP PLEASE

Answer 1

may be he is busy with somthing, dont end communication from your end for atleast 1 month,after that try your best to figure out wats wrong if you dont succed,move on,coz time wont wait for you.

Answer 2

I think you two just had a fling. I think it's safe to say that you should try moving on and pushing him out of your mind. He could've found someone else, or is busy, or something happened. Anything is possible. I know guys who don't call is their way of saying "i'm not interested". I'd start moving on, it isn't common for a guy to not reply in 18 days who have your feelings at heart. I think he might just be telling you to leave him alone. I could be wrong, but that's what is coming off from his actions (i hang around guys a lot). Guys can't live long without physical action.

Answer 3

Humm I think first of all that this one got away--you didn't say how old you are but I am thinking maybe still in school?? If that's the case don't sweat it --and how do you know that he really did love you?? That's allot of distance to have never have met face to face--he could tell you anything--the internet and phone is a perfect smoke screen --you dont know how old someone is -if they are married or a freak for that matter---so just let it go for now and well be careful--

Answer 4

just give up. If he hasn't replied to 4 text messages and 2 emails he wont.

Answer 5

Here's what you should do! Forget about him and move on! If he does not talk to you in almost three weeks it means that he was playing you and that he is not interested in you. So go out and find someone else!!

Answer 6

Nothing.

Either no time ( on which he will contact within some days )
else not interested any more ( on which he will not report ).

Get a new friend on/after Sylvester (if You can) if he has not contacted You by then.

Answer 7

It's very possible he may be sick, or he may have lost his phone. Or if you're not...older...he may have gotten grounded and lost phone and computer privleges... Many things could have happened. Don't lose all hope, but don't center your world around him. There are other guys out there! Promise! -Alyssa

Answer 8

Long distance romances are very difficult, and it can be hard to keep them up. It sounds like he has found someone else, so it is time for you to move on.

Answer 9

But he is a flirt he doensnt love u.i know wat i said is strong.But thats wat it looks like to me as stranger.If he lives in texas i am sure he has some1 where he lives.try to remember when he excused himself and told u ,he will call u when he is free. may b that was the time was seeing that some1.There must be some pattern, like him telling u i am hanging with my friends...,talk to u later.Man if he dont talk u for 18 days.Either he is dead or he shud be dead to u.

Answer 10

why fall for someone so quickly??? i dont understand personally. i was taught that it takes at least 5 years to really know someone....i cant fall madly in love with someone i dont know or trust. you cant just put your heart out there to anyone. what do you know about him??? his family life? kids? wife? girlfriend? boyfriend?? financial status? occupation?? attitude on life?? goals in life??
what can you really know about this dude in 4 months???????