How do i get a girl that i LOVE but is taken,?
This girl ive known since september is beatiful, smart, and the is the world to me. In november she broke up wit her boyfriend of 2 months. I really never talked to her so i started to and we talked about evrythin. I felt comftorable around her since she was single. This past weekend on saturday i was gonna make my move then she hooked up wit her old bf. This made me so mad because the first time he jus let her go and found a new girl the next week. she was so sad and i was so mad. i got to know her more than when i wanted to make my move she hooked up wit her old boyfriend, As a friend i told her that i care about her and will protect her. I told her to becareful wit this guy. I wanna tell her so bad but i dont want to be a jerk. I love the girl but im not sure if i should say my feelings to her cause i dont want to seem like a jerk and ask her while she has a man. Cause she mite think im desperate
2006-12-24 16:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep being her friend, and support her in whatever she does. This way, whenever her boyfriend is a jerk, she will think of how much nicer you are. If you build a good friendship with her now, you will have a better chance at getting with her later. If she can confide in you, you're the one she'll be running to when things dont work out with the other guy.
2006-12-24 16:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by oldgranny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go after any one who is with someone already even if you think they are in a bad relationship. If she does leave him for you then you are now with a cheater. You really have not known her long enough for this to be true love so it kind of sounds like obsession to me. Find someone who is free from all entanglements and work on that.
2006-12-24 16:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time n wait 4 the chance.u can't simply complain her about her x b/f,u just behave like a gentleman to impress her that u r open-minded.constant contact to build up ur relationship with her is very important,even a simple "hai,how r u" is enough either thru' phone,sms or email.u've no right so far to stop her as she's just a friend.she got her right to choose 4 her future MR RIGHT.
best wishes.
2006-12-24 16:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her then your taking a chance of actually being a little desperate because love stuff like that though. but i think you should hate on her boy friend by talking smack about him to her and make sure you let her know that you are trying to get with her and roll tha dice and see what happens. but cross your fingers and hope she dont like him like that,.
2006-12-24 17:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u just need to be there..and if this guy hurts her just show her..that u care and just be urself...so she can see how much of a better guy u are and how much u care for her and that ur not going to let him hurt you but yea go ahead and tell her how u feel of course if she wants u or realizes how good u are then shell come to u if she doesnt..u can give it time..or u can move on but dont push her wat ever u do its not gonna work..its just will make her mad so yea...and GOOD LUCK! :)
2006-12-24 16:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by NotCliche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till after she breaks up with him and still be her best friend and make sure your always there for her.
2006-12-24 16:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by taylerkiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure it's love and not lust? If you think it's love, tell her how you feel..I don't care what anyone tells you..Always be honest..it will never turn around to bite you later.
2006-12-24 16:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by brian. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try and move on. good luck, marry christmas and have a happy holidays
2006-12-24 16:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋