what do u do when u love some one so much but tha person u love just keeps on hurting u?

Answer 1

I suffer the joy...

Answer 2

You need to come to terms with who you are and what you are about. If you are about being a victim. by all means stay where you are. On the other hand, if you are into using a more logical approach, why don't you realize that no matter how much you convince yourself that you love this person, it doesn't make much difference to him. He is hurting you because you just don't get the message that he is just not into you anymore. All that you have to lose at this point is self respect because you are throwing your feelings away on someone not worthy of them. Wake up and find someone who reciprocates your feelings. Remaining in the "needy state" makes you appear unattractive and you need to quit wasting time and find someone else. Make the choice and take back control of your life.

Answer 3

Talk to that person, offer to go and get help from a counsel with that person or move on. If the person you care about doesn't care enough about you to work out any thing that stands in the way of happiness, you need to find that someone who does. Love should be a two way street. Some people think they can do what ever they want and make you last on their list of priorities.

Answer 4

if u were me and the person keeps on hurting me i would just try to settle things and if they keep on hurting me i would tell them to keep away from me because any time i fall in love with someone they hurt me some how.

Answer 5

i'm going through the same thing. hate it when guys do that. anyways. to teach him a lesson, i'm not calling him or emailing him. i'm just gonna forget him cuz i know that he'll miss me cuz he knows that he'll never find some1 who will love him as much as i love( or loved, i'm not sure yet) him. i know that he'll realize it. so maybe u can try it. until he realizes this, just look for some1 else who will appriciate the love u'll give him cuz u might find ur soul mate ( and he might not be the one u were waiting for). just forget him. it'll work. hey, i found some1 who loves me and wants me so bad (unfortunatly, i'm not over my ex yet). anyways. goodluck. hope he appriciates u. happy holidays

Answer 6

I ended up walking away which hurt too but after time the pain goes away and you find someone better.

Answer 7

aww it particularly is that the type of unhappy tale as you the two decide directly to be together yet are prevented from doing so, i in basic terms decide directly to bang your heads together as i think of you deserve one yet another regardless of each thing the failings you have been by. additionally i definitely enjoyed the way you seen her emotions and gave her time to pay interest on her paintings and family members that's troublesome yet particularly considerate. particularly i think of you will desire to tell her precisely the way you sense and enable her understand that she needs to decide on as you have been waiting for to long and you the two love one yet another so what are you waiting for and enable her understand that she shouldnt be with somebody in the event that they dont make her happy. stable success xx

Answer 8

well the same thing is happening to me right now it sucks i dont think you cant do much about it well you can try to froget about him and stop thinking about him but i dont think it will help that much but this is how i think somebody well come better later on thats all i can say.

Answer 9

there is a thin line between love and hate

who do you want to love, do you want to love yourself for being strong and move on and hate him for hurting you?

or do you want to love him and hate yourself for staying and being with him

think about it

Answer 10

try your best to send him packing! you're blinded by the 'love' to see that it's not working out

Answer 11

keep loving the person till I can't take it no more...