What turns a girl on the most? What makes her love you?

Question

I've been trying to get a girlfriend for years, I'd say since kindergarten. I'm in 10th Grade and STILL can't get one! They say I'm sweet, but what do they REALLY think?

Answer 1

Hey there! I'm a sophmore too, so I can understand where you're coming from with your question. Sadly it is true that nice guys usually get ignored or overlooked, but if you have one girl in mind you're trying to get here are some ideas (things I love when my guy does!)
1.) Compliment her out of nowhere!
2.) Balloons, or even a short sweet note
3.) Crack jokes if you know she has a good sense of humor
4.) Be yourself!!!
5.) Don't try to be a player or act immature, just act your age, be mature, and stay calm, cool, and collected.
6.) Get to know her, favorite music, books, heck, even favorite store can earn you some major points!
7.) Don't be a stalker! lol. Just talk to her whenever the opportunity is present!
8.) And for the love of God, DO NOT FORGET HER BIRTHDAY! Even if the girl you're crushin on has a boyfriend, a nice birthday card will show her you really care, and that could help dramatically in the future!

Hope this helps! Just kep trying. All girls think different, promise. Be sweet, caring and funny, but do not stalk or obsess over her. I wish you the best of luck! -Alyssa

Answer 2

If the guy confidence seems perfect in almost every way, that what really turns on a girl most. Not really the sweetness like giving flowers or chocolates, not even the good looks, it's about a guy's attitude that naturally comes out.

Answer 3

When I say a guy is sweet, I usually mean it. that's just girl code for I think he's nice, but he's not my type. to my friends though, when they say a guy is sweet, they think he is too sweet. Most girls want a rough neck, a bad-boy. The type of guy that good girls don't associate with. Hope that helps a little. Good luck. You'll get a girl...More than likely

Answer 4

Girls are very picky and finicky. Girls in your age group begin to want older boys, such as 12th graders, or even college boys. And for some reason, they never out grow it. In addition, they tend to get attracted to the bad boys, the one's that mother tells them to stay away from. The fact that girls are telling you you are "sweet" is just a girls way of saying she's not interested. But she will more than likely have you as a friend. My suggestion, is become a bad boy. Flirt with girls, and learn to lie. Girls are more attracted to the nearly impossible, than the plain and true.

Answer 5

Well if girls are just telling you, you are sweet then more then likley you come off like a pushover. girls do not like push overs girls want a guy who makes them feel safe and sexy.
And you cannot make a girl love you. Just be yourself, you want to be loved for who you are Dont search for love and dont try to force it on yourself or anyone else you are young and you have a lot of life to live... im sure you will meet someone some day who will make you very happy

Answer 6

Girl's are mean and tough in 10th grade. Just wait until you get a LITTLE older I guess. But just be yourslef....thats all i can really say.

Answer 7

Something about a guy has to stick out. He has to have something that seperates him from the rest. Me personaly i love creativity and different forms of art. But not like painting, more like music or poetry. most of all the have to BE THERE SELVES

Answer 8

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Answer 9

sweet talk her