so I dated this german girl before, actually i didnt really like her. I used her for "getting some" she was nice looking and all but shes absolutely boring. She went back home, and we continued to have a "relationship" i lead her on to believe that i still wanted her, 6 months after that, she came back to visit me. It was 2 weeks of hell for me, when she left, i decided to just lose contact. Ok its been about a year, and im thinking of her. I wonder if should call her an explain myself, maybe just be friends with her. do u think thats a good idea, or should i just leave her alone. you know, she was nice and all the me, but shes just not the gf material. I was too nice to tell her so..
2006-12-24 15:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess you could call her and try to apologize. It might work. Don't expect it to though, she has every right to be mad and to never want to see or hear from you again.
2006-12-24 15:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. He likes you! Disregard how he's acting with other girls if he acts much more flirtatious with you. He lied through his teeth to your friend. Guys are going to lie to the friend of a girl he likes if it's obvious that she's going to relay what he's said to the crush. He'd probably only tell her that he likes you if she and him were really good friends first (before you were in the picture). He's either an obnoxious best friend or this guy has a HUGE crush on you. When the two of you are together go up to him and say, "so when are you going to ask me out?" This will work. It'll give him the opportunity to know that you like him and that you're giving him the chance to act on his current behavior. Make it happen. Take this advice because it works (it's worked for me and some of my close friends).
2016-05-23 05:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it alone because, I mean I've done something like that before (not proud of it), if you call her back you might hurt her again and think about it would you want to be put in that situation?
2006-12-24 15:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by the_man11215 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good idea to call her and talk to her but I doubt that she would want to talk to you again, still try to get in touch with her but not too much or else she'll thiink that you want to get back together with her. It would be the nice thing to do.
2006-12-24 15:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You used her for sex, knowing that you didn't care for her as a girlfriend, much less a future wife.
Do her a favor.... leave her alone. You don't deserve even a friendship with her and she deserves to move on in her life to guys who are not lowlifes.
Sue
2006-12-24 15:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG ! in what world are you living... i can't believe you say you "were too nice to tell her she's not gf material"
2006-12-24 15:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by . 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Way I see it you have gotten what you deserve. Best for both of you to just let it die and go on
2006-12-24 15:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her back if you're just going to hit it, but otherwise no.
2006-12-24 15:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would call her backa nd tell her what happened.....she might get pissed at u at first but at least u told her the truth and maybe u guys will work it out after talking and u can be friends!
2006-12-24 15:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't call leave her alone!!
2006-12-24 15:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋