My bf and I were on and off 3 times during our one-year-long relationship(we are long distance).I made big mistakes by chasing him back and making things easy for him every time. I thought i was being considerate but he was losing respect for me although i have lots of admirers and he's not a ladys' man.I think the main reason i love him so much is b/c he is my 1st bf;i wanna work it out. 2 weeks ago we broke up again. It's his finals week,he's under a lot of stress and i called too much. i got mad when he didnt pick it up and didnt return the call and when i confronted him with it he got even more stressful(since he's not been doing very well in college).Before the final, he's all that he loves me so much and all of a sudden he's like i cant see a future with you and i want out before it has the potential of lingering around forever(i'm also his 1st gf).This time i'm definitely not gonna beg or call him or chat online first,i wonder if he'll ever come back to me after say 2 months?
2006-12-24 15:06:02 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And he likes to play games too. Even if he wants me back, in his text message or voice mail to me, he always sounds non-chalant and keeps it short, always trying to play cool and waiting for me to initiate the first move!
2006-12-24 15:08:37 · update #1
Just leave him alone...
If there is love between you two, everything will add up by itself.
Do nothing. You will find out.
2006-12-24 15:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by the.buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bf treats you like a jerk, why do you go back for more? Find someone that treats you with respect. Remember, there are better prospects out there, if you take the time to look.
2006-12-24 15:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Michael T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will definatly come decrease back, yet you should be good, this is the las time, you cant be that one which will constantly provide in to him, he's an ***, and hes taking great thing approximately you, enable him pass, recover from him, theres hundreds of thousands of fellows obtainable, it will be much less complicated for you in looking yet another guy. you ought to recover from him, and the only thank you to do it quite is TIME. provide it time and you gets everthing you deserve. in case you enable him come decrease back than you're able to pass over that one guy which will take care of you like the queen you quite are. Time. good good fortune
2016-11-23 16:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by dextra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build on your inner strength, self esteem, and confidence. He may feel smothered by your clingy behavior. Apologize and take a step back. Let him breathe and gain control of his studies. Good luck and know that at this point he must choose whether or not to continue this relationship.
2006-12-24 15:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by firestarter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, nope, nope. Move on. You don't need a guy that treats you like a jerk. Breaking up and getting back together is not healthy!
2006-12-24 15:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, wake up and smell the coffee. This is a dead-end situation, you might as well accept it and move on. I'm betting you can do alot better, have faith in yourself.
2006-12-24 15:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by harlowtoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, gurl. a guy like that doesn't deserve a girl like you. go out with your friends and have a good time
2006-12-24 15:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's over. might be best for the two of you to have some real time apart. anyways good luck.
2006-12-24 15:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by snowteller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na, moving on would be the best for both of you.
2006-12-24 15:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by krazy_deviltry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you already know what you need to do you don't need everyone to tell you move on.give me 2pts
2006-12-24 15:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋