2006-12-24 16:19:52 · 21 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh by the way... I wasnt asking for me, I'm a virgin. I just wanted to know what people thought was more important in a sexual relationship to feel love or to feel loved.
2006-12-24 16:29:18 · update #1
well since that isnt always possible I'd say its more important for you to love them and atleast have there respect so atleast you'll know there not disrespecting you, But i'll tell you when you both love eachother wow let me tell ya again wow is it good and so much better Kim
2006-12-24 16:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best is if you both feel the same way... either you're both in love, or you're both just looking for some lovin'.
If it's going to be unequal, it's going to be a harder experience for the person who loves than the person who doesn't. I would never sleep w/someone who loves me but who I do not love.
2006-12-25 00:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Craigs Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this little motto, it is ours and it works well: "Sex washes off but Love lasts forever"
Sex is fun and you don't have to love someone to have sex with them. If you do love someone, sex is still fun with the one you love as well as with others.
Swinging is one of the better ideas for keeping a marriage happy and interesting. After awhile many marriages become stale and loose sexual interests...Swinging keeps the love light burning well at home! But always remember the little motto I gave above... it works!
2006-12-25 00:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH!!!! And you need to be happy with yourself and your life. Never let someone make you feel better about yourself by sleeping with someone. That is the wrong message to be sending to that person and to yourself. First love yourself, them find someone to love and make sure they love you too, not by words, but by action, before you even think about sleeping with them. Then make sure you are protected against pregnancy and STD's.
2006-12-25 00:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by doris_38133 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with someone you love. This way at least you wont regret later if he turns out to be an ******** who "claimed" that he loves you intiailly - You'll feel cheated.
Look at it this way, you don't gain anything from sleeping with someone you have no feelings for... you don't gain $, u don't even gain love cause you don't feel for him. Get my point? Hope i wasn't too harsh.
2006-12-25 00:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Chips 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mutual understanding to enjoy common interest is very important,as long as u love it go ahead both of u 2.
best wishes n Merry Christmas.
2006-12-25 00:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need them to feel the same way I do. It's not worth it to sleep with someone who won't put their heart into it.
2006-12-25 00:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course.How can ou stomach somebody touching you, and you don't love them. That's just like letting the janitor on your officesleep with you just because you know them.
2006-12-25 00:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by binibining pilipina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both... You must love him, and he must love you back the same amount as you love him. It works much better if you are married
2006-12-25 00:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody will probably give different answers to this, but for me, both are equally important and both have to be there in order for me to be emotionally ready for sex.
2006-12-25 00:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋