I'm 21 years old and my b/f is pressuring to lose my "V", he said if I didn't let go of it quick he will drop me! So I dropped his azs was I wrong for letting him go?
Be honest and no kid sh^t okay grown up converstaion and I want up front and straight answer?
2006-12-24 16:19:04 · 24 answers · asked by Callie B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not wrong at all, infact quite right. I have 2 daughters who are in their teens and just hitting the dating scene. If it were them I would tell them the same thing. As bad as you might feel now your "V" is something you only have until you give it alway, and once you do it's not something you can ever get back. There's a song out right now called S.E.X. by Lyfe Jennings, you should give it a listen.
2006-12-24 16:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by gizzy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you were right. In a relationship so much more time is spent on things besides sex that if he was going to drop you for not losing the V than it probably would have ended eventually anyway. Why waste time on something bound to fail? Who knows what may have passed you by during that time.
2006-12-24 16:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mistervision2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No girl , go on head and drop him. He's just trying to get in your pants, lose it when you are ready and when you feel the time is right , because there honestly has to be a right time!....He's no one....and shouldnt be anyone in your book because he just wanted some cutty. Stay true to yourself and regardless if a man threatens to break up with you or this or that, they are NOT worth your time. Your body is your temple respect it and do as YOU please!
2006-12-24 16:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Esmi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. A true man would never of threatened you like that. There are too many great guys out there. Wait until you love someone so much YOU want to share everything with him. You'll know when it's time - it will be intense love, not threats, that will be your deciding factor in sharing yourself with someone.
2006-12-24 16:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by honey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he really gave a damn about you you would not have back you into a corner and you did the right thing by dumping his *** if you arent ready to lose your virginity don't because all these guys are looking for is sex and once they get get it they move on to the next so don't even think about him any more keep your head up and know that you did the right thing.
2006-12-24 16:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Your first time should be special and given up willingly. If you weren't ready, you weren't ready and there was nothing wrong with that. Find yourself someone that respects you and your decision to hold off on sex until you are ready.
2006-12-24 19:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes leaving him was for the best. If he was that immature to try and force you into something that was more for his benefit then you did the right thing. Most guys are to selfish and girls get caught up in his bullsh*t. Good luck finding someone who will respect you body as well as you mind
2006-12-24 16:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by carl_weathersby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....yeah I might be only 16,but no guy should tell you when your ready to lose your "V"...I am so serious,and if some guy doesn't respect you for having morals then guess what girl....FORGET HIM.....so of course not...you were far from wrong but dropping him....I am proud of you even if no one else is behide ya...
2006-12-24 16:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you got it right by kickin his butt to the curb. its something you can only loose one time make sure that time is right for you . most men like the idea of being your first ,sex is a large step in a relationship i think its great your waiting. btw 4 of my daughters agree . the rest are off with their familys and friends this eve
hun when its the right time you will know
2006-12-24 16:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by dawn_horger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't pressure you into doing something you didn't feel you were ready for.
2006-12-24 17:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by p00mkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋